What if a woman doesn't reach out to you
No wonder a wise man can "turn things around"
During sexual intercourse, the woman suddenly contact with men, at this time, man is unknown, so feel left out, men often feel lost, especially a man to a woman honest, heartfelt regards this woman, being shunned woman suddenly, difficult to adapt, acquaintance, is also normal.
At this time, if the man feels unhappy, he can not help complaining about the woman, blame the woman, some even, will become angry from embarrassment, do some things that hurt the woman, such as the man will be when people say the woman is not, complain about the woman, which often makes the relationship between two people become more and more tense.
If you don't want to see this result, you must stay calm when a woman gives you the cold shoulder. You know, when a woman doesn't reach out to you, intelligent men respond in this way, and no wonder they can "turn the tables".
1. Have a thick skin and reach out to women.
When a man gets along with a woman, he is suddenly neglected by a woman, and is ignored by a woman. Everything comes too suddenly, there must be a reason.
At THIS TIME, THE MAN SAD SAD, BLAME a WOMAN, BECOME angry from EMBARRASSMENT, BLAME a woman, not only useless, STILL CAN make the relationship OF two people become tense, why AGAIN? Even if you can't be together, don't be enemies.
Wise men, will take the initiative to break the deadlock, will take the initiative to contact a woman, woman is not willing to the past to find a man, will take the initiative to snub a man, a man can be a little thick-skinned, take the initiative to contact woman, ask a woman neglect their own reason, maybe men will find that woman just because of misunderstanding oneself, will be reluctant to contact with his.
Such as dating men and other members of the opposite sex in private, be a woman ran into, at this time, a woman will entertain foolish ideas, think men cheating, woman does not want to directly find man theory, but to a man's discontent, hidden in the heart, and not willing to take a reason men, this just slight man, at this time, men have a thick hide, active contact with a woman, and ask the reason, clarify the misunderstanding, And the two of us can bury the hatchet.
2. Be careful and do things to please women.
Sometimes, WOMEN suddenly do not contact with men, there are some reasons, men because women neglect their own, and arbitrarily think that women betrayed their hearts, do not love themselves, the results of misunderstanding women, two people born ESTRANGement, it is not good.
If a woman is sick, or run into trouble, at this time, because she loved this man, and not willing to contact with men, lest they will bring trouble man, this is the result of a woman the most don't want to see, at this time, if a man doesn't understand a woman, think women "ruthless", then a grudge against women born, say some bad words to a woman, Make some women distressed things, finally found that he misunderstood the woman, at this time, men may regret too late.
If men do not want to see the result, will be more careful, understand women neglect their first reason, if two people have a misunderstanding, will dissolve the misunderstanding in time, if a woman has had difficulties, just understand a woman, love a woman, if a man do anything wrong, let a woman not happy, a man should do is to do something to please a woman.
3. Keep your distance and give women a sense of mystery.
Sometimes, women do not listen to men, because men too much male chauvinism, like to control women, let women overwhelmed, or men do not know how to respect women, will impose their own way of life on women, let women feel pressure; Or, the man pesters the woman every day, does not give her a little personal time, at this time, the woman will feel upset.
Also some times, men will indulge themselves, indulge in bad habits, repeatedly let women down, women will feel that men are "can not afford to help the ah dou", follow such a man, no hope, women will not be willing to live with such a man, this and men break off, do not want to take a man.
In this case, men should be aware of themselves. They should know how to keep a certain distance from women and create some mystery. At the same time, they should also know how to develop themselves and make themselves more attractive, so that they can attract women's attention and get women's approval.
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Brandy R Ashbaugh
I have many stories to tell as I navigate the seas of spiritual awakening and my journey of self-realization. I just want to dedicate my life to writing, so I'm going to submit stories to as many communities as possible.
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