Embarrassment
An ode to imposter syndrome
An ode to imposter syndrome Self-worth and self-belief are the two sides of the same coin. We all have seeds of self-doubt planted within us, either from our inner limiting beliefs, trauma or negative projections of other people’s opinions. It is hilarious how we place our self-esteem in the hands of others with ease and then find ourselves in the labyrinth of negative perceptions of ourselves or dwindling confidence in our abilities. Life is a paradox, to heal you must be hurt, amid the most massive of pain and breakdown lies the most eminent breakthrough you would ever receive. If you want confidence and faith in your abilities, you must swim through the turbulent ocean of self-doubt and insecurity.
By Hridya Sharmaabout a year ago in Confessions
Letting Go: How Detachment Can Help You Heal Toxic Relationships
Letting Go: How Detachment Can Help You Heal Toxic Relationships Many individuals in the self-help and dating advice community often emphasize the importance of independence, but there is a disconnect between societal norms and scientific evidence. Building strong emotional connections with others has been shown to result in increased levels of happiness, success, and overall well-being in individuals' lives. Some individuals offer self-help and dating advice and believe in the importance of being independent. Building strong emotional connections with others has been shown to increase happiness, effectiveness, and overall stability in life.
By Hridya Sharmaabout a year ago in Confessions
Secure Attachment Style - FINALLY!!!. Content Warning.
Note: I use the word relationship throughout this article. In the way I am using this word, take it to mean any kind of interaction with other people whether as co-workers, friends, family, acquaintances, or professionals.
By The Schizophrenic Momabout a year ago in Confessions
her story
Her story i dont think i can get myself in any more trouble with her, so to start things with this blog talking about my faith i wont start with my dad thinking I'll be locked up by the age of 18, or almost getting kicked out of school or even falling for a fake princess. I'm actually gonna start off with what got me to go into church for what for my recall is the first time in my 20 plus years life going to church. looking back on it i feel like i did want to wanna go but I'll rather stay home drinking and smoking or just watching youtube. but I'm a guy in my 20's who can have a crush on a blonde Christian girl who can beat me a game of 21-0 by the score of 21-0 that i never talked to in high school but had her on Facebook. however at that time i knew that i was the last person that would have a shot with her. living with my mom, no car, a fast food job, half teeth basically and had nothing go for him is such top line picking by the girls. nah. still to this day if you asked me what kind of guy does she deserve i'll answer with this a strong, successful, smart starting qb or that point gaurd on a undefeated championship team who drives the fancy cars and lives in the fancy houses. thats not really my life is it. so my dumbass figured well a lot of guys are probably texting her, messeging her how she looks or etc so whats one thing that guys are most lilkely scared to do. yea show up to her church. yea yea i know how that sounds but in my head i was like thats how i can stand out. but yea that wasn't a good idea at all, and by the way i'm not good at hiding my feelings even til this day.even though i wanted to go to church for non girl related it still took a girl to get me to go. however time passes and things were ended, both had left. so on easter i finally returned about 2 years later. she hasn't and lets be real probably wont ever talk to yours truly. i returned because it was time to return to him and because honestly i felt like i let her down by not being myself back then and i want redemtiption. i wont lie, i blame myself for her leaving the church, i blame myself for not being me back then. looking back on things it hurts because i can handle being myself and not doing the impossible, but not being me and taking the time to have a bond with the man upstairs. so here i am going around doing what i'm doing proving to those who put their time in to better me wasn't wasted, im doing what im doing to prove my haters wrong and i'm showing them two middle fingers. but im also wanting to do what as redemtipon. i wont lie do i still have a crush on her, yea because look at her- not just her skin but her personaitly. however its more then that. someone that is her unoffcialy dad and someone that has become my 3rd dad has heard me say this way to many times- i want rededmtion. because i cant let the story end with my biggest mistake. i did this, i made her hate me. just my mindset that i overcome my mistakes. some say dont let the past control you but the past drives me. when i feel down i think of everyone that betrayled me, the heartbreaks of my story,etc. her hating me is ending the story halfway. i dont leave stuff done half way. am i using god to get rededtption with her, in a sense. because its about accepting where i went wrong and him telling me to keep focused. but heres the thing at the same time i'm becoming a better man, chrisitan, co-worker and friend. tho its hard for me to move on simply because those closet to me knows that im the type of guy that dont leave things unfinished and if i get myself on your bad side because of my stupidness i'm gonna earn another chance.
By josh napperabout a year ago in Confessions
The Quest for being right
You really have no idea how desperate most people are to be right all the time. It’s quite amazing!, they’ll go as far as denying reality itself if that means they can be right in the end. This yearning for validation can shape a person’s judgment and fundamentally influence their overall worldview. Deep down, the need to be right comes from a drive for certainty and self-assurance. Being right is comforting, reassuring, and provides an internal balance. Humans always seek for validation from other humans, this builds up their assurance, ego and happiness, it makes up for the flaws they might have while satisfying their biases.
By real Jemaabout a year ago in Confessions
The Risks of Butt Implants
In the evolving landscape of cosmetic surgery, butt implants have surged in popularity as a solution for those looking to enhance the shape and volume of their buttocks. Promising a fuller, more contoured figure, butt implants appeal to many who wish to achieve their ideal body shape quickly and effectively. However, despite their growing trend, these implants come with significant risks and potential complications. Dr. Dubrow, a leading plastic surgeon known for his cautious approach, has voiced strong concerns about the dangers associated with butt implants. In this blog, we’ll explore the reasons behind Dr. Dubrow’s reservations and why it's crucial to consider these risks before opting for this procedure.
By Horace Waslandabout a year ago in Confessions
A TASTE OF THE UNEXPECTED; UFUOMA'S CULINARY CHALLENGE IN AGBARHO
In the quaint village of Agbarho, nestled in the heart of Delta State, Ufuoma was a beloved figure. Her culinary prowess was legendary, with every dish she prepared becoming a feast that transcended mere sustenance. Neighbors and friends would often gather at her home, knowing that Ufuoma’s cooking would turn an ordinary day into a special occasion. Her kitchen was a sanctuary of flavors, each meal a testament to her skill and love for her craft.
By donaldabout a year ago in Confessions
The Midas Touch: A Modern Myth
The dream of wealth was Alex's golden calf. He chased it relentlessly, devouring books, attending seminars, and networking with fervor. Yet the elusive treasure remained just beyond his grasp. A chance encounter with the myth of King Midas forced him to confront the emptiness of his pursuit.
By Iftikhar Akramabout a year ago in Confessions
THE EARLY BIRTHDAY FIASCO ; HOW MY CONFESSION BECAME OFFICE LORE
It was a typical Tuesday afternoon when I first stumbled into the Confessions Community. My aim was simple: I wanted to unwind after a long day by reading some amusing confessions. The site was known for its blend of humor and human folly, and I figured I could use a good laugh. Little did I know that I was about to become a central figure in one of those cringe-worthy stories.
By donaldabout a year ago in Confessions
