You Are Not You Want To Be. It Is Because You Are Slave To Your Own Feeling

You are not, you want to be. That’s because you are slave to your own feeling.

Most people often fail to execute their own plans, they become so much obvious to their own feeling that they start ignoring things that needs to be done.

They give in so much to their reality that they ignore the facts that there is something that needs to be done right away.

They don’t feel like waking up so they don’t wake up. They don’t feel like doing what they needs to do, so they don’t do.

They keep postponing their assignment for next day then after next day and trend continues until it becomes habits.

People develop tendency to skip their studies, their work, their plans and when things start turning other ways, they start complaining and blaming someone else but themselves.

They don’t take action when it matters the most, they don’t take responsibilities when it needs to be taken and then start giving excuses and blame game starts.

And that’s the problem, it happens with majority of people, because it is very rare that one actually feel like doing the things one need to do.

How to fix it?

There is literally no one except you to help you, there is just one way that can take you out of your feeling

You have to ignore that how you are feeling and start doing it anyway.

It doesn’t matter how tired you are, so what? Everyone around is also tired, just don’t think about it. You just have to know that there is something that needs to be done and do it anyway.

Don’t pay attention to the heart bits, your inner feeling, it may confuse you. Be clear in your mind and start doing what needs to be done.

Don’t give in to immediate gratification that is whispering in your ear because its an easy hill to slide down.

It’s the start that matters, it’s the decision you make.

Once you make a one bad decision, you make another and then another and before you know it, you are already left far behind your goal.

You need to take action before you get to that point.

To start improving your life, to start improving your finances, to start improving your relationship, to start improving your opportunities, start making day to day decision to build yourself up bit by bit, every single day.

Do the things that needs to be done even when you don’t feel like it. Give it all it needs that is 100% of your efforts.

The difference between peoples that do things and the people who just talk about it, is the action people make when it matters.

The people that do things, see the results. Their life improve, their finances improve, they become happier. They get opportunities that no one else got offered.

They will begin to discover things about themselves that they don’t have at the beginning.

Be the person who takes actions.

It is easy to be average and lazy sometimes but it definitely is not going to add you any value sooner or later.

Be the person who takes on the hard jobs when they are presented, take on challenges that comes your way and that’s the only way to way forward.

There is no shortcut to cut your journey to success, even the plants take time to grow, you only need to plant it the way it should. The results of your hard work will emerge you as victorious in the end.

Be the first person to arrive in the morning and the last person to go home. Be the first person that everyone in your office wants to work with because they know you produce results.

Be the first person who’s known for their work ethic, who’s known for their enthusiasm, who’s known for their kindness and generosity.

How much successful and happier would you be if you make a decision to become that very person.

Every coin have two sides, so the life is. One side may be termed as the most people can relate to the difficult side, the uncomfortable side but then there is the other side. It is called effort, its called winning, it is called if you can push through the suffering.

Always remember there is some great things waiting for you on the other side of coin. You need to understand that side and do the things that needs to be done.

Its not easy to continue when every part of your body is telling you to give up.

It’s so easy to give up but it’s at this point you need to give it everything you have got, giving your 100%. It’s about pushing yourself to the point where you feel out of your comfort zone because it’s outside your comfort zone where the growth happens.

No one can become successful while being in their inner comfort zone, absolutely no one.

The hardest part of your journey be the first few seconds when you start but if you can push through those first few seconds, it’s get lot easier.

You realize, it was the thought that you were more bothered than the actual work itself. Its never as bad as you thought it would be.

Bring the motivation to take on the challenges, keep doing what you need to do, its all in the mind that push you back and make you lazy.

The battle ground is in your mind, that’s where the war is, that’s where the enemy fights, that’s where the procrastination and temptation lie.

You get to stop complaining, you get to stop negativity. Complaining has zero benefits. It just pull others down with you.

You have got to take action in your life, you have got to find a solution to your problem.

Don’t be the problem

Many times it is seen that when things start getting bad, people tend to blame others for the situation they are push through rather than to find the solution of the problem.

Remember there is no one except you who is responsible for all the problems you have, absolutely no one.

You have to take your responsibility, other can be a factor directly or indirectly but literally that is nothing to do with you. After all it’s you who choose how to respond to a particular problem and take action. It is you who choose to remain silent, it is you who choose to respond aggressively, it is you who choose the path you are walking on, no one forced you to do so. You choose your own path and destiny.

Take those responsibility on your own and move forward. You still can push through, there is nothing like you could have done but you can’t do now.

Don’t be slave to your own feeling and thinking, it may fool you. Light choose its own path irrespective of how dark it is, be that light and move forward. That’s the only way you can push through your difficulties.

Complaining about the circumstances, the people, the situation, the weather etc can give you excuses to some extent but that’s only a temporary solution, it can never be the solution.

Instead excuses will keep you away from taking action and you will keep giving excuses after excuses. Nothing will happen in your life and you will keep blaming others for the situation you are in and not taking action for your own responsibilities.

Change the mindset, come out of your comfort zone and start taking action and control of your life.