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Small Gestures of Affection: The Best Way to Keep Love Warm
Everyone craves love, and sex is a vital part of that love, serving as an emotional lubricant. However, maintaining a relationship can't rely solely on sex. Once a foundation of love and trust is established, keeping a playful and flirtatious attitude is the best way to keep the warmth and passion alive. This is especially true for couples who have been together for years or married couples whose lives may have become routine. Even in the face of a monotonous daily life, it's crucial to maintain a flirtatious spirit to add more sweetness, romance, and excitement to the relationship, ensuring that intimacy remains strong over the long term.
By Jane Li8 months ago in Filthy
3 Toxic Things Women Secretly Love
She mentions (says) she wants honesty. She claims she needs generosity (kindness). But her conduct (actions)? They scream the opposite. Behind closed doors, her heart races for the genuine thing (very things) she’d never admit to hankering (craving). Ready to decipher (crack the code)? Let’s rip off the bandage.
By Olivia Chastity8 months ago in Filthy
Girls’ Problem After 18 (Only For 18+)
Oh, how wonderful it is to turn eighteen! Cake candles and. . . chaos? Hold on you thought that adulthood was all about independence and Instagram posts? Youre mistaken.
By Olivia Chastity8 months ago in Filthy
Married Women Cheat More Than You Think — Here’s What No One Admits
Voices are muffled in the coffee shop. She looks down at her phone. Her digits shake. A coded message is awaiting you. Her heart beats quickly. Nobody is suspicious of her. Her spouse has total faith in her. Every day she beams at him. But her thoughts stray. The name of another man clings.
By Olivia Chastity8 months ago in Filthy
I feel like a Whore… After Having the Best Sex of My Life
There I was in Minorca, trying to destress after months of work. My plan was pretty basic: soak up the sun, chill at the beach, and drink way too many cocktails. But clearly, the universe had different plans for me.
By Olivia Chastity8 months ago in Filthy
The Relationship Between Vision and Sex. Content Warning.
Vision is the most direct sense through which humans receive information from the world. When observing a person, we primarily rely on our vision. Dr. Anna Rose Childress from the University of Pennsylvania once conducted a study on how male and female brains react to sexual stimuli. The results revealed that the male brain generally responds more intensely than the female brain.
By Jane Li8 months ago in Filthy
Sex is easy, but love is difficult
A client once shared that loving someone wholeheartedly or maintaining a long - term relationship is exhausting. Single life is carefree and relaxed. If there's a sexual desire, one can find various ways to relieve it. The client wondered if it would be great to have sex without love, like Adam and Eve, without the need to put in so much effort into a relationship. Is loving someone wholeheartedly too troublesome and costly?
By Jane Li8 months ago in Filthy
"Aren't You Wet Yet?" Stupid, it's better not to ask that during sex
Sexual happiness doesn't come automatically; it requires effort and attention. The way you interact in daily life and each sexual experience you share can enhance the warmth and connection between you and your partner. Building a fulfilling love or sexual relationship takes time and careful consideration, but these same efforts can also be the very things that destroy the love between two people. A minor mistake or a small argument can quickly cool down an intimate relationship. In fact, I've found that it's rare for major events to cause significant friction and a rapid decline in intimacy. More often, it's the accumulation of minor issues that lead to problems. Therefore, it's crucial to handle everyday flirting and interactions with care to prevent minor problems from affecting your relationship.
By Jane Li8 months ago in Filthy
The Role of Hearing in Sex
Imagine this: when you're having sex with your partner, there's no need to mimic the exaggerated moans of porn stars. Simply following your body's sensations and rhythm will naturally lead to vocal expressions that reflect the genuine experience. As a sex therapist would say, "The soft moans and gasps in the bedroom not only excite men but also help women immerse themselves more deeply in the erotic atmosphere."
By Jane Li8 months ago in Filthy
How to maintain the hardness of penile erection at all times
Achieving and maintaining a strong erection is a concern that affects many men at some point in their lives. Whether you're experiencing temporary issues or looking to enhance your sexual performance, this guide offers practical, actionable advice to support male sexual health and improve erectile function through thoughtful lifestyle adjustments and consistent daily habits.
By Jane Li8 months ago in Filthy
When to Have Sex
Is there a “perfect time” to have sex—or is it just a myth? While movies and media glamorize spontaneity, real-life intimacy thrives on timing, health, and emotional readiness. Whether you’re navigating a new relationship, planning a pregnancy, or simply trying to understand your body better, knowing when to have sex can make all the difference. Let’s uncover the science, psychology, and timing behind this powerful human experience.
By MAROOF KHAN8 months ago in Filthy
What Is Female Sexuality? Understanding the Complexity and Beauty of Women's Sexual Identity
What Is Female Sexuality? Understanding the Complexity and Beauty of Women's Sexual Identity Sexuality is a fundamental part of being human. For women, it is a complex, dynamic experience influenced by biology, psychology, culture, relationships, and personal history. Female sexuality encompasses more than just sexual activity—it includes sexual feelings, desires, identities, behaviors, roles, and even how a woman perceives and expresses herself as a sexual being. Yet, despite its importance, female sexuality is often misunderstood, oversimplified, or ignored in both scientific and social discussions.
By Hot News 8 months ago in Filthy