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Love is Blind: Toxic People

The top toxic people of love is blind

By Ada ZubaPublished 2 years ago 5 min read
Love is Blind: Toxic People
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Yes, like every woman in North America I had fallen into the trap of Love is Blind, it's so juicy and so bad all at the same time. First, I will be voicing my opinion on the whole concept of Love is Blind. I do not believe that love is blind, I do not judge how a person looks right away, however, I was judging their employment status first and then their looks, because I needed a man with a stable job, which I am happy to announce I did. Anyway, I do not believe love is blind because looks matter to a certain degree I would not be married to my man if I did not find him attractive and that's the reality. You may call me out and say that I am "superficial" and I am not a "good person", but this is my opinion, and it belongs to me. Anyways, let's make this about the cast of Love is Blind.

In season 1 we met Jessica and Bartise, these two people were not the best. My first impressions of Jessica was that she would be the "mean girl" on season 1 due to her trying to get mixed up with a relationship that was not hers, and the fact that she was sharing a glass of wine with her dog, which is such a no go for me. Don't feed your dog wine. Jessica gave off the vibes that she was just there for the television show and not to fall in love.

Bartise, everything that came out of this guy's mouth just made me angry. every time he gave a compliment, he expected one back, which to me is just seeking validation from others or he was fishing for compliments, which is also red flag behavior. He was never my favorite from the start.

I need to jump to season 6 because this is where I just left off and it's fresh in my head. There was no one where I was absolutely in love with and wanted them to have what they wanted. There were only two people whom I was rooting for who were AD and Johnny. Sadly, Trevor was on that list until watching the reunion episode to learn that he was in a relationship all this time. Anyways, there were a few people with whom I loathed and that was Jeramy and Clay.

Let's talk about Jeramey what a toxic personality...the constant gaslighting, he just never stops telling lies, it's so hard to believe him and he makes it so easy for you to not trust him. He met up with another woman at night while engaged to someone else? How did he think that was a good idea? To me, it seems like he wanted to call it quits in the relationship and did not know how to tell Laura about it, so he probably leapt at the chance to meet with Sarah Ann just to piss off Laura. This whole situation made him so shady. This type of behavior I saw a lot in my ex, so that could be why I just don't like him.

Clay, Clay, Clay where do I start? I first of all think he did not go on the show to find love. The whole time it seemed like he did not want to even get married one little bit. I think that he saw this as a way to get his face out there almost like a resume so people would know who he was to grow in his career. I feel like while he was with AD he kept dropping hints that he did not want to get married and that he was going to say no at the altar.

Jimmy, I was not a fan at first, I thought him to be a decent guy, but the fact that you were hanging out with someone that you slept with, puts a red flag on you. Any man that keeps their ex around or someone that they slept with means that they are keeping them as a back-up and are kind of hoping things will take off with that person. It's always a bad idea to be friends with your ex.

JP I almost forgot about you. Almost, he's just super forgettable. I felt so bad for Taylor during the entire time they were away in Mexico. She was trying so hard in their relationship, and he was just not even trying. I literally clapped when she broke it off with him. I hope she found someone worthy loving. JP literally told her he thought she was fake because she wore makeup and it's how he approached the subject was just cringe.

Zanab, I am so sorry to put you on this list but honestly, it just seemed like she wanted to pick a fight with Cole at every possible opportunity. I think that their personalities did not match, she did not understand that he was playful and just wants to have fun and not everything he said needs to be taken seriously.

Cole, yeah like I was going to leave him alone. He did not seem mature enough to be in a long-term relationship much less a marriage. I followed him on Instagram and all the videos he posted were just not good, I think he attempted to be funny, but was failing. I did not have anything against him per se, but I really did not like him. Zanab and Cole together were not a good mix of personalities.

Shayne or should I call you shame. He went on love is blind to get airtime, that's all I see it as. I think after Natalie dumped him, he decided to go on different television shows because he wanted the fame. At first, I did not think he was terrible, but as the show progressed, the more I disliked him.

Shake. Uh this guy was the absolute worst! He earns the number 1 spot of the worst cast members for Love is blind, he degraded Deepti so much and he had no right to, she had to do so much healing to get passed that and I follow her podcast, she seems like a genuine and sweet person. Shake would call her ugly and other horrible things behind her back. Watching Deepti saying no at the altar was one of the most well-spoken speeches for saying no. I feel that none of the cast members even liked him. Anytime he was on screen I would just get a bad taste in my mouth. i cheered when she dumped him at the altar. "I deserve somebody who knows for sure. So, I'm choosing myself, and I'm going to say no." Every woman can take an example from her book.

I know it seems like most of the people I disliked were men on here, but these guys need to step it up. Keep in mind that this is just my personal opinion and not meant to offend anyone.

Who were your least favorites from the show?

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Ada Zuba

Hi everyone! here to write and when I’m not writing, I’m either looking for Wi-Fi or avoiding real-world responsibilities. Follow along for a mix of sarcasm, random observations, and whatever nonsense comes to mind. "We're all mad here"

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