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Let's Talk About Bondage
Bondage, also known as American bondage, refers to the use of certain constraints during intercourse to increase the pleasure of those involved. Bonding can be done with ropes, handcuffs, chains, tightly tied scarves, etc.
By Daisy Thunderstrike4 years ago in Filthy
Dating As a Sex Worker
With the rise of websites like OnlyFans, (among so many others) sex work has become more accessible as a financial decision than ever before. Seriously, everyone, their grandmother, and their grandmother's dog have an OnlyFans page these days. As someone who started their journey in the adult entertainment industry back in 2010-2011 and carried on until just a few years ago, it's a little jarring. The same women I used to see talking smack about girls in the industry are now promoting their OnlyFans pages all over social media, but since they're "tasteful nudes," it's different. Despite rolling my eyes so hard I can practically see my spine, I'm still an avid supporter of these women, regardless of whether or not they consider themselves a sex worker.
By Evie Dahl4 years ago in Filthy
How To Attract My Husband In Bed (Pleasure Your Husband in Bed and Increase Passion in Your Marriage)
If you are looking for ways to pleasure your husband in bed and make your every lovemaking an exciting one, you can do a lot to add variety to your sex life. One of the keys to making your sex life as exciting as your relationship is to find new ways to pleasure your husband. Here are some tips that you might find useful.
By Ashley Scholar4 years ago in Filthy
Dear Men: Sometimes You suck at Receiving Blowjobs
Sucking dick is not an easy task. It’s bobbing up and down on your penis. While trying to mimic the death grip you’ve perfected since puberty. We do it because we enjoy pleasuring you.
By Dona Mwiria4 years ago in Filthy
What stripping on camera taught me about men, sex, and vanity
Background If you have read some of my articles on this subject, you will know I started webcamming in my late thirties as a side hustle to research my debut novel and earn some extra cash. At that time, I had never taken so much as a selfie and my Facebook profile picture was of me aged five.
By JoJoBonetto4 years ago in Filthy
Foreplay to Tantalize Your Man
Foreplay --- it's one of those things that men and women disagree on. Women generally crave it, while men don't seem to understand it. Women like it longer, while men prefer to skip it altogether. Of course, men are from Mars and women are from Venus, but the difference in perspective of both genders is no reason to throw foreplay into oblivion of a black hole. The fact is, foreplay is for sex what stretching is for exercising; you can't get to the main event unless you warm up first. It goes without saying that foreplay is an important sexual activity that shouldn't be ignored.
By healthbloggrer4 years ago in Filthy
Verbal Humiliation without Body Shaming
There may be a place for consensual body shaming within a D/s dynamic, but I’d like to explore alternative ways to humiliate without reverting to body shaming, specifically as an effort to avoid misogyny, homophobia, transphobia and ableism. It does involve getting creative and challenging yourself as a Domme. If this resonates with you, I hope you’ll try to incorporate some of it into your practice.
By Bam Kizbee4 years ago in Filthy
My BDSM update #3
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By Lena Bailey4 years ago in Filthy

How and Why to Hook Up With Strippers

I am in possession of some valuable knowledge for a single young man and feel that it would be a shame to not pass this information onto a younger generation. This is the J.D. Bradley method of picking up strippers. Feel free to have your own adaptations.

By J.D. Bradley4 years ago in Filthy

Kink Basics for Beginners

We live in a world that is forever expanding its horizons. Things that were once horribly taboo are finding their place in mainstream society. Books like Fifty Shades of Grey brought the world of BDSM and kinky play onto the bedside tables of housewives, mothers, and even grandmothers. Mainstream artists like Rihanna, Christina Aguilera, and Lady Gaga brought forth images of leather and kink in their music videos, thrilling the imagination of these women who had otherwise not considered venturing into that side of themselves. I would know; upon the release of the Fifty Shades series, I was working at a sex shop in a small city. Women who would otherwise stare straight ahead as they walked by were walking into my shop with blushing faces, carrying their favorite chapters to buy new toys to introduce to their partners. It became so frequent, we even introduced a specialty Fifty Shades of Grey-themed wall.

By Evie Dahl4 years ago in Filthy

Dear women, with these 7 erotic adventures men will never forget

Allow me, gentlemen, a woman writes to you. About things that a man should have done during sex with a woman. Why a woman, you probably think, where it is about the male love life? Don’t men know better? Know yes, only they do not talk about it with each other.

By Omara4 years ago in Filthy

I Have a Kink

Some people are ashamed to admit they want more pleasure. I tell you it's okay. Come chat with me in a safe place --> (click here)

By Lizzie Martinez4 years ago in Filthy