Journey 104: Romanticising My Life: Making Everyday Feel Beautiful

Do you know that peaceful feeling when you’re detached—not in a way that makes you distant, but in a way that keeps you grounded? When you’re focused on your own path, working on your goals, and appreciating life’s lessons without constantly seeking external validation? That feeling is priceless, and for me, it became a turning point.

That was the shift in my life that took my self-love journey to another level. It wasn’t an overnight change, but a slow, intentional process. The moment I stopped waiting for approval and started validating myself, everything became lighter. I no longer carried the weight of perfectionism on my shoulders, and suddenly, life felt more enjoyable. If you haven’t yet, check out my previous post on how I finally let go of the fear of imperfection and external validation. That realization was the foundation for everything that followed.

Then something beautiful happened—I started seeing my everyday moments in a new light.

✨ My skincare routine wasn’t just about cleansing; it became a ritual of self-care, a moment to appreciate my reflection and take care of my skin with love.
✨ Rewarding myself after stressful exams wasn’t just an indulgence; it was a form of self-appreciation, a way of reminding myself that I deserved kindness from myself.
✨ Giving my honest opinion without overthinking? That felt like true freedom—the kind that comes when you stop worrying about how others might interpret your words and just express yourself authentically.

I stopped filtering my choices through the lens of other people’s opinions. Instead, I asked myself: Does this feel right to me? And if the answer was yes, that was all the validation I needed.

I started dressing for myself—not for compliments, not to fit into trends, but because I loved how certain styles made me feel. My self-love practices, like journaling and affirmations, weren’t just occasional habits anymore; they became my lifestyle, woven seamlessly into my day. Waking up, saying my morning prayers, and reminding myself that everything happening today is working for my highest good—it all became a part of my daily rhythm.

Three Ways I Romanticize My Life Every Day:

1🌱 Shifting My Mindset: Everything Works in My Favor
Letting go of a victim mentality was one of the most powerful shifts I made. I started to believe—deeply—that life wasn’t happening to me but for me. Every challenge, no matter how frustrating or painful in the moment, had something valuable to teach me. It wasn’t always easy. There were moments of self-doubt, but even in those, I reminded myself that they would pass. And when they did, I would emerge wiser, stronger, and more in alignment with the person I was becoming.


2🌱 Practicing Healthy Detachment
Being detached doesn’t mean being cold or disconnected from people. For me, it means being so connected with myself that I don’t need external validation to feel secure. I can appreciate love and friendships, but I also know that my happiness doesn’t depend on them. I welcome new people and experiences, but my personal boundaries? They’re non-negotiable. I no longer overextend myself just to be liked. I protect my peace, and in doing so, I show up more fully in the relationships that truly matter.


3.🌱 Doing What I Love—Unapologetically
This was a game-changer for me. There was a time when I hesitated to do the things I loved because I worried too much about what others might think. Now? I don’t hold back. If something brings me joy, aligns with my values, and makes me feel more alive, I do it—without second-guessing.

I indulge in beautiful scents, not because I crave compliments, but because fragrance is a form of self-expression for me. It’s a love language I practice with myself. I step out in the sun, feeling radiant, knowing I don’t need anyone to tell me I’m glowing—I already know.

The little things truly shift your mindset. They turn everyday routines into meaningful rituals. They transform self-care from a task into a way of life.

Now, I’d love to hear from you! How do you romanticize your self-love journey? Drop a 💓 if this resonates with you, and let’s chat in the comments.