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Casual Sex Etiquette
Enter the “friend with benefits” or “casual sex buddy,” era. As the name suggests, this is a friend or acquaintance with whom you occasionally have casual sex. Bearing in mind casual sex etiquette can go a long way to maintaining the nature of a casual relationship.
By Lenny Legman9 years ago in Filthy
Sex and Relationship Podcasts That Should be on Your Radar
Odds are, you probably didn’t have the best sex education. It’s more likely that you fidgeted through a couple health classes over the years where the most you could hope for were a few pieces of vaguely detailed info on how to use a condom and successfully avoid STIs. And sure, your parents might have explained things to you once or twice, but let’s be honest, that was probably so traumatic that you just blocked it out. Aside from these imperfect introductions into the world of sex and relationships, most of us have had to muddle through to the best of our ability, picking things up from movies, TV, the Internet, friends, dirty books covertly checked out from the library, and, of course, our own fumbling first experiences. But even with all of the information out there, it can be hard to find truly helpful advice, relatable storytelling, and fresh perspectives on the timeless questions of love, romance, sex, relationships, hookups, breakups, and everything in-between. Have no fear, though, because the following podcasts offer the perfect antidote to all the complications, contradictions, and misinformation you've most likely picked up along the way. I promise that your confused, hormonal 9th grade self will thank you.
By Alysha DePerna9 years ago in Filthy
Things to Know When Going to a Sex Party
If you are thinking of going to your first swinger party, you're bound to be feeling a wide range of emotions. What should I wear? What happens when I get there? Are they even legal? This article looks at things to know when going to a sex party and helps bust some myths about the mysterious world of the sex club. Sex parties, also known by a variety of other terms such as play parties, swinger parties, and lifestyle parties, are organized sex get-togethers where consenting, paying party-goers engage in sex with other consenting, paying party-goers. Simple, right? We bet you still have a list of things to know before going to a sex party. So here goes.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
Sexiest Halloween Costumes
Halloween is my favourite time of year. Maybe it’s because I’m a die hard goth and I dress like I’m going to a funeral all year round, or maybe it’s because it’s acceptable to decorate your house with skulls and grave stones for this one special day. When I was a kid my street was the perfect middle class, central London trick or treaters heaven. Huge Victorian houses with a pumpkin at every door. One year my brothers and our friends dressed as Slipknot, there was a huge argument over who got to be Joey Jordison and ultimately ended with my mother saying "you can ALL be Joey.” She didn’t understand.
By Samantha Bentley9 years ago in Filthy
Things to Do Instead of Cheating on Your Partner
The urge to cheat in a relationship can happen to anyone, whether they're in a healthy relationship or a faulty one. If one of you is cheating or you have the urge to cheat and you're worried your relationship is heading for the rocks, it might be time to rethink the person you're with. However, if you cherish your relationship, there are some things to do instead of cheating on your partner.
By Alicia Springer9 years ago in Filthy
Michael Myers Syndrome
Show of hands--and be honest...you ever wanted to kill somebody just because you'd been going through an extended dry spell without sex? I don't mean this as a tongue-in-cheek sort of query. I mean it as, have you ever felt a sincerely disturbing urge to go nuts on somebody simply out of sexual frustration?
By Matt Cates9 years ago in Filthy
Defining Moments in Relationships and How to Deal with Them
Anyone who’s had even short courtships knows there are certain defining moments in relationships that will test the relationship. If you don’t know how to navigate those moments, it may be why you’ve had only short relationships. But it really doesn’t have to be that way if you’ve reached the point that you want a long lasting relationship. Knowing those defining moments in relationships, being able to recognize them and how to deal with them can make all the difference.
By Mackenzie Lu9 years ago in Filthy
Sex Positions that Are Better With a Vibrator
Why stick to traditional sex when there are so many sex positions that are better with a vibrator? Who doesn’t look forward to good sex? Sex is usually something we all look forward to, but not all women are able to reach multiple climaxes, and some have trouble pushing over that edge at all, leaving them hot and bothered after a bout of otherwise really good sex with their partner. If you’re looking for that push to get the explosion you need, or if you just want to spice up your sex life and add multiple orgasms simultaneously, you need to try out these sex positions that are better with a vibrator!
By Lenny Legman9 years ago in Filthy
Subtle Signs that Predict Your Relationship
We all worry about our relationships and sometimes you need to rely on subtle signs that predict your relationship. But which signs should you trust? Which signs are good and which are bad? It can be pretty confusing, but we're here to help. These subtle signs that predict your relationship should help you figure out if Mr. or Mrs. Right is really right for you.
By Lizzie Boudoir9 years ago in Filthy
