fetishes
Explore common and little-known fetishes. Learn how to satisfy a fetish and how to interpret the fetishes of your partner.
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Figging: (Definition): inserting a piece of raw, peeled ginger into the anus, historically used for torture. This practice is now a method of corporal punishment in BDSM, a popular fetish, and has been altered to also include insertion into the vagina and urethra.
By Lorah Catherine6 years ago in Filthy
My Letter to @johnbaku on why FetLife Needs Dedicated Columnists
The following is a letter I sent to @johnbaku of FetLife. Many of us are seeking community, looking for the best ways to get ourselves out there, and want to learn about what matters to us. In the many moments of the day my curiosity, interest, and energy level changes. I want what I want and believe that FetLife is a better place to turn to then the 24 hour news cycle right now. I'm sharing my letter in hopes to get your thoughts and perhaps encourage change to better FetLife because this community has made a difference and connected so many of us over the years. The world you experience is the real world and talking with each other about what matters can make it better.
By Joseph Crown6 years ago in Filthy
Ummm...Daddy?
Sometimes Daddy has to change our plans. It's not his fault; he has a job that keeps him in contact with the most influential people in our city. We are often asked to dinner, and that requires that I be prepared to change evening plans at a moment's notice.
By Phoenixx Fyre Dean6 years ago in Filthy
Hello Officer
I wish... I WISH I could say I met this cop because I flirted my way out of a ticket. Alas, I have Tinder to thank. However, I'll probably take some creative liberty when I eventually write an erotic novel and make some bad joke about getting cuffed and put in the back seat for a different form of "going downtown."
By Xena Warrior6 years ago in Filthy
Sisterhood: Lorelei Lee
Lorelei Lee is a human being yet people assign them other identities all the time. Their main identifier is white. I would not call them, or their skin, white. Their skin is pigmented with flesh tones that crayons cannot imitate. Only pixels on a computer screen can come close to capturing the complexity of the color of their skin.
By Milcah Halili6 years ago in Filthy
Intro to Kink
We have the privilege to experience vast varieties of taste: sweetness, saltiness, bitterness, sourness, and savoriness — and tastes that are combinations of all five of these. The beautiful part is the realization that our cravings are different compared to other companions. We mix and match until we find combinations that thrill us from the inside out. We categorize food into “favorites” and “not so favorites.” This passion for taste that we, humans, are born to endure has created knowledgeable head chefs, bestselling cookbooks, and even the excitement that comes with being invited to a dinner party. The variation of taste has become a place of play and self-expression. Well, sex is like this too. Sex is totally like this.
By Mar Christiano6 years ago in Filthy
The Subservient Husband
Today I walked in the house from work to find my husband sitting around and not having anything done that I asked him to do. I immediately told him to assume the position so that I could take off my shoes from a hard, long day. He jumped us and hurried over to where I was standing and got down on his hands and knees in front of me. I turned around and sat down on his back like he was my new piece of furniture.
By Brandi Payne6 years ago in Filthy
Suffering for my Mistress
Once you have been around kink for a while you find that there are two kinds of play that can happen in general. The first between a Top and a bottom having a scene. It’s not a relationship but just something fun for them both. No D/s, just an experience. We all do this one for sure. Then you discover play within a D/s or M/s dynamic and things can change for you. My Mistress is a sadist and she also thought of herself as masochist in her past. I am a masochist and these two things go together very well. At some point, you have to ask yourself why you do this? Why do I love to take pain for her? The easy answer is that she is my Mistress and this is what she wants. I don’t necessarily agree with that thinking. I believe that you have to want to take that pain. I also think that it has to be about more than just the pain. It’s the connection and more so for me my desire to suffer for her.
By A Trans Girl on Fire6 years ago in Filthy
Eight Sketchy Fetishes Your Curiosity Can't Ignore
This article is for sure long overdue. I haven’t posted one on the intriguing world of kinks and fetishes for what feels like actually forever. Honestly, I have to admit researching for these articles is always the most fun for me. I’m just as surprised as you all are half the time at the wild things people do in their everyday life. Just think any stranger you pass on the street could be the king or queen of kinks. Wash your hands kids!
By The Darkest Sunrise6 years ago in Filthy
5 Strange Things That Happened When I Was a Sex Worker
Working in the sex industry can mean many things. For me, it ranged from being a phone sex operator to Professional Dominatrix. Over the course of ten years I saw and did a lot. It’s an experience I learned from and can never regret.
By Demeter DeLune6 years ago in Filthy
