What does it feel like to be truly loved by your husband?

Recently, I collected some stories online from married women describing their experiences of being loved by their husbands after marriage. They are so sweet and enviable that I wanted to share them with you, hoping that we can all enjoy sweet marriages.

(To protect the privacy of netizens, the usernames below are represented by letters ABCD..., but I swear on my honor that the content is true and absolutely not fabricated.) in

Our question: “What does it feel like to be genuinely loved by your husband?”

Netizen A: “With him around, I don’t have to work to have money to spend, I don’t have to rush around for a living, and I’m happy every day.”

Netizen B: My husband really likes my body. He kisses and hugs me every day. Our daily life is mostly centered around my preferences, and he tries his best to meet all my reasonable needs. Of course, I also take care of his feelings. We both cherish and respect each other."

Netizen C: “I can do anything with confidence. I don't have to care about his family or friends' opinions, and I can argue with him confidently because I know he'll understand and agree with me.”

Netizen D: “He's emotionally stable and always supports me in doing what I want to do, without any resentment. This is pretty important. We've been together for 10 years.”

Netizen E: “In the past, I would have answered this question very positively because my husband is very good to me. But then I found out he was cheating on me, so nothing is constant.”

— A sad response: Women should never give up their independence.

Netizen F: “I don't know if it counts as love, but he always argues with me. However, whatever I want, he says he won't buy it, but he always finds a way to bring it home for me. At night, if I want to eat something, no matter how late it is, he'll go out and buy it for me. He also shares household responsibilities with me, and sometimes he handles more than I do. But I still feel like he doesn't pay much attention to my feelings and emotions.”

Netizen G: "He always tells me in advance where he's going and what he's doing. I'm in my 40s and still can't cook. Before the baby was born, he was worried I wouldn't have food at home when he was on business trips, so he took me with him. After we had the baby, he tried not to go on business trips. He took care of all the household chores—shopping, cooking, washing dishes, mopping the floor, doing laundry, taking out the trash, cleaning, and washing and drying the bedding. He also handles all the household expenses. I still don't know how to pay the water and electricity bills. Every day, I can sleep in until I wake up naturally. After dropping the child off at school, he comes back to bring me breakfast before going to work. Whether I argue with his brother or his mother, he always stands by my side to defend me, which has made me very dependent on him. I feel like he loves me more than my own mother. Oh, and I also have a lot of pets and flowers. My sisters say my home is like a zoo! Cats, dogs, birds, turtles, fish, hamsters, rabbits. Plus dozens of flower pots. He earns the money to support the family, while I enjoy life and indulge in its pleasures.

Netizen H: “We met at 19, got married at 28, and are now 42. Well, we haven't gotten rich, but we've shared many happy and difficult days together. No matter what, he's always protected me, and I feel at ease when I'm with him.”

Netizen I: “He kissed me last night, hahaha. I was just about to fall asleep, and he kissed me several times.”

Netizen J: “Having him is enough; I don't need to show off to my friends.” ........

If you have similar experiences, feel free to share them in the comments!

Finally, a few of my own reflections: While marriage can be sweet, in reality, many people suffer because of it. So please don't misunderstand and think that marriage guarantees happiness. Rushing into marriage won't improve our quality of life; on the contrary, it may actually decrease it due to the loss of freedom and the responsibilities of raising children.

If you're looking for a marriage partner or longing for marriage, you can refer to the above netizens' shares to find someone who truly loves you. After all, the true meaning of happiness is finding that soulmate who is willing to live with you and face life's storms together, even if it means lowering their quality of life!