sexual wellness
Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.
What My 'Sex Talk' Should Have Been
A little disclaimer before we get started: I am so grateful to be a woman in this day and age. Yes, there is still too much inequality going on, but never before could a woman so openly talk about sex, birth control, periods, and female anatomy as we can today. I was raised in a very old-fashioned household, and I was left completely in the dark about my womanhood. My parents wouldn't let me go to sex ed class, and the topic at home was swept aside with, "Wait until after you're married." To be completely honest, I knew absolutely nothing about my vagina until I was eighteen (and even then, I was taught by a boy I met online…but more on that another time). I don't know about you ladies out there, but because I had to learn "on my own," I made mistakes that have greatly impacted my life. I don't want this to happen to anyone else, so I hope you parents out there read this with an open mind.
By Kathryn C. 8 years ago in Filthy
Sex Positions for Dominant and Submissive Females
Rocco Siffredi once said I am the most submissive girl he has ever met, a compliment that I will take to my grave. Submissive by nature, I used to not even have the capacity to switch. The thought of being dominant during sex was so alien to me, it was a concept I struggled with. In my private life I was controlled, told what to do, I enjoyed obeying, I enjoyed being praised.
By Samantha Bentley8 years ago in Filthy
All the Things I Wish Someone Told Me About Sex
Let's start with a bit of background. I grew up in Texas, meaning my sex education was already lacking. The most memorable thing from that class was not even the curriculum, it was how uneducated my peers were in what I thought was common knowledge, double wrapping, the pull out method, and how STDs are transmitted. I remember a kid honestly thinking homo sapien meant we were calling him gay. So I decided to go out and get the information for myself. First off seeing as my teacher was an older male he even admitted to being uncomfortable teaching us about what sex would do to our female bodies. So I turned to the internet as a high school freshman fearing the day that I would have to fling myself into womanhood because all the adults in my life said it would hurt and that I was giving away the most vulnerable part of myself. Even my mother with her purple dyed hair and her seemingly accepting nature had me convinced that sex was not to be happily anticipated. But the years went by and I realized there was nothing to be afraid of, so I delved deeper into the internet's cornucopia of knowledge and decided it was not up to anyone else what would happen to my body. Sex is just SEX, it doesn't have to mean anything and there was no harm in learning what I would like. And so I took the leap and had sex for the first time with a boy I felt safe with.
By Maria Gutierrez8 years ago in Filthy
Simple Anal Sex Tips for Women
Listen, it's not as complicated as you may think — I mean, it's certainly not rocket science, but anal sex tips for women can either get extremely hairy or sticky. I guess it depends on taste, age, orientation and overall sexual level, which can all sometimes be pretty difficult to tell. Vaginal sex gets boring, so it's OK to switch it up for a change.
By Lizzie Boudoir8 years ago in Filthy
What People Don’t Tell You About Sex
First thing is you don’t have to know everything. In fact, learning is half the fun. If it’s both you and your partner’s first time then take time with it. You aren’t meant to be all ‘wham bam, you’re welcome ma’am.’ I know this isn’t much comfort but it’s the best advice anyone could give you.
By Sophie Young8 years ago in Filthy
The Fine Art of Opposing Sensations and Triggering the Brain
When you are thinking about sex, sensual, kink or the gambits in-between. Think of competing sensations and how you can use them to your advantage as a lover. You might surprise yourself or your partner.
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond8 years ago in Filthy
Sexual Demographics
Don’t worry, we all are, you little psycho, and yes, it’s probably best to discuss this so you can get a general idea of how crowded your bed really is. Depending on the person you're involved with, you should define certain characteristics. Depending on the answers, you will rate your partner from 1 to 10, 1 being an unattractive type and 10 a highly attractive individual. Multiply their rating by a magnitude of 5 if they are a female or 10 if they are a male. Compute the math then ask the magical question. (This article is better relatable to people inhabiting metropolitan cities.)
By virtual Spec8 years ago in Filthy
