A man with a daughter

Since Han Han first posted a photo of her daughter on Weibo, the adorable child with a Bob hair and big, watery eyes has become an online sensation, outshining her father. "I used to be called Han Shao when I was watching the moon, but now the new guy is better than the old guy. On the set, everyone calls me father-in-law. My youth was too short..."

I complain openly, but I'm not so happy about it. Who has such a lovely, Q, ghost ghost spirit daughter -- "When she was two years old, she wanted to pick a flower, I said," No, wild, flowers also have a mother and father, so what do you say to this little flower? She stepped forward thoughtfully and said: good boy, say goodbye to mom and dad... She's so sharp "-- who doesn't love that?

As a father, Han Han was born with a sense of responsibility, "I want to support my daughter all my life, so that she can have food and clothing, and play whatever she wants. I give her whatever she wants." If he runs out of money, he will not change his intention. "Even if I drive Li Yanhong, I will let her live a good life, so that my children will no longer feel ashamed of their parents."

A famous writer and spiritual leader of the post-80s generation has lost his wisdom when it comes to education. He is basically as ignorant as any new father who is made vulnerable by the birth of his little daughter. This kind of idea is almost naive, and it is difficult to become reality. No matter how strong you Han Han, you can not take the place of your daughter to walk her life. Maybe she will have easy food and clothing, but the downwind and upstream on the road of life are still inevitable to be borne by her. Don't say anything else, just say feelings, don't look at the netizen calling Han Han's father-in-law's voice a wave of high waves, it is a joke, one day, she really fell in love with someone, but it is not likely to be able to go smoothly with her. Like all girls, there will always be someone in life, experience the first heartbreak.

But even if innocent, this is a father's most passionate and sincere love. Because love is not rational enough; Because of love, is willing to be a hero in her life.

His daughter melted Han's heart and made him a double standard. Of his daughter's adolescence, he said: "I definitely want her to have a first love in her youth, and her boyfriend to be reliable. When she confirms that she has a boyfriend, I guarantee that within 72 hours, I will find out everything about him." What is the purpose of checking? It is not to take the place of the daughter to check. If the person is unreliable, or two feet on the womanizing, when the father is good to intervene. But he seems to have forgotten that he once said, "I don't think sharing is immoral, either. Marriage should be open, that is, with the understanding and permission of the ex-spouse, you should be able to multiply and repeat marriages, both men and women."

Han Shao is often rumored to be suave and uninhibited. He once said, "My wife and I have a very strong relationship, but maybe other girls are already like relatives. I even want them to be friendly and help each other, that's all. Other people will fall in love with me, and I may like other people, but no one can change what I have with my wife "-- but applying the same theory of life to his own daughter, he disagrees.

In other words, he could be "family" with other girls within the marriage, and would not allow another man to break his daughter's heart by being unfaithful. He's open to an open marriage, but if someone ever tries to have one with Ono in the future, he might beat the hell out of him.

Among Chinese literati, there are more male chauvinists than in other circles. They can sing the praises of women's tolerance and greatness, but from the bottom of their hearts, most of them don't look up to women. The so-called love is not equal. Basically, men take advantage of women at the expense of women. He is such a man, naturally know men in this hidden tricks and tricks, so when the father must be keen eyes to carefully distinguish what kind of men like themselves, to ensure that their girls do not suffer.

That's what the needle doesn't hurt until it hits the flesh. Always want to be a father, in order to more truly understand a woman's joys and sorrows, desires and fears.

Wang Shuo wrote in his novel A Little Serious: "... The clasp stretched out his little hand for the flower. The sun shines in the garden, making people and scenery look beautiful. The clasp was almost transparent in the sunlight... Innocence, carefree ignorance -- it's hard to look at." The protagonist dialect says to his daughter button, "... Button, your father can be bad for you, let you grow up with dad as a mirror to the society is a bad person can be recognized at a glance - poor world parents heart."

Wang Shuo family is also a daughter, that is his own truth. Later he also wrote "wish daughter book", hard to his daughter to analyze the dark side of his heart and the real heart course, can be called the first half of Wang Shuo's life "confessions and thinking of pain book". What the pros said: "The writing is extremely beautiful and detailed. Wang Shuo leans into this private emotional realm and reveals his affection, which he has never done before in his works." He is so sincere, it is the precipitation of his own life, more importantly, it is the daughter in his life triggered him out of the narrow vision of men, have the most profound self-criticism and reflection.

Now it seems that comparing heart with heart is a particularly old-fashioned sentence. According to Wang Shuo's language style, it should be "after addiction, death", "love who who". But people will not always stand at the top of the food chain, when falling down, to experience the original did not feel the feeling, to let compassion and compassion recovery, know that they inflicted on others those intentional or unintentional harm, are what kind of feeling.

Han Han is becoming more and more like a loving father, and accompanying Ono has become a very important thing in his life. "I've always felt that love is companionship, not much else." 'he said. This man who has a daughter, there is a kind of inner change, a pure little girl arouse his different tenderness. Visible love field prodigal children should give birth to a daughter, gave birth to a daughter, have scruples, care for her every twinkle and smile, perhaps to all women are a little more compassion, become not so low.