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I Didn't Say That

Stick And Stones: Debunked

By Kelli Sheckler-AmsdenPublished 8 months ago 1 min read
I Didn't Say That
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"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me"

That rhyme is often used as a retort to insults or taunts, suggesting that the speaker is not affected by the hurtful words. However, the sentiment expressed in the rhyme is often debated, as many recognize that words can indeed cause significant emotional pain and distress.

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You use your words as weapons

and they cut me to the bone

I have to watch where I am stepping

to avoid the cutting stones

That you hurl, in your words

while I suffer in the silence

Though I don't bleed, they sting and hurt

thrown aggressively and violent

You repeat things that I never said

to control how people see me

Though these wounds have never bled

the scars I bear are hidden down deep

Changing me forever at the core

nothing left but apathy

There's no need in saying more

you never hear what I say, anyway

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Kelli Sheckler-Amsden

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  • Randy Wayne Jellison-Knock8 months ago

    May neither mine nor the words of any other ever hurt thee, my friend, but only lift you up.

  • Calvin London8 months ago

    On many occasions, I would rather take the sticks and stones. Words can cut very deep, and some never heal or go away.

  • This is so poignant, Kelli.It's difficult to be surrounded by those who suppress!

  • C. Rommial Butler8 months ago

    Well-wrought! Though words can hurt, I always took the point of the old rhyme as to not give satisfaction to the bully. There's also the old "I'm rubber, you're glue, what bounces off me sticks to you" bit. The two retorts always seemed to work best together!

  • Mother Combs8 months ago

    Words can truly break a heart

  • L.I.E8 months ago

    Aww yes, words can cut deep. Wish more people were aware of this. This is a major struggle in this world today. Great poem, with powerful emotion.

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