Lena Bailey
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Georgia born writer. Specializing in dating and true crime
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Why BDSM Is Popular
Bondage and kink as we know it has been around for over 50 years but it has only been or gotten popular just a few years ago. I believe the popularity of it all began with 50 Shades of Grey. We have talked before why 50 Shades of Grey was 50 shades of crap. People just couldn't get enough of kink, hopefully they learned the right way to do kinky stuff though. If it turns you on don't listen to the vanillas (the non kinky people), they may bad mouth what you like. Yes Christian Grey was a little abusive but there are doms out there that are 100 times better and they are true doms. Real doms will cringe or laugh when you mention 50 Shades. I think porn and Tumblr also helped. There have been other movies or books that mention or portray kink. Sometimes Criminal Minds does episodes based on kink or swinging. I know I got into it because of both 50 Shades and Tumblr.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
What BDSM Isn't Part 4
Even after doing other posts about this topic, I still found more myths about BDSM. You can say no. You don't always have to do whatever your partner wants. You also always have rights. I have heard so many times that the bottom or sub type doesn't have rights. Sub types can give up their rights if they want to but that's their choice. I may do a whole article about sub rights later. You can have boundaries; most people have them. The list of boundaries can be as long as it needs to be for you.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
What BDSM Isn't Part 3
If you have not read part one or two click on my name to go to my page to do so. One myth that I haven't heard but heard similar ones to is that BDSM is about hurting people and making them do things they don't want to do. There's so much wrong with this statement. First off people can ask not to be hurt. Secondly, the lifestyle is just not all these people running around hurting people. The good people in the lifestyle actually care about people and their boundaries. Third, people can set up boundaries and the right people will respect the boundaries of others. It's not always violent or painful.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
What BDSM Isn't #1
So in one of my past posts I talked about how BDSM isn't abuse but there are so many more lies that people believe about the lifestyle. If you don't understand something you shouldn't judge it. There are some people that are in the lifestyle or have been in the lifestyle that don't understand what it is. There's also people who were in it and then had bad experiences or just really didn't like it and they badmouth the lifestyle. There are people who are doing it wrong and they give it a bad name. Yes, there is a way to do BDSM wrong, and we will talk about it through here.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Filthy
History of Pride and Why It Still Exists
Pride has been in the news lately because it was pride month in June and a bunch of straight people wanted straight pride to be a thing. So let's dive in and see why pride is for LGBT+ and not straight people but first let's look at what pride is.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Humans
Abortion
In this article, I will tell you the basics about abortion. We will just be talking about abortion, not miscarriages, which are sometimes called spontaneous abortion. Some people are against it just because they don't understand what an abortion is and why people would get one. I will explain all of that, so let's dive in.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Viva
They Hide and Float
I was always taught not to fear ghost or spirits, we all had experiences through out the years and even made it a part of our time together to share stories. My grandma told me "don’t be scared of the monsters, just look for them. Look to your left, to your right, under your bed, behind your dresser, in your closet but never look up those don't want to be seen." My first experience happened when I was getting ready to head out for school. I heard knocking so I checked the doors and the windows but no one was there. Then when I went back to the bathroom I heard it again and it was coming from the mirror, I noticed it was moving as if someone was knocking on it.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Horror
Thoughts and Is "Dear David" a Hoax?
If you read my coverage of the story you know what it is. If you haven't read it please go to my page and do so now. But to recap its a story about a guy who was being haunted by a boy ghost. A lot of people think it's fake to set up a movie. We never really got an ending because of the movie contract.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Horror
Dear David 7
If you haven't read parts one through six please click my name to do so now. November 6, 2017 After the dream, Adam went on about his day as normal but then he went into his gallery or camera roll. There were a lot of black pictures from last night. He shared the photos and all of them are of David.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Horror
Dear David 6
If you haven't read any of my posts in this story, you can click on my name and read the other posts. October 14, 2017 After the backlight situation, Adam couldn't back to sleep, so he went on about his day. As he was getting ready, he thought he heard a lite scratching on the door from the other side. He was too scared to put his eye to the peep hole, so he opted to take pictures. When he looked at them they were a little blurry but he can make out part of a face. He decided that at this point it may be time to get someone else involved. He's having a hard time figuring out what to do next or who even to go to, but he thinks it's time to do something.
By Lena Bailey6 years ago in Horror
