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What Does it Mean to be a "Preservation Breeder?"
When I first started "in dogs" back in late 1999, I had a goal. I was looking into "good" Toy Fox Terrier breeders, who at least talked a good game about health testing (which involved hearing, eye, and patella exams!) and who had show dogs in the first three generations of their puppies' pedigrees. I had a specific dog in my mind's eye: a white and tan male with a solid-colored head. That was it. I had no other criteria. I just wanted a dog that bore no resemblance to my little Oma, who had been poisoned--while in my own yard--by a neighbor earlier in the year. I knew that Oma had seeded the love for the breed so deeply that I wanted to help the breed continue into a prosperous future. I wanted to breed and to show and to compete with Toy Fox Terriers.
By Kimberly J Egan12 days ago in Petlife
A Shocking Discovery: Why Cats Choose Certain People in the House
You Live Together… But Your Cat Chose Them You all share the same house. You feed the cat. You clean the litter box. You buy the toys. Yet somehow… Your cat curls up next to one specific person. Follows them from room to room. Ignores everyone else. And you can’t help but ask the painful question: “Why does my cat love them more than me?” For years, people believed cats simply picked favorites randomly. But recent discoveries in cat behavior science, feline psychology, and animal bonding reveal something far more fascinating — and emotional. Cats don’t choose their favorite human by accident. They choose them for very specific reasons. And once you understand those reasons, you may never look at your cat the same way again. The Myth That Cats Are “Random” Is Officially Dead One of the biggest myths about cats is that they are unpredictable, cold, or indifferent. Science says otherwise. A growing body of research in feline behavior and human-animal bonding shows that cats are highly selective, emotionally intelligent creatures who form deep — but calculated — attachments. In fact, cats evaluate humans constantly. Every movement. Every tone of voice. Every reaction. And based on that information, they make a choice. How Cats Decide Who Their Favorite Person Is According to veterinarians and animal behaviorists, cats use a combination of emotional safety, energy levels, routine, and trust to select their favorite human. Here are the key factors behind that shocking decision: 1. Emotional Energy Matters More Than Food Yes, food helps. But it’s not the most important factor. Cats are extremely sensitive to emotional energy. They prefer people who: Are calm and predictable Move slowly and gently Don’t force attention Respect boundaries Ironically, the person who tries the least often wins. Cats see loud, unpredictable behavior as a threat — not affection. 2. Cats Trust the Ones Who Don’t Chase Them One of the most surprising discoveries in cat psychology is this: Cats bond faster with people who ignore them at first. Why? Because: It feels safe There’s no pressure The cat feels in control That’s why guests who “don’t like cats” often become the chosen one. To a cat, patience equals respect. 3. Your Cat Chooses Who Feels Safe, Not Who Feels Fun Dogs choose playmates. Cats choose protectors. Your cat gravitates toward the person who: Reacts calmly to stress Doesn’t overreact to scratching or hissing Provides a consistent routine To a cat, emotional stability = survival. The Science of Scent: Why Smell Is Everything Cats experience the world through scent more than sight. They choose humans whose natural scent: Feels familiar Feels non-threatening Feels consistent That’s why cats often sleep on: One person’s clothes One side of the bed One specific pillow Your smell becomes a safe territory. Why Cats Avoid People Who Love Them Too Much This part hurts — but it’s true. Over-affection can push cats away. Cats dislike: Forced cuddles Being picked up constantly Direct staring Loud baby talk To a cat, too much affection feels like loss of control. They prefer love that’s offered — not demanded. Body Language: The Secret Language Cats Understand Cats read body language better than words. They prefer people who: Blink slowly Sit or lie on the floor Turn their bodies sideways Allow the cat to initiate contact If your cat chooses someone else, chances are that person is unknowingly speaking cat language fluently. Routine Is Love in a Cat’s World Cats thrive on routine. They bond with the person who: Wakes up at the same time Comes home consistently Feeds or interacts predictably Consistency creates trust. Trust creates attachment. Why Cats Choose One Person — Even in Big Families In multi-person households, cats often pick one primary bond. This doesn’t mean they don’t love others. It means they feel: Safest