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How to Orgasm from Anal Sex
Welcome to the world of anal sex! If you're reading this, you're probably one of two types of people. One, you've never tried anal (because HELLO, EXIT NOT ENTRANCE) but you can't help but be curious about it. Or two, you partake in anal sex with your partner, but you can't seem to reach your climax. Fear not my friends, you are not alone! Learning how to orgasm from anal sex is about 70% mental and 30% physical. Master one and the other will follow.
By Filthy Staff9 years ago in Filthy
Male Menopause May Be Psychological
Men's sexual aging is far more mysterious than women's. When women look down the sexual road, at least one thing is clear: menopause. They know that if their sexual instincts, responses, and appetites start to go a bit haywire anytime from their late thirties on, there's probably a biochemical explanation. However there's also light at the end of tunnel. Men don’t have that same assurance. If their sexual responses turn less than trustworthy from around 40-years-old on, the possible causes seem endless. Maybe it's the toll of endless job stress, or a latent sexual identity crisis, or some disastrous hormonal disorder. Maybe it's male menopause, if such a thing exists. Like women, men's hormones do fluctuate with age. Despite the testicle's ability to resist aging, a majority of men experience a decrease in testosterone after age forty. Which also begs the question - How do I deal with sexual anxiety?
By David McCleary9 years ago in Filthy
Signs It's Time to Break Up
We have all been there at one time or another, either as the "breaker upper" or the “broken up with”, regardless both positions can be difficult. For some couples, a break up may come from out of nowhere, leaving one of you distraught and confused, or perhaps the breakup will be a mutual agreement and the best decision for both of you. Looking out for warning signs is a good way to predict if you and your lover might be on the outs. You can use these signs as motivation to communicate and work through your issues or as an awakening that will finally push you to move on. Whatever choice you make, remember life is too short to spend it fighting and unhappy and even the worst relationships leave you with something; a new found outlook on life, love and most importantly yourself.
By Jus L'amore9 years ago in Filthy
What Makes A Woman Good in Bed?
Some time ago, a man looked at a woman and wondered, "Does she or doesn't she?" (go to bed). Since the sexual revolution, the question more often has been, "Is she or isn't she?" (good in bed). But what does that really mean and how do we define the term "good in bed" (G.I.B.)? In interviews with film stars and athletes, pimps and hookers, author Wendy Leigh has tried to discover whether there is an answer to this question.
By Filthy Staff9 years ago in Filthy
Ways to Woo Your Woman
A wise person once said that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. This is false and the person who said that was clearly just hungry. The way to a man’s heart is through his penis. This holds true no matter what the instance. If a man knows the secret ingredient to successfully getting laid, he will do it. In fact, he will probably do almost anything if the end result is an orgasm, and preferably one that is not self-induced. Men are very goal oriented, but they only like it when, to achieve that goal, they can get there via a straight line. When the instructions get too complicated, they lose focus and get frustrated. This becomes a problem when dealing with the opposite sex. To get a man going, all you have to do is show him a naked woman or to insinuate the possibility of having sex. Women do not work this way. At all.
By Bea Norton9 years ago in Filthy
Tips to Make Semen Taste Better
Spit or swallow? When it comes to giving head, many women are faced with the problem of what to do once the man ejaculates. Do they spit it into a tissue? Or do they just swallow it before reaching for their water bottle on the nightstand? Either way, they are left with that taste in their mouth and the desire to brush their teeth. If women know that their men like oral sex, then it’s a good idea for men to make sure that the woman enjoys it too. One of the most common complaints is that the woman doesn’t like the taste of semen. What men put into their body is likely to impact on the flavor of their sperm and semen. So with that in mind, it’s time for women to start handing out some fruit salad to their men before they start giving head.
By Filthy Staff9 years ago in Filthy
Creative Ways to Turn Your Man On
Let's face it, the plain-Jane domestician is no longer the woman a man craves. The demure housekeeper of yesteryear doesn't inflame a man any longer. Nevermore is the quickest way to a man's heart through his stomach; the no-nonsense Ms. knows it's through his ribs and pericardium.
By Filthy Staff9 years ago in Filthy
Weird Ways to be More Sexually Aggressive
The new era of the aggressive woman is here. Women have more power in everything and are expected to assert themselves in every area: jobs, politics, sports, and, happily, sex. You don’t have to wait around for the man to make the first move anymore. More and more men are turned on by women who are sure, confident, and sexually demonstrative. Ah, but do you know which buttons to press? Try any combination of the following for fast, fast results.
By Filthy Staff9 years ago in Filthy
Things Women Think While Giving Head
The art of fellatio can be a daunting, redundant, and sometimes difficult job, a job not for the easily gagged or weakened jaw. Combine that with a woman’s inability to relax and you have quite a humorous adventure on your hands. While giving head doesn’t seem to be rocket science, even the most seasoned blowers admit to having a doubt or two when face to face with the one-eyed monster.
By Jus L'amore9 years ago in Filthy
Reasons Why Women Fake Orgasms
Ah, the tale as old as time. Boy meets girl. Boy takes girl out on date. Girl goes home with boy. Girl decides she wants to sleep with guy. You start fooling around a little bit. And then...nothing. He's been going down on you for at least 25 minutes and you're starting to get anxious. No matter how hard you focus, or how good whatever he's doing feels, you cannot climax. The reasons why women fake orgasms are vast. Maybe you're nervous. It's the first time you've slept with this person and you're having performance anxiety. Maybe he keeps changing direction right when your about to go over the edge, and it's a new partner that you don't feel comfortable correcting. Or maybe, just maybe, you're hate-fucking your ex for the 100th time and seriously, at this point your mental block is just too big for you to physically have an orgasm. You've reached the point of no return. You either want the act to be over completely or you at least want to move on to the full penetration portion of the evening. But your partner is a giver (so he thinks), and refuses to stop until you've climaxed. So what do you do now?
By Jus L'amore9 years ago in Filthy
Vintage Rules for Being a Lady. Created with: OG Collection.
It worked then, and it still works. The rules for being a lady are as much applicable today as they were decades ago. That's not to say, there is not an appeal to the crass biker chicks making their daily appearance on social media GIFs. But there is something grand and sexy about the sophisticated lady that never goes out of style. Maybe it is more fun thinking about taking your clothing off, when you are actually wearing clothing to begin with. Problem is, in a "me" generation obsessed with instant gratification, no one wants to take the time to read the rules. So read the vintage rules for being a lady and get current with what real men are into.
By OG Collection 9 years ago in Filthy
