Open Letter to Ernest 'Fanta' Addo & All The Romance Scammers Especially From Ghana

Wednesday, 17 July 2024

By: TB Obwoge

For some reason people think that romance scams are a simple way to gain money, or citizenship to countries besides their own. There has been an increase in romance scams from several countries around the world but in countries like Nigeria, Ghana and South Africa theses types of scams are on the rise. They are also the leading countries in Africa for scamming, first, second and third in that order.

In South East Asia in a BBC News article from March of 2024 there are also rising scams coming from certain countries there as well.

Many have said they travelled to South East Asian countries such as Cambodia and Myanmar in response to job ads and promises of perks. They are trapped once they arrive, and threatened if they refuse to participate in the scams. Escapees and survivors have alleged torture and inhuman treatment.

Governments across Asia, from Indonesia to Taiwan, have expressed alarm at the rise in these scam centres. Foreign embassies in countries like Cambodia and Thailand, for example, have issued warnings to their citizens to beware of being lured into scam centres.

Source BBC News

With the influx of Black Americans to Ghana, more women are finding out the hard way that the person they swore loved them, only wanted a way out of Ghana. Oh Black American men are also victims as well!

Recently a father and son were caught engaging in citizenship scams that invloved using an act that was created to protect women from abuse. This is the lowest form of scum on earth and the pair should be sentenced to death.

The (VAWA) Violence Against Women ACT which was created not just for woman (but mostly women are the victims of domestic abuse), below here is some information about the act.

The Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) creates and supports comprehensive, cost-effective responses to domestic violence, sexual assault, dating violence and stalking. Since its enactment in 1994, VAWA programs, administered by the U.S. Departments of Justice (DOJ) and Health and Human Services (HHS), have dramatically improved federal, tribal, state, and local responses to these crimes.

The VAWA Reauthorization Act of 2022 was included in the fiscal year 2022 omnibus spending package signed by President Joseph R. Biden on March 15, 2022. This bipartisan VAWA reauthorization includes groundbreaking provisions to strengthen and modernize the law. The law provides survivors, the thousands of local programs that serve them, and communities with much-needed resources for housing, legal assistance, alternatives to criminal responses, and prevention programming. It also includes new economic justice provisions and bolsters access for survivors of all genders by strengthening non-discrimination laws and creating an LGBTQ services program. The law also restores tribal jurisdiction, allowing tribes to hold non-Native perpetrators accountable, improves existing housing protections and increases access to emergency and short-term housing, and creates dedicated investments in culturally specific service providers to ensure survivors of color are supported.

Source: NNEDV.ORG

Here you can read the article I wrote outlining the Ghanaian father and son's disgusting act of obtaining citizenship for Africans by using this law.

Just weeks after news of their arrest a Ghanaian official was arrested in China for running a visa scam in that country. Just today in the news yet another Ghanaian in the UK is being extradited from the UK to the United States for his role in a bribery scheme.

In Ghana, Ghanaians are often calling Nigerians 419, this is a code for scammers. The one thing you will learn quickly when you live in Ghana is that the xenophobia is real, the hatred that many in the country have for Black Africans is disgusting.

For some reason many Ghanaians feel that they are the best behaved people in the world. The rape culture is there, the colorism is there, the fact that you can't get police help in an emergency is just a way of life. Women are being beaten, raped and murdered in Ghana often in the past few years.

The response of many, don't publish any news of this, hush, don't say a word, anything that makes Ghana look bad is hidden from journalism in the country. Peaceful country, with 3 violent conflicts due to tribalism but you aren't to speak of this because most Ghanaians proclaim they are the most peacfeul country in Africa.

An older Black American women lost over $80,000 USD to a Ghanaian man, she is living in fear that if she files a police report that he will find her and hurt her. She is not the only one, she even created a group for women who have dated or married African men. She now seems to bash all Africans because of that Ghanaian man.

However the 2nd highest in scamming in Africa, people seem to think this is a joke as Americans lost $10 billion USD to scamming in 2023.

Americans lost $10bn a year to fraud last year – but how and why are they getting scammed? According to FTC data, Americans lost some $10bn to fraud in 2023. But what kinds of fraud are they most likely to fall prey to? The most common kind of fraud, according to data from YouGov Profiles, is bank or credit fraud.

This to me is the worst kind of betrayal and I decided to share my open letter to Ernest Addo, a Ghanaian man with multiple children and women in Ghana, that preys on foreigners.