Calmest Most understood with that one individual. To a cat, emotional safety beats quantity of attention every time. Indoor Cats Bond More Intensely Research shows indoor cats form stronger human attachments than outdoor cats. Why? Because: Humans are their main social interaction Humans control resources Humans represent safety If your indoor cat has chosen someone, that bond is incredibly deep. Can You Become Your Cat’s Favorite Person? Yes — but you can’t force it. Experts recommend: Letting the cat approach you Using calm tones Creating shared routines Respecting personal space Rewarding interaction without overwhelming The moment you stop trying too hard… is often the moment your cat comes closer. The Emotional Truth We Rarely Admit Your cat’s choice isn’t personal. It’s instinctive. Cats choose based on: Survival Comfort Emotional safety Not favoritism. Not betrayal. Just trust. Why This Discovery Changes Everything Understanding why cats choose certain people: Strengthens human-cat relationships Reduces jealousy in households Improves cat mental health Builds deeper empathy Your cat isn’t rejecting you. They’re responding to what feels safest. The Quiet Loyalty of Cats Cats don’t shout their love. They whisper it. Through presence. Through trust. Through choosing to stay close. When a cat chooses someone — it’s one of the deepest forms of trust in the animal world. Final Thought The next time your cat curls up beside that person again, remember: They didn’t choose randomly. They chose safety. They chose calm. They chose trust. And that… is love in a cat’s language. . If this article made you understand your cat on a deeper level: 👉 Like this post 👉 Follow me for more science-based, emotional pet stories 👉 Share this with someone whose cat “chose the wrong person” 😼 Let’s help more people understand the quiet hearts of cats ❤️ .
By Ahmed aldeabella13 days ago in Petlife
Shocking Study Reveals the Hidden Emotions of Cats When You’re Not Home
The Moment You Leave… Something Changes You grab your keys. Your cat watches you from the couch. You say, “I’ll be back soon.” And then… the door closes. For years, people believed cats were independent, emotionless, and perfectly fine being left alone. Unlike dogs, cats were thought to simply sleep all day and not care whether you were home or not. But a shocking new study suggests something very different. What if your cat isn’t as calm as you think? What if, behind those quiet eyes, something emotional is happening the moment you leave? Recent scientific research into cat psychology, feline behavior, and animal emotions is changing everything we thought we knew about our feline companions. And the truth? It might surprise you — or even make you feel guilty. The Study That Shocked Cat Owners Worldwide A group of animal behaviorists and veterinary scientists conducted a multi-year study focused on how cats emotionally respond to being left alone. Using: Motion sensors Video surveillance Heart rate monitors Vocalization analysis Researchers observed cats in their own homes when their owners were away for several hours. The results went viral almost instantly. Cats didn’t just sleep. They waited. They searched. They reacted emotionally. Do Cats Miss Their Owners? Science Says Yes One of the biggest myths about cats is that they don’t form strong emotional bonds with humans. This study completely destroyed that belief. Researchers found that: Cats often wait near doors or windows after their owner leaves Many cats show increased stress levels within the first 30 minutes Heart rates rise, similar to mild anxiety responses Some cats vocalize more when alone In simple words: Cats do miss you. They may not show it like dogs do, but emotionally, they are far more attached than we ever imagined. The Silent Anxiety No One Talks About Unlike dogs, cats are masters of hiding emotions. This study identified a phenomenon now referred to as “silent separation anxiety in cats.” Signs include: Excessive grooming Changes in eating habits Scratching furniture more aggressively Sitting motionless for long periods Watching the door you left through Many cat owners mistake this behavior for calmness. In reality, it’s often emotional coping. What Your Cat Thinks While You’re Gone Based on behavior patterns, researchers identified three emotional stages cats often experience when left alone: Stage 1: Confusion Your cat notices the routine change. Keys, shoes, silence. Something feels wrong. Stage 2: Expectation They wait. Near the door. On your bed. On your clothes. Your scent comforts them. Stage 3: Adaptation Eventually, they retreat inward — conserving energy, sleeping, or self-soothing. This doesn’t mean they stop caring. It means they’re surviving emotionally. Cats Recognize Time — And Your Absence One of the most fascinating