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Anger
Why are you doing that, for the more than 1, 2, three or tenth time. I wish you will not disrespect me by, 1. Finding money to disrespect me 2. Jacking off because you found money to disrespect me. 3. Loose money to some loose creature , because you were so bizzy, disrespecting me.Same ole drama, more of the same. If it was like$10,000 $100,000 $1,000,000 dollars, yeah to my glory and honor, do please. For you are sure not honoring or defending that, you are plagued with disease, which is more like a war zone.
By Jae Franklin5 years ago in Filthy
An Answer to when is it time to end training?
The question of when to stop training is a search to clarify priorities and values of what we have, what we are doing, and where we might go from here. That can become confusing as we become aware of new possibilities and new goals that can make us refocus our efforts in new ways or do something different. None of us likes confusion because it erodes our sense of competence and confidence. Sometimes it can be difficult to remove ourselves from our feelings far enough to verbalize them. If we even knew we were confused, we wouldn't be as confused as we are. Yet, confusion is as usual as certainty. Often the questions we are asked are not ultimately the ones that a person is seeking answers for. As you read this over and please think about what you might say. Chances are good you will encounter someone like this.
By Joseph Crown5 years ago in Filthy
An answer to observing a scene gone wrong
This post was inspired by an email I received. It brings together many issues that we have to engage with when inviting others to join us to observe as we engage with our specific kink dynamics. Do you think the observer is part of scene they are observing? This email encapsulates many of the general assumptions people can come to the kink community after only learning about what it means to be dominant or submissive through porn and fantasy. This email is a learning experience about communication and how to handle unpleasant feelings while attending an event or online. Not every piece of advice that any of us will give is going to be positive. People need to know they are wrong and need to see consequences when they do not change their behavior. As you read this over and please think about what you might say. Chances are good you will encounter someone like this.
By Joseph Crown5 years ago in Filthy
11 Good Habits of Happy Couples Walking and Holding Hands, Planning Sex
In the new year, the relationship between husband and wife is no exception. The Gender Relations Research Group of the University of Michigan in the United States has conducted long-term investigations on the relationship between husbands and wives since 1986 and has concluded "ten good habits for happy couples."
By Isshie Norine5 years ago in Filthy
How To Be The Best Sub For A Femdom
Many men express their need and desire to serve the woman or femme of their dreams; do whatever they want and bask in their extreme or nurturing grasp. They'll chirp their favorite buzz word of anything - "I'll do anything you want, Mistress!" but can't even do the bare minimum of sending tributes or even performing a task properly. One time a potential sub bought my application from my ManyVids store and couldn't even fill it out with proper handwriting and detailed answers that were instructed to provide. Most subs in this day and age in the world of female domination are also not even loyal to their Dommes. On the down-low, they will secretly follow Dommes on their social media and get off to their content, tribute them, or even follow any tasks that they are given. It's a rarity to see a sub be loyal and fulfill every need of their Domme. These men smear stains on the title of submissive and are not people you want to flock to. They are people that will just bring you down.
By LUX GATSBY5 years ago in Filthy
Self-Pleasure During Self-Isolation
Quarantine has been rough on us all, and likely hardest for those of us who live alone. It seems counter-intuitive that by physically staying apart from each other, we’re actually supporting one another. These are unprecedented times that call for us to be brave and to exercise our self-love (and probably isn’t the greatest time to download a dating app that puts you in intimate contact with strangers). It’s important to keep in mind that all of our sacrifices during this time will have a powerful impact on our communities. All this being said, keep your head up, because there are plenty of ways to make this quarantine work for you.
By Brandy Clark5 years ago in Filthy
Sex Advice
I'm an 18 year old girl that is well was sexually active. I've had 3 sexual partners and listen they were all different. I lost my virginity at the age of 16 and the guy I lost my virginity to, girls lets just say I could've waited. Although I'm here to give some advice based on my experience.
By Genesis Gonzalez5 years ago in Filthy
