
Ada Zuba
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Hi everyone! here to write and when I’m not writing, I’m either looking for Wi-Fi or avoiding real-world responsibilities. Follow along for a mix of sarcasm, random observations, and whatever nonsense comes to mind. "We're all mad here"
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Choose your Partner
Before marriage, before starting a relationship there is much to think about. You need to decide what to look for in a partner, you need to decide which flags are red, which are green, and which are yellow because this is the person that you will be with. This is the partner that you will have all your adventures with, the partner that you will have a "ship" with, and that ship can sail many seas, either high or low tide, either through a storm or the calm. You want them to navigate and explore other islands with you, these islands might be mysterious, might be treacherous, but you need to know you can get through it all together. Don't forget about the mist that may rise and fall. I am so glad I have the partner that I have. We were both very open on what we wanted right from the beginning of the relationship. I chose the job I have for reasons that I get really good benefits; I have a retirement plan; I have flexibility from going part-time to casual to full-time all to plan for having future children. My husband was looking for someone that would be willing to raise children and be an at home mom, while he goes to work to make money for the family.
By Ada Zubaabout a year ago in Motivation