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three big myths about women`s weightlifting

shattering those myths and learning about power

By Mahboubeh FallahiPublished 3 months ago 4 min read

As a little girl, I loved playing sports. I also loved painting my fingernails and parading around my mother's house in her high-heeled shoes. From the beginning of time, I have lived in contrasting worlds. Contrasting and often conflicting ideas about what women should and shouldn't do, or maybe how we should and shouldn't look.

Even though something like weightlifting has a multitude of proven health benefits, there continues to be a stigma for women based on cultural and societal myths about what women should and shouldn't do.

I believe that if we can create a new culture that shifts the focus from aesthetics to health, that women's health and frankly, everybody's health, could be transformed forever.

Now, according to the CDC, the top three killers of women are heart disease, cancer, and stroke. The major contributing factor to these causes of death is what I call metabolic disease. And even though our modern, high-fat, high-carbohydrate, highly processed diets play a major role, there's one thing that women are not doing across their lifespan that could tremendously reduce their risk of death, and that is building muscle.

The data is actually very clear when it comes to resistance training. So why aren't more women doing it? The answer lies in three primary myths that continue to exert a powerful force and prevent women from doing just that.

Myth number one is that if we lift weights, we're going to get big and bulky. Women think that if they pick up a 20-pound dumbbell, they will somehow look like Arnold Schwarzenegger. (Laughter) Now, I can tell you that it takes years of very serious training -- and steroids -- to accumulate that kind of look. And if you take a look around the gym, you can see that achieving the physique of somebody like the Hulk is actually difficult, even for most men.

Now we're all born with a certain genetic potential when it comes to our muscle size and distribution. But beyond that, it takes years of very serious training and a concerted effort to build and maintain that lean tissue. Although women have a similar relative natural muscular potential to men, we're also prone to the same age-related muscle loss. And the medical term for that is called sarcopenia. On average, after age 40, we lose about one percent of our muscle size. With these age-related declines, we become weak, we become frail, and the risk of all chronic diseases starts to go up. In a study, they found the more days, time, and effort that women devote to strength training, the better their body composition is.

Myth number two is that weightlifting is hard or maybe too hard on our bodies. You see, even as women, if we make a decision to go work out, we're more likely to choose the cardio equipment. But let me dispel this myth. Strength training meets you where you're at. The first day you're in the gym, you're not going to be doing a 500-pound back squat. It's about being stronger today than you were yesterday.

But we don't have the same role models when we walk into the gym because when we walk in and we see this man with multiple plates on the bar and he's making crazy faces -- (Laughter) And even crazier sounds -- Arrgh! It's not very inviting to most women. But you see, women actually have an advantage over men in certain parts of our life. We make more estrogen than men, and estrogen means that we don't fatigue as fast and we actually recover faster. Which means that we can handle more volume in weight training without overtraining.

Myth number three is that weightlifting is for the boys and aerobics is for the girls. You've seen it when you walk into the gym, this big room of treadmills, ellipticals, and stair climbers filled with women. But in the “Journal of Exercise Science,” they found for every woman that was using the free-weight section of the gym, there were 27 men. This disparity continues to make it difficult to foster health for women across their lifespan.

Resistance training happens to be the only non-pharmacological intervention that has been consistently shown to offset these age-related declines in skeletal muscle mass, strength, and power. This cannot be achieved on a treadmill. The male bias in gym culture is literally everywhere, and it's time for us to counter it.

All humans have muscles. Muscles make us healthy. Muscles combat the top three killers of women. Resistance training meets you where you're at.

We think that we need these fancy machines and free weights to build muscle. But in a 2021 study, they examined a population of women 65 and older. They put these women through bodyweight and resistance band training three times per week for 16 weeks. And do you know what they found? In the treatment group, these women improved their strength, improved their functional fitness, improved their grip strength, and even improved their gait speed. The amount of work required to see benefit is actually quite small. You can lift weights, you can lift your groceries, you can lift your children, or when you're first starting, you can even just lift your own body weight.

It's my mission to make sure that women live a long and healthy life, and that means building and maintaining their muscle.

So let me leave you with a very clear call to action. Start lifting heavy things now. Nobody can do it for you. Literally. Your older self will thank you. Or if you are your older self, it's never too late. This is not about aesthetics. This is about health. And physically strong women are healthy women.

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  • mahi3 months ago

    you are right

  • celin3 months ago

    very helpful I will start weightlifting asap

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