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How to Make Him Commit: 5 Ways to Use Your Phone To Get His Attention

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By Dimitris SofosPublished 3 years ago 4 min read

Are you ready to turn up the heat and get your crush to commit to you? If you’re looking for ways to make him commit, you’re in the right place. Technology has made it easier than ever to reach out and capture a guy’s attention, particularly through the use of your phone. Here are five ways to use your phone to make him commit. From sending a text message at the right time to using social media to your advantage, this guide will help you make the most of your phone and get his attention. With the right strategy, you can make him yours in no time. So don’t wait - let’s get started.

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Using Text Messages to Get His Attention

While you should always be careful not to come on too strong or too fast, you can use text messages to get his attention and build a connection. Start by re-reading his online dating profile and looking at his photos. Once you’ve got a sense of who he is and what he’s interested in, ask him a question that’s related to his interests. This is a great way to show that you’re interested in getting to know him on a deeper level, while also providing an excuse to start a conversation with him. If there are any particularly interesting facts on his profile that you think he would enjoy knowing that you know too, mention them in your conversation. This will show him that you’re interested in talking to him and that you’ve taken the time to read through his profile. Once you’ve got a conversation going with him, be sure to keep the conversation flowing with a bit of flirting and teasing. But always be sure to keep the conversation casual and fun.

Creating a Sense of Mystery

While it’s important to make it clear that you’re interested in him, you don’t want to make it too obvious or he’ll lose interest. One way to show him that you’re interested without making him feel pressured is to create a sense of mystery. This can be done by playing hard to get, keeping your messages short and sweet, and not responding to his texts right away. If you’re both using dating apps, you can also make it appear as though you’re more popular than you are. For example, if you’re using Tinder, don’t swipe right on every guy who comes up on your feed. Instead, hold off on deciding so that he doesn’t think you’ve seen him and that you’re interested in him.

Making the Most of Social Media

Social media is another great way to get his attention and make him commit. Start by liking and commenting on his posts. This will help him know that you’re paying attention to what he’s posting, while also allowing you to get a feel for his interests and likes. Once you start liking and commenting on his posts, he’ll know that you’re interested and that you’ve taken the time to get to know him better. If you find yourself liking a lot of his content, you can also try sending him a private message letting him know that you like what he’s posting. Another thing you can do is send him a friend request. While you don’t want to do this as a way to get his attention, it can help you two connect once you have his attention. If you have a mutual friend, you can also ask that friend to let him know that you’d like to connect with him.

Leveraging Photos to Get His Attention

The photos you post on your dating profile or social media can also help you attract a guy’s attention. When choosing the photos for your dating profile and social media, be sure to pick photos that show you in your best light. You should choose photos that highlight your best features and show you as confident and happy. Avoid posting photos that make you look sad or angry. Similarly, you should avoid commenting on photos that make you look angry or upset. While it’s okay to comment on political posts and advocate for the issues that are important to you, you don’t want to do so in a way that will scare off guys. When posing for your photos, you should always smile and make sure to look at the camera. If you’re posing with friends, make sure that you’re also looking at the camera, rather than your friends. While you want to show that you’re happy and confident, you don’t want to come off as too serious. Posting photos that show you having a good time, having interests outside of your relationship, and feeling comfortable in your skin will help you attract guys who are interested in committing to you.

Having Fun with Voice Messages

One thing that many people don’t realize you can do with your voice messages is flirt. Start by recording a voice message thanking him for taking the time to message you and letting him know that you’re interested in getting to know him better. You can also record a voice message telling him that he’s cute or that he has awesome taste in music or books. Be sure to keep your voice messages playful and flirtatious. Another thing you can do with your voice messages is recorded yourself reading a favorite poem or passage. This is a great way to show that you’ve taken the time to get to know him better and that you care about him. While it’s tempting to send him a voice message the second he sends you a message or makes an effort to talk with you, try to hold off for at least a few days. This will show him that you’re not desperate for his attention and that you’re not going crazy trying to get a hold of him.

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