4 Simple Tips for Those Who Fail to Live

How often do you say to yourself, "I can't do anything," "I'm very busy," "why is he only 24 hours a day?" If assault work and deadlines often overwhelm you, that's a sign that you're not good at planning. Follow a few simple rules that will make your life easier.

Controls

Man has complete control over his life. Even when the impression is that the circumstances are to blame, the lack of choice and control. If you're upset and don't have time to rest, this is your choice. Even if you did it unconsciously. So let's take control of life.

Review your decision-making algorithm

What are you relying on? Most often on the opinion of the majority on the pressure of a man of authority. Be aware of this and return the right to make YOUR own choice.

Set your employment limits.

For example, make a new rule that you will not work on weekends. Don't be afraid to live and act according to this rule - don't be afraid to refuse!

Go deeper

Everything that is most beautiful to man does not happen to him when he flies from flower to flower, without concentrating and delving into a single object. The miracle happens when we slow down, stop our gaze, then our attention, and then our senses on one thing. Then comes true friendship, and happy relationships, and your favorite job, in which you are a professional and which brings you the feeling of satisfaction and everything else.

It is in the moment that you deepen, you get into the essence of things, then you are ready to distinguish the whole range of feelings: curiosity, strong joy, contemplation, and happiness. Then our senses take on color, thinking can give you new creative ideas and process a larger volume of information.

You don't have to be like Alexander the Great, who did many things at once. Focus on the "here and now" moment, feel the moment, notice the joy, and emphasize its intensity.

Very often people complain that they have a boring life. There are no interesting people and captivating concerns. It's like sitting on the shore with a pot in your hand and waiting for the fish to jump into it alone. These people take a passive position, "I'm not interested, what can I do?" You can and should do something about it.

Learn to enjoy yourself, you need to learn this skill step by step. Train and automate your "joy" muscle! Only a man's perception depends on whether he will enjoy a sunset or not. So, friends, try to observe and enjoy. I agree, the first, third, tenth time you might think you're fake, clumsy.

But later you will notice how you will want to stop and contemplate the sunset! Then you will be able to claim a colossal victory over yourself. The same Alexander said that no victory on the battlefield compares to a victory over you - this is a real triumph.

Focus your attention

Most often the day passes in a senseless agitation. People dare to do a million small and insignificant things and do not focus on one thing for too long. It's a big mistake. British scientists (* sarcastically do *) say that it is much more effective to identify what works best for you and what you can do better than others, and to focus on this occupation.

In percentage ratio, the picture is as follows: 80% to 20%. 20% is given to agitation and social networking. By the way, when it comes to social networking. Don't start your day with reading email letters and network profiles! Dedicate the first hour of work to an important article or project, report, or significant discussion. At an activity of 80%, which you do well.

Act

If you "swallow" books on time management, but continue to sit in the chair without doing anything, then nothing will change. Do you know in which case this article could fall into the category of "another one", "yes, it's very good, I'll try on Monday"? When inertia, passive attitude, and fear prevail in your life and personality.

You have to say "done and done" to yourself. Have the courage not to be like everyone else. Don't be afraid to stand out. Don't be afraid of criticism. One day you have to take the first step towards a more efficient and colorful life on your own.

Friends, agree, these are not fantastic tips. They are for everyone. No man cannot fulfill them. Each in his way, in his way, but we can all make a little effort to improve our lives. So that in the chaos and daily routine we find time to live. That's exactly what I wish you all!