fetishes
Explore common and little-known fetishes. Learn how to satisfy a fetish and how to interpret the fetishes of your partner.
The comfort of a truly connected Mistress/slave relationship
I have had my share of M/s (Mistress/slave) relationships in my life. A few of them were live-in situations that ended after a period of time. I have always wondered what happened in those cases. I know that at that time of my life I hadn’t fully admitted who I was and I think I held some things back. Also, I feel like my Mistress did too. An M/s relationship is multi-layered and not easy. It takes a great deal of communication and a full commitment on both sides. There’s nothing worse than a rule being made and then broken and the Mistress doesn’t follow through to correct it. The same could be said for the slave. It’s my responsibility to follow the rules set out for me that were agreed upon.
By A Trans Girl on Fire6 years ago in Filthy
9 people on what it's really like to have breast orgasms
Nipple orgasms, breast orgasms, breastgasms, whatever you want to call them - they exist. seriously. If you've never had one, it could be hard to imagine what it's like to orgasm from nipple play alone, but a fair few women and people with breasts have experienced it.
By Fluo & Pattern6 years ago in Filthy
She Controls My Orgasms
I have spent many years exploring my kinks. At first, I didn’t want to include sex in my play but over the years it has become more and more important. Somewhere along the line, I began to love pain as pleasure too. All of this has now become entwined in who I am now. Ultimately I am a submissive slave who loves to serve. Now I serve my Mistress and my place is at her side. I had always thought that once I transitioned that I would end up with a male to serve. Boy was I wrong. I’ve never had a connection that was stronger with anyone in my life. We are as one and I couldn’t be happier. We both love men so we agreed early on to include them in our lives. However, we are committed to each other and have lots of fun without them too.
By A Trans Girl on Fire6 years ago in Filthy
My First Sexy Cuckquean Experience!
As a kinky trans woman, I have always had the fantasy of being cucked by a woman. It started when I was in my male body and now as a woman, I have the same fantasy. I have found that over the years that I get great enjoyment from watching others have sex but more importantly I get joy and turned on by watching those that I care for and love having sex. This is the account of my first cuckquean experience.
By A Trans Girl on Fire6 years ago in Filthy
The Pleasure of Pain
Tell someone that is not kinky that you love pain and you will see that little pinched up face that people make when they don’t understand something. Why would you like pain? That makes no sense! To someone who is not kinky, it will never make sense. I am out in this world and I have friends that will say that they are fine with me being kinky but they don’t want to hear about the details. I respect that because they simply can’t understand it. To them when they fall down and get a bruise it’s the body's way of telling them that they are hurt. Kinky people understand this but also stand the pleasure that can come with pain.
By A Trans Girl on Fire6 years ago in Filthy
Designing Roles for a Modern House of Influence and O/p dynamic
I have often been asked by people in the lifestyle communities what roles do I train people for. Often this is a question of exploration and learning to know what more is out there. This has been a topic I have thought about often during my personal development and I am talking about this a lot after the release of my book, The Tao of Relationship Maintenance for Mind Controllers. After a move across country I am about at the start of establishing my House again and I have spent a considerable amount of time contemplating this topic. In my book I talk about what it means to be a servant in O&p culture and how being part of that culture influences my life and art. What I am going to do in this article is discuss traditional roles of servants in Houses and great homes of the past. I’ll also be sharing what these same services cost today. In sharing this information, I hope the reader will see the parallels of power exchange that exist in these roles and society from the past to today. I break down how to think planning to have these roles staffed in our home in order to make it a House of our own design and influence. I share with you the roles that I am seeking to establish at present in my House. Lastly, I share how I think about service. I welcome reader commentary on these roles and stories on how you have made your House operate.
By Joseph Crown6 years ago in Filthy
A Hypno Dom's Consensual Mind Control Party Plan
The post is a celebration of experiential mindfulness in our lives and play with one another. This post is designed to assist you in creating a service oriented hypnotic play party in which several people have been consensually conditioned into obedient party servants and/or ornaments. This post explores an actionable plan to enjoy power exchange, brainwashing play, and mind control play in a task oriented themed party plan.
By Joseph Crown6 years ago in Filthy
Spontaneous Erotic Hypnotic Adventure
The following is an excerpt from my book Instruction of the Hypno Dom. Relax, enjoy, get inspired, and pack a lunch. This is a long one to show you what is ahead. One of the most frequent questions I get is how to use hypnosis and power exchange together. My answer is a simple one. Present the activity in a story and connect the activities you want in a context that communicates goals and consequences. That story may be how the slave recognizes she is there to kneel and serve again. It could be how a sub’s workday thoughts were filled with numbers and logistics, but her body never stopped responding to her Master’s control. All of this is about communicating and consenting in the engagement of power exchange. Your message, your conversation, your story, it’s an invitation to explore what’s on the surface or go deeper with you. You are inviting someone to interact with you along these provocative themes and maybe take a leap with you into something more. This is what this chapter will demonstrate for you.
By Joseph Crown6 years ago in Filthy
Creating A Personalized Erotic Hypnotic Experience
When working with subjects we have to communicate with them and take into account not just their interests, but what we agree on together for a hypnotic experience. Your success will come from your ability to combine different aspects of experiences and both communicating with your subject verbally and reading their body language. When beginning to work with a subject you want to inspire trust by sharing the experience you agreed on with them. Do not engage in bait and switch. You will not only damage your reputation but you will find that few people want to work with you.
By Joseph Crown6 years ago in Filthy
Let's Talk Pleasure Conditioning
Let's talk pleasure conditioning. In my opinion there should be an element that pushes and pulls the subject towards the desired behavior. This is a community challenge that I posted to those in my private Facebook group. What are your thoughts? Can you apply it to an example that clearly designates a command for the subject to respond in context?
By Joseph Crown6 years ago in Filthy
Instruction of The Hypno Dom’s Tips on Hypnotic Commands
Life has been a whirlwind for me these last few months. My new book, Instruction of The Hypno Dom: A Master/slave Lifestyle Development Training on Erotic and Authoritarian Hypnosis became #1 on Amazon for New Releases in Hypnosis, and I almost doubled my subscriber list on my blog Tao of The Crown. I’ve got a training coming up, Hypnosis for Kinksters on Septemeber 14th and I’m organizing ideas for my next book as I chat with all of you. As new people get interested in hypnosis and all it can do, it often becomes a kinky adventure and tool for personal development. As people begin new adventures and begin to explore hypnotic affects there are always questions about working with hypnotic commands. What follows next will be a few tips to keep in mind as you design and set your hypnotic command effects with your subjects and hypnotees.
By Joseph Crown6 years ago in Filthy
