When being counted, no need to turn the other cheek, smart people are solved in three ways

Since birth is a blank sheet of paper, in the future life we need to continue to learn to be able to control the direction of life.

But not everyone in life is good-hearted, the world has many temptations, and some people can not resist the temptation to go astray, thus becoming a villain in the mouth of people.

Meet the villain is unfortunate, they can always hurt others because of their interests, and many villains hide very deep, a moment you can not find.

When you find his true nature, you have been hurt, this time many people will choose to directly turn the other cheek, but such behavior undoubtedly makes their lives worse.

The villain is insidious, if you turn the other cheek with him, maybe when you will be hurt again.

As the saying goes, "It's easy to hide from a clear shot, but it's hard to defend against a dark arrow."

If you are counted by the villain, smart people will generally use the following three ways to solve.

First: calm stop loss

The villain is impossible to prevent, so you must calm down when you encounter problems to minimize the damage.

Just like in the workplace, you were backstabbed by a villain, and this time you need to deal with an important person or scene, at this time you should do is not the first time to find the villain but should solve the problem at hand.

The villain will go backstabbing you, must not be able to see you, this time you can properly solve the problem is the biggest hit on his face.

When you can minimize the damage, you can go back to find the culprit, of course, this time you can not act rashly, or you are likely to be hurt twice.

All you need to do is to calm down and find evidence about the culprit, and then expose the other party after you are sure.

Napoleon said, "A man who can control his emotions is greater than a general who can take a city."

Control your emotions, no matter what kind of scenario you are in, you will be able to resolve things properly.

Second: fleeing and hiding

In reality, the weak character is easy to be bullied, but in some cases, it is better to hide away than to argue with each other.

During the day, many villains always like to exaggerate through some small things, thus causing misunderstanding, which is also known as a provocation.

This kind of thing I believe that many people have experienced, but if you are going to be calculating that it is likely to be the other side of the road.

Once or twice the misunderstanding can be explained, but if the other party has been sowing discord, then it is very troublesome.

And if you let the other side in their side, or even with the other side to turn the other side to argue, that the other side is like a time bomb, at any time may explode.

As the saying goes, "Evil has its evil grinding."

The villain will naturally have other people to clean up, to know that people's time is precious, and you do not need to communicate with such people.

Once someone said that avoidance is cowardice, but think about it from a different perspective, you will find that avoidance is also a kind of protection.

There are always gains and losses in life, and you may end up making yourself annoying in the end by arguing.

"People are like people, things are like groups."

When you get into the spiritual world like him, you will become less and less like yourself.

And in the process of this argument and flip-flopping, the other person may even hurt the people around you.

While it's true that running away won't solve the problem, some problems are inherently difficult to solve.

It's as if you have no way to wake up a person pretending to sleep, much less teach a villain to be kind.

So, if you encounter a villain, avoiding it is not a good way.

In the end, life is your own, you are not the Virgin Mary, why not make it easier for yourself and leave a way back for yourself?

Third: Lend a hand to fight

The villain is the existence of bullying good and fearing evil, they are thoughtful, and always want to get some benefits through improper means.

If you are accidentally in life by the villain, why not try to use higher power to suppress it?

And this higher power can be your leader, can be the collective or even the person who can control him.

I heard a saying before: "I treat you the way you treat me, so why can't you bear it?"

When faced with a villain, you can make them eat their own words if you have the power, so they can also feel what it is like to be posed.

Saw a video of someone spreading an indecent video of a girl with a plum birthmark on her neck, despite the lack of a face.

To protect the girl, all the girls of the day have plum birthmarks on their necks.

When you are protected by many people, you will become brave, and the villain will not be so reckless.

Why the green tea in the drama is always loved by the male lead, it is because they always pretend to be innocent, if someone hit you, what you need to do should not be to refute to your face, but should let everyone know that the other side did something wrong.

The pressure of public opinion is terrible, and when everyone is on your side, the other side has no way to get their hands on you.

Surviving in this world, it is always the norm to meet people with malicious intentions.

But what we need to do is to protect ourselves and maintain our good intentions in the first place.

The villain is called a villain because they have no way to struggle in the open, so they always like to make small moves in private, to get greater benefits for themselves.

If we interact with them, it is possible that one day they will be affected; if we argue with them, it will only make us more deeply in the water.

Wise people do not go hard with the villain, but through some methods to soften the hard.

Life's surprises are always unexpected, whether you meet the villain now or not, always remember to keep a heart of the defense, no matter who you get along with, you can not be too close.

If bad luck encountered a villain, why not follow the above three ways to deal with it?