discoveries was that cats appear to have a basic sense of time. Cats reacted differently to: Short absences (1–2 hours) Medium absences (4–6 hours) Long absences (8+ hours) The longer the absence, the stronger the stress indicators. This suggests cats expect your return — and notice when you’re late. Why Some Cats Act “Mad” When You Come Home Have you ever returned home only to be ignored by your cat? That cold shoulder isn’t indifference. It’s emotional processing. The study suggests cats may experience a form of emotional conflict: Relief you’re back Stress from being alone A need to regain control So when your cat walks away instead of greeting you — they’re not angry. They’re overwhelmed. Indoor Cats Feel It Even More Indoor cats showed stronger emotional reactions than outdoor cats. Why? Because: You are their main source of stimulation You are their primary social bond Your absence feels more significant For indoor cats, you are their world. How to Help Your Cat When You’re Not Home The study didn’t just reveal problems — it offered solutions. Veterinarians recommend: Leaving familiar sounds (soft music or TV) Interactive toys that activate randomly Scent-based comfort items (your clothes) Predictable routines Extra attention before leaving These small changes can significantly reduce feline stress. The Emotional Intelligence of Cats Is Real This research confirms what many cat lovers already suspected: Cats are emotionally intelligent. Cats form deep attachments. Cats care — deeply. They just express it quietly. Why This Study Matters Understanding your cat’s emotions: Improves their mental health Strengthens your bond Reduces behavioral issues Makes you a better pet parent Ignoring their emotional needs doesn’t make them independent — it makes them lonely. The Truth We Can’t Ignore Anymore Your cat doesn’t just live in your house. They live with you. When you leave, something inside them shifts. And when you return? You are their safe place again. Final Thought The next time you grab your keys and head out the door, remember: Someone small… quiet… and incredibly emotional is waiting for you to come back. . If this story made you look at your cat differently, 👉 Like this article 👉 Follow me for more emotional animal stories and research-based content 👉 Share this with a cat lover who needs to read this today Your support helps spread awareness — and love — for our silent companions ❤️ .
By Ahmed aldeabella13 days ago in Petlife
Male vs Female Cats: Do They Grow at Different Rates?. AI-Generated.
Cats may look similar during their early kitten months, but as they grow, many pet parents begin to notice differences—especially between male and female cats. One of the most common questions veterinarians hear is: Do male and female cats grow at different rates?
By Highlands-Eldorado Veterinary Hospital14 days ago in Petlife
Holiday Guests + Your Dog: A Stress-Free Manners Guide. AI-Generated.
If your dog suddenly forgets all their training the second holiday guests walk in, you’re not failing. You’re experiencing real-life dog behavior during the most exciting season of the year. And honestly? You’re not alone.
By Pup's & Paws15 days ago in Petlife
Caring for Aging Pets: A Complete Guide. AI-Generated.
As our beloved pets grow older, their needs change—just like ours do. Senior pets often require extra care, patience, and attention to maintain their quality of life. Whether you have a Gray-muzzled dog or a slower-moving cat, understanding how to care for aging pets can help them stay comfortable, healthy, and happy in their golden years.
By Overpeck Creek Animal Hospital15 days ago in Petlife
How to Choose the Right Dewormer for Your Cats – Expert Advice for Optimal Cat Health. AI-Generated.
Internal parasites are a common health concern for cats of all ages. Choosing the best dewormer for cats combined with natural worm prevention strategies is essential for protecting your cat’s digestive health, immunity, and overall wellbeing.
By David Carter15 days ago in Petlife
The Gentle Agreement. AI-Generated.
When people say cats are distant, Lena usually smiles and lets it pass. She knows better. Anyone who has shared a home with a cat understands that the relationship is not loud or obvious. It is quiet. Subtle. Built on small rituals and unspoken agreements.
By George Evan15 days ago in Petlife
The Quiet Comfort. AI-Generated.
Every evening, Sarah would sit on the edge of her couch, laptop balanced on her knees, staring at the blinking cursor that refused to move. Words, once easy, now felt heavy, like they were trapped somewhere between her thoughts and her fingers. She let out a long sigh, rubbing her temples. The silence of the apartment pressed in around her, broken only by the faint hum of the refrigerator.
By George Evan16 days ago in Petlife
