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Can you talk a woman to orgasm ?
In the beginning was the Word, long before the serpent and the apple. And the world was still good and called paradise. What would it be like if you could lead the Word? If you could speak so movingly that it comes to ecstasy. Until your beloved is no longer silent, but moans with pleasure.
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
How men get to the XXL climax
Every man comes differently. How would you describe your orgasm? Like a rocket launch, like the first sip of coffee after a night of drinking, like squeezing a tube of toothpaste rolled up to the point of bursting? Or like the biggest pyro show the world has ever seen?
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
The 5 best masturbation techniques for men
Masturbation is the easiest way to reach orgasm — especially now in times of a pandemic with contact restrictions. However, many men have learned in youth to masturbate mainly quickly and silently, so that they do not get caught. These techniques, trimmed for effectiveness, often persist into adulthood.
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
Stop Being Annoyed By Your Partner
If something isn’t so great or it’s simply mediocre, most of us want to do our best to improve it -- especially a relationship or marriage. In fact, we typically want to ensure that our romantic relationships last and get better over time. I’ve got a not-so-secret for you: even if we are constantly improving our relationships, without realistically managing expectations in relationships, you might find yourself feeling more and more annoyed and less and less in love.
By Leigh Norén4 years ago in Filthy
Giant penis: 7 tips for sex with a (very!) big penis
What to do if he has a giant penis? While some men are afraid that their best piece is too small to please women, others fear just the opposite: men with a giant penis have at least as hard a time in bed as, say, those with a micropenis. After all, a very large specimen can cause quite a bit of pain during sex — especially for the woman. In other cases, even insertion into the vagina is unsuccessful, giving a whole new meaning to the phrase “we don’t fit together.” But what can you do if everything fits in the relationship, only the penis does not enter the vagina? To make sex with XXL penis a pleasure for you and your partner, I have collected a few helpful tips and the best positions.
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
What men can learn from lesbians in bed
It’s almost funny how many proverbs come to mind when you think about good sex … “No master has fallen from the sky”, “Good things come to those who wait” or even “You never stop learning”. With this in mind, we asked journalist and writer Mona Eichler, who as an outed lesbian, columnist for the lesbian magazine ‘Straight’ and book author (‘Von Sex, Liebe und Farben’, Schwarzkopf & Schwarzkopf) insanely likes to write, think and talk about the most beautiful secondary matter in the world, for sex tips for men. After all, it doesn’t hurt if a man learns a few tricks from lesbian love, does it? The sexpert thinks so too: “I always ask my buddies about what they do with their wives in bed — it works the other way around too!”
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
What blowjob he will never forget ?
Secondly, if you don’t feel like letting men tell you how to blow them, then we have to warn you: Only men are talking in this article. Because one thing is clear: they’re the only ones who can really tell you what feels best from a male perspective.
By Omara4 years ago in Filthy
How To Make Orgasms Better
As a sex therapist, my main focus is to help clients reduce negative feelings and thoughts about sex. You see, most don’t seek out therapy for a quick tip or two – it’s real, deep work that involves acknowledging that which you might long have been avoiding.
By Leigh Norén4 years ago in Filthy
50 Shades? I'm In. Now What?
Since the idea and forming of the kinky community we have always had mentors. But now we have Google, it's probably how you found this article. So welcome to my creative world of kink.
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond4 years ago in Filthy
How to Revive a Sexless Relationship
Has your relationship gone from lustful to lacklustre? You’re not alone. Lots of people find themselves in a relationship where the sexual intimacy has all but disappeared. But if you want to know how to revive your sexless relationship, there’s good news - because you’re in the right place.
By Leigh Norén4 years ago in Filthy
There Is No Such Thing as Extra Sex
"Sex is like air; it's not important unless you aren't getting any." — John Callahan With all the chaos in the world, my spouse and I have figured out how to keep our sex life in balance, or at least I thought we had. Being locked in with your significant other for 24 hours a day, seven days a week, can become uninspiring in the bedroom. There are the small (and big) things your partner does that get on your last nerve. Nevertheless, we have kept it , but it takes work.
By Toni Crowe4 years ago in Filthy
7 Life Events That Usually Cause Libido Changes
Life-events that significantly change our status quo - change our libido, too. Sometimes these libido changes are positive; creating more desire and passion in our relationship. Other times, they’re negative, and we find ourselves wondering just what is going on.
By Leigh Norén4 years ago in Filthy