divorced
Sometimes a good divorce is better than a bad marriage.
Coparenting
"Post-separation co-parenting describes a situation where two parents work together to raise a child after they are divorced, separated, or never having lived together. Advocates for co-parenting oppose the habit to grant custody of a child exclusively to a single parent and promote shared parenting as a protection of the right of children to continue to receive care and love from all parents. Epidemiological studies have shown that joint custody and other arrangements where children have greater access to both parents lead to better physical, mental and health outcomes for children."
By Winter Justice4 years ago in Families
Houseplant
After any especially bad day in my marriage I buy a new houseplant. At first it wasn’t deliberate, or even clear to me as the habit developed. I would walk in retail garden sections because I found them soothing; because it helped me feel somewhat calmer, somehow more myself. And slowly the plants came home with me, clutched like little leaf babies among the shopping.
By Christina Conway4 years ago in Families
Be the Light
When you get married, divorce is never the first thing that comes to mind as you slowly make your way down the aisle, making eye contact with your soon-to-be spouse. Your future flashes before your eyes - the life you had envisioned for yourself and your spouse. Visions of traveling the world. Starting a family. Growing old together. But what happens when the world you created in your mind, comes crumbling down in the world around you? That glass-shattering reality that you never thought would be yours. So, what do you do when that becomes your reality?
By Crosbie Alexandra 4 years ago in Families
Teach a Woman to Fish
I should consider myself lucky. Some people grow up never knowing a parent, or both parents. Some still, end up getting to know only to have them unjustly ripped from their childlike hands many years too soon. I have two dads. Or had, anyway. I’m now back to the normal ‘one’. But things don’t, nor have they ever felt, normal. Like the half of U.S. households whose children witness the divorce of their parents, I am yet another statistic.
By E.K. Daniels4 years ago in Families
My Complicated Life
The story with my dad is for lack of a better word.. complicated. My parents have had a messed up relationship and went through years of struggle just to come to the resolution that I would stay with my mom for the majority of the time, I still see my dad from time to time but our relationship isn't very good and continues to deteriorate as I get older, don't get me wrong, I still would love to have a relationship with my dad but as I get older I learn more about him and my mother's past and it gets harder and harder to trust him and have the bond I see and hear about with other dads and their sons. I've had a difficult life to say the least and I just want everything to be normal, it's been tough but I realize now as I get older that it's turned me into the person I am today and in a way... I'm thankful. My Dad might not have been there for it and he may have had a negative effect, but in a way he's made me the man I am today.
By Aidan Kastl4 years ago in Families
Vice Principal who believes in inclusion
Mind maps are for everyone, both young and old, and mind-maps are for the child with a big dream. Mind-maps are for the A Student. Mind-maps are for the child others don't believe in to have a place of self-expression. Mind-maps are for the person with obstacles in their way. Mind-maps are for the CEOS who need to figure out how to get their company back on track. Mind-maps are the calmest way of resolution when it comes to weighing out distractions.
By Irene Mielke4 years ago in Families
Why You Deserve Alimony
Unfortunately, divorce can really change a person's life. You may have made plans for your life and nothing is turning out that way. You may need to sell the home where you raised your family, and find something smaller and more reasonable for one income.
By Shelley Wenger4 years ago in Families
Rough Marriage.
When my mother told me “in your age I have done more than you” or “when I was your age I would clean, cook and way more” I would always roll my eyes and be like “I’m not from the Dinosaur age, Mom!” And laugh about it. That is until she told me about her terrible, inhumane experience while she was married.
By Julie Molina4 years ago in Families







