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What you think of as love, is also love

There is a saying that all the love in this world is clear when one person looks at another person.

By oasisPublished 3 years ago 3 min read

Hot summer, it seems that a lot of couples and couples have gone their separate ways, take the entertainment industry for example, Song Hye Kyo Song Joong Ki, how well matched a pair, also ended up with legal means less than two years of marriage; Li Chen and Fan Bingbing have changed from us to us and are no longer us; More recently, Ma Yili and Zhang Wen have also embarked on an amicable separation. So, how to talk about love, how to manage, in order to last for a long time......

Whether it be in the countryside or in the woods of steel, it is man, not any other unenlightened creature, who struggles on. Because we broke out of the era of simply living and procreating. As times change and technology develops, whether you can keep up with the current trends or not, we are all struggling to move forward. No matter how cruel The Times may be, there is always a comforting primordiousness in man - living in groups.

There is a saying that all the love in this world is clear when one person looks at another person.

After dinner with my sister and her boyfriend that day, I knew they were in love -- the way they looked at each other said it all without special introduction.

My sister is 28 this year, and I have never seen her in love before, so I can hardly imagine what she will be like in love. Can also act in pettish, also clingy, also can say some sweet love words? However, she is always careless, if really become like this, I can not believe it. In fact, it wasn't her personality that changed, it was...

I used to listen to her about her criteria for choosing a spouse. She said that her future boyfriend must be tall, at least 1.78 meters above. At that time, I really listened to her on the phone with the matchmaker to emphasize that height is a rigid condition, but there is no need to know. Back then, she was a bit of a bully, never one to compromise.

Now, her boyfriend is less than 5 '7 "tall and they stand neck-and-neck together. I used to tease her and say, isn't it necessary to find a tall person? What, now, what, desperate?

My sister's answer also surprised me, because her slightly shy expression, she said that the feeling is right, where are so many rules?

Maybe, those so-called standards are used to reject the wrong people, the right people will always be treated differently.

Just like my sister once said, she hated people to call her at night, because it disturbed her watching TV, which I understand very much. She is really a couch potato. Now, she can talk to her boyfriend for several hours almost every night about everything from applying facial masks to shooting mosquitoes. Every time, I was the bad guy, urging her not to talk too late and go to bed early.

In the past, when my sister was urged by me to do something else, she either refused to listen, or became angry and angry and blamed me for being too much. But now, thanks to the magic of love, she softened, complained a little, but eventually gave in.

About what is love? I have also asked other friends who are in love. Some say they are very comfortable and comfortable together. Some say it is sweet, being concerned about happiness; Others say it is flat and quiet, without too many waves.

Love may be presented in different ways in different couples, but there must be a tacit understanding of slowly approaching each other, a natural smile when seeing each other, and a radiant and tender eyes.

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