sexual wellness

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Virginity
I don't understand why people make such a big deal about maintaining or the lack there of maintaining your virginity. Over the last few days I've come across multiple articles talking about people who didn't lose their virginity until their later years or still haven't. In these stories, the adjectives sad and lonely always seem to be paired to them and I'm over it!
By O8 years ago in Filthy
Boys Like to Fuck... But Girls Don't?
I was 16 when I lost my virginity. In my best friend's little brother's bed as she slept away downstairs. It wasn’t terrible. But it wasn’t brilliant either. I didn’t cry or bleed or wither in pain. I simply took it. Which led to a long time of taking it (and giving it too. I’m not the sort to simply lie about as the boy does all the work. No way Jose.)
By Little Wanderer8 years ago in Filthy
The Do's and Don'ts of a Tasty Vagina
Your pressed up against the wall, tongues intertwined as he jams his knee between your thighs, while sensually groping your breasts. He watches your face as it lights up with delight and smirks as he realizes the control he has over you every movement. He teases you ever so gently and then gives you a bit more until you can’t take it anymore, his knee soaked by your juices. He kneels down ripping your panties to the side as he slips his tongue as deep as he can without your vagina swallowing him whole. Those few seconds between the time he kneels down and slips his tongue inside are literally the scariest and longest seconds to every girl, regardless of how comfortable she may be with her sexuality.
By Erika Potap8 years ago in Filthy
Just Ask
Most women have experienced the fumbling, callous, bruising touch of an inexperienced man. It is often apparent long before any clothes come off: the tongue thrust down an unsuspecting throat, the grip of fingers on a tender waist, words that are growled right out of a porno script regardless of the earlier ordinary conversation. If a woman likes a guy enough, they might tolerate it in the hope of training the guy later. Otherwise, no one is leaving that situation happy.Yet, from everything that I have seen or heard from my long-time single male friends, they never mean to hurt or discomfort their partners. If anything, they desperately want to please their potential partner—if only just so that they can keep seeing that person.Despite that desire, men often mangle their first physical interaction wit. I don't think it is just a matter of getting carried away in their desire to be satisfied. Instead, I think that these men have a very confused idea of what is expected of them in a physical relationship.
By Haybitch Abersnatchy8 years ago in Filthy
Health Benefits of Masturbation
Up to 95 percent of men and 89 to 92 percent of women masturbate, it’s probably safe to say that no one really needs much convincing to keep doing it. Yep, I am going there. So if you are one of those people whom are slightly squeamish and don’t approve of this topic than please avert your eyes. Thank you because I am diving into this one head first, so to speak. And yes I will cover the health benefits for men. However, since I am a woman I will start with the women first. For instance; It has been proven that masturbation has many health benefits. For women, masturbation can help prevent cervical infections and urinary tract infections through the process of "tenting," or the opening of the cervix that occurs as part of the arousal process. But let’s get into some fun facts for you men out there:
By Alyssa Horn8 years ago in Filthy
Can I Be Me Sexually?!
What do you like, what turns you on?! That's the question or should I say the first of a series of questions. As a woman, do you like your ass fingered while he fucks you hard while you're in a doggy style position? Do you like your ass plugged while he sucks/practically swallows your clit? Maybe you're into watching lesbian porn while he whispers sexy things in your ear and plays with your wetness till you cum....maybe you go a bit farther and use costumes, toys, ropes & handcuffs. Do you film it in some type of way (Speaking of which I've written two blogs on the subject recently called Make Love to Me...In Front of the Camera?! and In Front of the Camera We Freak!....yes I know...shameless plugs). Does it turn you on to do it in public? (Pull Up N Cum Again!) That way, the possibility of someone watching you can come into play therefore heightening your lust to another level ( I Watched You...).
By Kai Storm8 years ago in Filthy
Auto: Chapter 3
Autoeroticism There were undercurrents, of course, other factors than the feeling of being trapped and limited. Elements of freedom. And the erotic has always been the key one for me. Since P6, aged 9 or 10 (this is when I first became aware of such an aspect of the self). I remember when I connected the dots about sex, when it became something tangible. No doubt inspired by whispered words and giggles in primary school, I needed to know what this word signified.
By Otto Nimm8 years ago in Filthy
Anal.
I've always been afraid of the 'A' word.. against it.. knew that I would not like it. I always thought that men enjoy it because their G spot is in there. Where as a woman's is not. So whywould I want to try something that I know most probably wouldn't be the most comfortable of situations I've put myself in.
By Rainbows Have Nothing To Hide8 years ago in Filthy
How I Got Over My Vaginismus
At the young age of 17, I had sex for the first time. It wasn't glorious nor was it life changing, but it was fun and exciting—until my boyfriend couldn't get more than an inch inside of me. I was shocked at first, but then upset. I had been dreaming about this day since I was very young. While I did stop dreaming for awhile when I started hitting puberty, the dreams came back in full force by the time I was 13 and had my first boyfriend. Now with my second, I believed I was ready for sex and wanted to have a go. But it turned from a fun time to me crying over the fact that I couldn't please him or myself sexually. Although we didn't finish the act, the next day he was halfway inside of me and I counted that as my first time. I was still frustrated with myself though, and I tried fingering myself often to stretch myself out.
By treee8 years ago in Filthy
15 'Big O' Facts That Will Shock You
When I first began researching for this article, I was unsure what I was going to find. We spend so much time online for work, school, and stalking (I mean networking) that we rarely have time to browse random subjects that are not only amusing, but informative. Like seriously, do you think in between cooking and cleaning that I get to Google, "orgasm facts"? Um, NO, but that doesn't mean I don't want to learn about them! Luckily, I have a kick ass writing gig that allows me to further my knowledge in all things wacky and random and share it with the world. Say for instance, the world record for most female orgasms enjoyed in one hour or how about when the first vibrator was invented? So while you may not need this orgasm lesson you are about to receive, I'm pretty sure you're going to enjoy it. Here are 15 hilarious, shocking, comforting, and scientific facts about the Big O.
By Jus L'amore8 years ago in Filthy
Time Stands Still. Top Story - October 2017.
This wasn’t the first time I was meeting Jacob. I have Skyped a few times with him, just to get a better idea of what he was like before I decided to go and shoot with him. We went over ideas, wardrobe, themes, and decided to go with an American Apparel type feel of a shoot. So yes, this was the first time I was going to meet him physically in person, but I wasn’t shy. Just a little reserved at first, as I usually am.
By Aurea Gonzalez8 years ago in Filthy
Self Worth and Why I've Chosen to Wait
Out at brunch, drinks before going out, late-night drives, and midway through an extravagant eye shadow look; my fellow lady friends would ask “when are you going to lose your virginity?” Being the sarcastic, (self proclaimed) witty girl of the group I would often reply things such as “well from no fault of my own” or “not from a lack of trying” and my personal favourite “ask me again after tonight.” We would all laugh and I would yet again dodge the question, which interestingly seemed to concern others far more than myself. I would often wonder "when" and "who" parodying the queries of my female counterparts.
By Hannah Swazzi8 years ago in Filthy