sexual wellness

Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.

How to Train Your Body to Be Multi-Orgasmic
Multiple orgasms. Ah, probably the best part about being a woman. What does it mean to be multi-orgasmic, you may ask? Well… You are considered to be multi-orgasmic when you have the capability to orgasm and then have more shortly after without a refractory phase (an amount of time needed to relax or refrain from sexual activities until you become less sensitive and you can reach another O). Being multi-orgasmic comes in two forms. First one is the most common. This one is where the woman can cum and then go right back into stimulation with little sensitivity in order to reach another orgasm within the next 0-3 minutes. The second, less common one is when a woman orgasms and then within SECONDS has a stronger one, and then yet again with each one becoming more and more intense.
By Brittany Stengel8 years ago in Filthy
The Only One
So this story is about how close I was to closing the chapter of my life. How my phone was filled with emptiness, not even the people could save me.
By Dully Bleu8 years ago in Filthy
Why I Stopped Watching Porn
I believe porn is one major reason men are slowly but surely becoming less valuable in the eyes of women. I want to present the reasons that porn has corroded my enjoyment of sex, my ability to be intimate, as well as my character. Hopefully, if you are feeling the negative ramifications of overuse, my story can compel you to change your ways and grow into the best expression of yourself.
By Nicholas Goodman8 years ago in Filthy
Causes of a Sexless Marriage
Over the years, I've heard a lot of terms being thrown around to describe the same problem: Dead Bedrooms, Lesbian Bed Death, Sexless Marriages...
By Ossiana Tepfenhart8 years ago in Filthy
Botox Can Boost Your Sex Life
Nowadays attitudes towards sex are becoming more and more relaxed. As people are more open to talk about sex and try new things, they are also more determined to seek a solution for issues that affect their capacity to have enjoyable sex lives.
By Andrea Dawson8 years ago in Filthy
Bringing Up The Rear
I've heard it all, and then some, as to why women don't like or won't try the great taboo that is anal sex. Many of the reasons I have heard seem to be little more than masking tape slapped over excuses. Through discussion, I have discovered these excuses are derived from fear brought on by their beliefs in the stigmas and myths surrounding the act.
By Tara Roberts8 years ago in Filthy
Sexual Desires
Knowing other people's sexual desires can have a thrilling affect on your own sexual desires. Knowing what people like, what people enjoy, and what people do and give ourselves ideas or fantasies about what you may want to do within your sex life.
By Tanisha Dagger8 years ago in Filthy
Sexuality and Mental Illness
Being sexually active has its perks. However, it is not always a walk in the park. Let us all take a minute and reflect on our own sexual preferences.
By Alison G8 years ago in Filthy
Hershey
When the guy you are casually sleeping with pulls out a condom in accordance to your rule about him using a condom if he has sex with another girl, it ruins the mood a little. For me, not enough to stop, but enough to cringe when he isn't looking and take a little longer to get into the swing of things.
By O8 years ago in Filthy
Dangers of Anal Sex
Anal sex has become incredibly popular over the years, and to a point, has become a 'sex status symbol' of sorts. Guys like to brag about being let in the out door, and rates of people trying out butt stuff have never been higher.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy8 years ago in Filthy
I Touch Myself!
Do you touch yourself? Of course you do! We all do. It's one of the greatest feelings you can have all by yourself because you know exactly what you want, you know how you want it and you know to get it off when needed. For me, masturbation started as a way to take the edge off in order to go longer when I was being orally pleased. My first boyfriend used to get very upset with me when I came too quickly. I started pushing him away from my sensitive area in order not to have a push and shove moment when I had an orgasm, I would kind of 'starter up' down there so she was ready for the fierce tongue lashing. Right before we had sex, I would rub my clit not to that point but just enough that it would take longer to get there. He was pleased and I was in heaven; it worked out. Then one day, I was sitting in my room with a long length mirror and I was taking a closer look at my pussy. Every time I looked at her, there would always be a certain curiosity like....there was always something that made me say....'WOW', okay....I wanted to know about every detail and check out every nook. It is the most interesting part of my body as far as I'm concerned so it was easy to get lost while exploring her. This day in particular though, my exploration involved a lot of touching and rubbing. Because I was no where near my boyfriend, I was completely alone in my room, my mind insisted that I stop immediately. It kept telling me there was no need for this as I had no dick or tongue to sit on anywhere around me but baby....my loins insisted that I go on, that I continue on this journey and find out where it will take me. I rubbed my clitoris, I swayed my waist in circles and I stared at my sweetness in the mirror as it spilled my juices all over my hands. When I was done, the sense of a thrilled release made me laugh out loud then I wondered to myself...why hadn't I tried that before? Certainly seemed like a fun thing to do!
By Kai Storm8 years ago in Filthy
Male Sexual Performance and Smoking
Every guy — of course — should be (and generally is) concerned about male sexual performance, namely their own. Now, I admit that I haven't been able to get myself to quit smoking either, but I wanted to write this to inform other men and women. The effects that smoking has on the body is literally the opposite of what Viagra does to the male body. The physical and chemical changes Viagra uses to get the hard-on result is the opposite of the physical and chemical changes that smoking does to the body. In visual terms:
By Timothy Rowland8 years ago in Filthy