The courage to actively choose, to find their rhythm of life

How can be more and more impatient?

No need to choose the pursuit of the overall goal is the reason why everyone will become more and more impatient, the essence is no need to choose the pursuit of the overall goal. Simply put, one's mind drifts when one also wants to think, and this too.

Often fall into the trap of not having to choose the pursuit of goals, the reasons for which are cumbersome.

Those who have low self-esteem inside will pursue the overall goal without choice; those who lack a sense of value inside will pursue the overall goal without choice; those who are greedy for vanity will also pursue the overall goal without choice. In their inner world, they show their greed for goals.

It is as if they only need to achieve enough overall goals to gain a sense of belonging. The whole process of their pursuit of the goal is no longer related to the goal itself.

Some people pursue people they like until they get to them and then they immediately lose interest. What they pursue is not the person they like, but rather the process of learning to satisfy their inner love of vanity, superiority, and exclusivity.

Such people are fickle at heart, and when they catch up with their favorite person, they will immediately fall in love with another person. The pursuit of prestige and wealth, as if it were, has long exceeded prestige and wealth itself.

Because the pursuit of the overall goal is not selected, it leads to more and more impatient inside. People who are restless inside have difficulty experiencing satisfaction. The impatient person feels deprived, and the happy person feels satisfied.

What is the science of happiness and joy? The sound science of knowing what you want is happiness itself knowing what you want.

A person who does not know what he or she wants cannot experience happiness and joy even if he or she survives in the concept of green development.

The feeling of happiness and joy comes not only from the need to achieve, but also includes the pursuit of the needs of the whole process.

People who cannot experience happiness are completely ignorant of themselves, their demands, and their situations.

As a result, they are blindly pursuing daily life in terms of chemical substances, thus neglecting their inner experience. If you ask them what they want, they will only say money. But they don't notice that money is only a relatively highly abstract concept.

As a result, they cannot pursue happiness even if they are stuck with money all their lives.

Know what you want, so you can be brave enough to choose. The courage to choose a relationship, the courage to choose a position, the courage to choose life, and the courage to choose a core philosophy.

People who are afraid to make a choice have an inner fear of failure and are always avoiding it.

In a relationship that has made them miserable, they don't have the guts to leave the other side.

In a career that has failed to make them realize their value, they also do not want to leave. Sometimes people envy people who have a family, but when they are asked to do so they are afraid, afraid of losing the current stage of their daily life.

From this, the choice itself is willingness, and only those who know how to be willing are happy.

How do you learn to actively choose your daily life?

It is the merit of human nature not to pander, not to follow the same example, to follow the herd mentality, to be obedient, and to climb blindly.

Once people follow the advantages of human nature, they will lose the power of independent choice and become more and more impatient, and happiness and joy may not be possible. To learn to actively choose daily life, you should first ensure that you do not cater to, or do not agree.

Everyone has their rhythm of life, and you can only find happiness by following your rhythm of life.

When you see others living happily, you can't help but follow in their footsteps and get sidetracked by the rhythm of their lives. This situation is the more popular viewpoint competition. To prevent competition, you need to firmly choose your way of life instead of imitating others.

Let out the inner needs in the process of growing up, everyone is in pursuit of what they want. But because of some failed experiences, cause us to be afraid to pursue what we want.

For example, after an unsuccessful relationship, people who are more sensitive inside will be disappointed by the marital relationship and will suppress their sense of inner demand for intimacy. At this time, to be able to pursue feelings of happiness, one is likely to imitate others.

Psychologists feel that only by releasing the demands that have been repressed by oneself can one find one's happiness and joy.

You may have failed in the past, or even been damaged. But you still need to believe that what you are pursuing is right, you just haven't met the right person.

If you are determined to pursue what you like, you will meet the right person. The courage to make a choice Some people are at a loss, and do not know how to choose; some people choose the item in front of them but are afraid to make a choice.

In this category, they are afraid of failure. To prevent unsuccessfully, they will also have two main tendencies happen: either they choose both, or they do not choose either.

People are always anxious to see the conclusion of their choice, so they are in a constant state of anxiety. If you want to choose your daily life autonomously, you should have the courage to make a choice.

Whether it's choosing a relationship or choosing your career path, you should be able to take what you can get and put it down, and dare to fight. When you look at all the emotions, all the problems to the inner world time, you will have problems.

Owning to their own choice to assume the courage to make a choice is only the first step, the following the most important step is to assume their own choice.

By undertaking, I mean that when facing their own choice, they need to have the confidence and persistence to overcome difficulties and diligently rush to the overall goal. Not you make a choice and that's it, since you have made a choice, you need to be down-to-earth and diligent, running towards the overall goal without distractions.

Inside need to have 2 mind preparation, one is the failure of preparation, one is the success of preparation. Not the choice you make is always the right one.

Thus, be well prepared. Even after the failure, do not complain about others, instead, one person can take responsibility.

In general, not having to choose to pursue the overall goal is the main cause of impatience.

If you become more and more impatient inside, you will be farther and farther away from happiness.

You can find your rhythm in life only if you dare to make positive choices.