An Open Letter To Ernest ‘Fanta’ Addo

You were only supposed to be a moment not a lifetime!

Like that gap in your teeth many of us Black Americans were raised to believe are a sign of liars, the soldier he too had one, I loved him more than I thought I ever would. But you, you were supposed to be just a momentary mistake in judgement. You are a liar and not a good one at that, you first said you had two sons.

On Facebook there you post, 1 daughter with 1 son. Later I find out about the others, the other women, the women that belittle themselves, that open their legs to you when you were married to the mother of your first set of children.

Instead of opening their bibles from which they all are so quick to quote from like you too! You post prayers and praying hands and Twi spitting, with unfulfilled prophecies of nonsense all while fucking fucking fucking….

Babies that you make and don’t even give a damn about. Living in such filth and sleeping on bare naked floors while you seek out more women to fuck fuck fuck…and make more children that you’ll abandon to live in such poverty that many outside of Africa would say: “Look At them I told you they were inferior and savages!” A father who abandons his own flesh!

1 Corinthians 13:11

11 Meyɛ abɔfra no, mekasaa sɛ abɔfra, medwenee sɛ abɔfra, mesusuu sɛ abɔfra; na mebɛyɛɛ panin yi, magu mmɔfraasɛm no.

11 When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.

They don’t know that I fell in love with the stupid little things about you, the stupid way you stop traffic to make sure children cross the street safely without getting hit. You screamed at that boy as he was worried about his bike but not his baby brother, yet your babies 3, 5, 9, 11, and even as young as 1 year old are living in extreme poverty without you.

Sleeping on the floor. Without panties, your one and only daughter had not one pair of panties. Her mother according to your son has “many many many pairs!”, but your daughter had none.

She was so sad. When she went to that store and I bought her some panties she looked so confident, so different, she wanted a bra despite being 8 years at the time, I said ‘Dabi’ (No) but was so sad I went back during the week and got her 2 packs of bras for the following weekend.

You speak so gently to your children yet they couldn’t remember the last time they had seen you before they started coming to my place on weekends. Maybe a year, or two they had no idea, they also have no idea that you have 2, or 3 or maybe even 4 more children.

You aren’t even original as you named your eldest Kelvin and the 3 year old Kevin, wow! Kelvin and Kevin Addo, same father, siblings almost the same name! Shows you have no goal to ever have them meet yet here I am loving someone like you who was supposed to be temporary.

You have sex with multiple women yet you call them whores for opening their legs to you! You blame all the street children in Ghana on the mothers BUT you have many children you don’t take care of, when I said why do you only blame women you said, “it is their fault because they should keep their legs closed!”

Why don’t men like you start wearing condoms? Since you are spreading an STI, why don’t men like you take care of your children? When you blame the mothers why aren’t the fathers like you held accountable? You who jokes that you have 100 children!

Of course the women that think you are married should not be having sex with you yet they will and do that is Ghana for you. Bible tooting not Bible living, children born out of wedlock is an abomination of God but do any of you care?

Evil, who can be so evil and cruel to make and leave babies living like animals all over Accra, Ghana without a daddy, without beds, food, new clothing, underwear, even tooth brushes for the love of God and mommies willing to do anything for money.

You aren’t even sure you’re their biological father as you just come literally come in their mother and leave, nothing else. You take them no place, you do nothing with them, you just fuck like an animal and leave them there!

These women accept this too they are even to blame, they don’t even know where you live, your mother’s name or face even. Yet you made babies with your last names plastered on them. Your own family doesn’t even know these children exist how disgusting.

You are embarrassing to me what a failure I have made of my life to even have been with you, even to fall in love with such a sociopath! I feel like I have failed at life for months I have been unable to move what a huge mistake to come up from.

I can’t seem to move past this, not like the normal fuck up in my life this feels like the ultimate, I don’t feel like I can move on. You were the biggest mistake I have ever made and I am so ashamed & embarrassed by you the anger consumes me.

Source: Medium (Author Self)

The above group of photos are from several Facebook accounts used to scam even Africans, hoping to find love with white westerners. Oddly enough many of the stolen or AI photos aren't of all white men, there are various Arab, Asain and in several cases lighter skin Black men.

These pages are even linked to WhatsApp accounts with so-called hosts who are looking to collect money from those wishing to meet one of these singles.

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