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Advice and tips on managing mental health, maintaining a positive outlook and becoming your happiest self.

The Weight of Quiet
John tossed again, the sheets tangled around his legs like a net. Two-thirty. The digital glow of the alarm clock burned a hole in the stale air of the bedroom. Sarah was a still lump beside him, her breathing shallow, even. He knew she was probably faking sleep, just like he was faking a future where everything was fine. He knew because a week ago, he’d been the lump, pretending the world outside his eyelids didn’t exist, didn’t contain the cold, hard lump of wrongness that had settled in his gut.
By HAADI29 days ago in Psyche
Two poetic essay excerpts. Top Story - December 2025.
Unrecognition I'm tired of being unrecognized, value wise. I'm tired of losing friends, of being alone. 'Cause what's the difference of being alone and being lonely?
By Maya Or Tzur29 days ago in Psyche
Malicious Liars Or Something Else?
Have you ever been listening to someone... Especially someone in some position of power... A C-Suite Executive... A Politician...
By Dr. Cody Dakota Wooten, DFM, DHM, DAS (hc)30 days ago in Psyche
The Gift of Detachment
For most of my life, I believed that holding on tightly was a sign of love, commitment, and responsibility. I held on to plans, to expectations, to people, and to outcomes. I told myself that if I cared enough, worried enough, and tried hard enough, things would turn out the way I hoped.
By Fazal Hadi30 days ago in Psyche
The Simple Science of Self-Love
For a long time, self-love felt like a mystery I couldn’t solve. I saw people talk about it online—loving yourself, choosing yourself, accepting yourself—and I wondered what they were doing that I wasn’t. I assumed self-love was a feeling you woke up with one day, like confidence or happiness.
By Fazal Hadiabout a month ago in Psyche
Build Better Habits in 21 Days
For a long time, I thought habits were something you either had or didn’t. Some people just did things every day—woke up early, exercised, journaled, stayed organized—while people like me tried, failed, and quietly felt ashamed for not sticking to anything.
By Fazal Hadiabout a month ago in Psyche
Why Your Anxiety Gets Worse at Night & What Helps
If you’ve ever felt perfectly fine during the day but somehow become overwhelmed the moment everything gets quiet at night, you’re not alone. Many people experience this uncomfortable shift — where worries feel louder, the mind refuses to slow down, and small things suddenly seem much bigger than they are.
By Liam Osuosabout a month ago in Psyche
Not Everyone is Counting Down
Every year, starting December 1st, the countdown begins. Advent calendars are opened. Holiday movies play on repeat. Conversations fill with excitement about traditions, plans, and everything people can’t wait for. And every year, I watch that countdown from the outside.
By Annie Edwards about a month ago in Psyche
The Power of Tiny Efforts
For a long time, I believed that change had to be loud. Big goals. Big plans. Big transformations. If I couldn’t do something perfectly or all at once, I often didn’t do it at all. I waited for motivation to strike, for energy to appear, for the “right time” to arrive. And while I waited, days quietly passed.
By Fazal Hadiabout a month ago in Psyche
How to Handle Emotional Overload
There are days when the world feels louder than usual—when every little thing presses on your chest as if your heart has forgotten how to make space.
By Fazal Hadiabout a month ago in Psyche
My Best Habit: Daily Review
I used to end my days feeling like I had lived on fast-forward. I rushed, reacted, checked off tasks, and collapsed into bed with a messy mind. Some nights felt like I blinked and the entire day had passed without me being truly there for any of it.
By Fazal Hadiabout a month ago in Psyche
The Emotional Echo: How Micro-Rejections Shape Our Inner World. AI-Generated.
Most people understand the sting of major rejection. A breakup, a job denial, a falling-out with a friend—these events leave marks that are easy to recognize. But psychology has begun paying increasing attention to something far quieter: micro-rejections. These are small, often fleeting moments of social dismissal that many of us overlook or brush aside. A text left unanswered, a slightly cold tone from someone we care about, a subtle exclusion from a group conversation, a joke that doesn’t land the way we hoped—it’s easy to dismiss these experiences as trivial. Yet they leave emotional echoes that can meaningfully influence our behavior, self-perception, and overall psychological health.
By Kyle Butlerabout a month ago in Psyche