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Safer Sex Is Better Than No Sex
I. Love. Sex! Engaging in it. Talking about it. Watching it. Writing about it. Born into the sexiest astrological sign of Scorpio, it was all but expected for me to be sex positive! After YEARS of being called everything from a prude (because I wasn't as open-minded about them hiding their love of pornography) to a nymphomaniac (by some who clearly weren't as sexually free as I am), as I approach the end of my fifth decade on this planet, I am fully embracing my nudist free spirit and everything that comes with it! Thankfully, discovering polyamory has shown me how to establish ethical polyandrous relationships allowing me to safely interact with my partners, with or without sex. But who wants to be in a sexless relationship? I am not asexual so I will have what they aren't having!! So... How do I safely maintain multiple loving relationships and remain sexually satisfied? Transparent communication and regular testing to ensure that I have not contracted any sexually transmitted diseases. Why transparent communication? I hate being lied to and I am a bad liar. Why regular testing? I hate condoms but I want my partners to fully trust me.
By Author Lea Mishell5 years ago in Filthy
Voice Acting Advice: Reading NSFW Scripts
In Voice Acting, there will be a lot of jobs over the course of your career. From audiobooks, to advertisements, and video narrations. To family cards and NSFW (Not Safe For Work/Wife) voice overs. It’s that last one that I’ll be going over today. The amount of cheap NSFW requests I get over the course of a year is unbelievable. This year alone I ended up with 13. I’m not usually a NSFW voice over, but I’ve dipped into it. I occasionally do some for a quick chuckle, and the $8 isn’t a bad bonus. Like I said, these people are CHEAP.
By Skyler Ricketts5 years ago in Filthy
In Response: What's kinda like playing with yourself but isn't?
Every day I get questions from people that attended one of my trainings, read my blog, or my books. Once I get the same question again and again for a while, I recognize that it would be worthwhile to share this q and a with others. So this question about restrictions on stimulation of oneself is one that regularly pops up. It is also a question that is asked by everyone and not just one gender. I welcome your thoughts and impressions on how you might answer this yourself. Whether you agree or disagree with my reply you will get to learn what iktsuarpok means.
By Joseph Crown5 years ago in Filthy
Sex In Times Of COVID-19: Does It Increase Desire In Quarantine?
The COVID-19 pandemic has most of the world practicing strict hand hygiene and social distancing. This is a particular strain of the virus that has not been previously identified in humans.
By creatorsklub5 years ago in Filthy
What Women Want In Bed (in their words)
What do girls crave in bed, but are too shy to ask? From Wild Rides to literal butt-kissing, some real women give guys an idea of what women want during sex.
By Lana Ridlon5 years ago in Filthy
Why Women Need Twice As Much Sex As Men
Have you ever been in a failed relationship? Did you often feel like your partner didn’t ‘get’ you? When you research the top reasons for relationships and marriages falling apart, two of the most common are:
By Lana Ridlon5 years ago in Filthy
The One Thing Men Want More Than Sex
How many times have we heard the phrase, “All men want is sex?” When I was 17 years old I was sure it was true. When I was 37 years old, I suspected it might not be true. And now that I’m 73 years old, I know it’s not true. Now don’t get me wrong, sex can be wonderful at any age, but there’s something that is more important than sex, but it’s something that men have difficulty admitting and women have difficulty giving.
By Lana Ridlon5 years ago in Filthy
Why Do Guys like Sexting? Here are 7 Reasons
Sexting is the act of sending sexually explicit messages and pictures to another person. It is, however, worth noting that this act is viewed differently by both men and women. Most women shy off sexting because they consider it a form of intimacy. Research shows that women in healthy relationships will not likely sext a stranger or past lover but will likely sext their current partners. However, men in healthy relationships will sext a stranger without flinching. That brings us to question why it is so easy for them. This article explores some of the reason guys like sexting.
By Alice Naraa5 years ago in Filthy
Car Sex
We have all done it in a car. I know I have. A lot more than I'd care to admit to someone that I actually knew, but to strangers on the internet, y'all get the sweet Southern Tea.
By Mae McCreery5 years ago in Filthy
5 Tips to Explore Exhibitionism
Sex in public is not recommended for legal reasons. Still, many people fantasize about the idea of having some naughty fun in places that fall into the definition of a spot or place that is semi-public. The thrill of getting caught, whether the risk is great or not, is a major part of the appeal. If you're new to this adventure, there are some ways to add the element of risk of being caught. Sometimes, it's the little things we do in public that can make our relationship and intimacy feel risque and exciting.
By Vicki C5 years ago in Filthy
5 Sex Hacks to Try Tonight
Sex is a huge part of all of our lives anyway we look at it. Whether we are getting it (or not getting it), we all think about sex an absurd amount. But not all of us are doing it right. Oh, I know, we THINK we are. Like Mel Brooks once said: "Sex is like pizza. Even when it's done bad, it's still pretty good." And all jokes aside, we all can add a little more to our sexual resume. So take a look at these hacks for the bedroom!
By Lana Ridlon5 years ago in Filthy
10 Ways to Get Rejected for Sex
Guys, we need to have a little chat. There are things you do that are really pathetic when you are trying to get laid. Doesn't matter if you're in a relationship, married or single. Women still want to feel wanted and sexy.
By Doreen Barker5 years ago in Filthy