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These Morning Habits Improved My Mental Health in 30 Days

Small shifts, big impact—how I started feeling more calm, grounded, and in control

By Engr BilalPublished 7 months ago 4 min read
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If someone had told me a year ago that changing my morning habits could improve my mental health, I probably would’ve smiled politely and kept doom-scrolling in bed. I wasn’t exactly a morning person. I saw the early hours of the day as something to survive, not enjoy.

But things changed.

There was a point where I realized I was waking up every day already feeling anxious and overwhelmed. I’d open my eyes and immediately feel dread. Nothing even had to happen—the weight was just there, pressing down before the day had even started. My mind was full, my energy was low, and I didn’t know how to fix it.

So I started small. I didn’t try to become a new person overnight. I didn’t copy someone’s 5 a.m. “boss routine.” I just made a few little adjustments—quiet, consistent shifts I thought I could actually stick with.

And 30 days later, I genuinely felt different. Lighter. Clearer. Calmer.

Here are the morning habits that helped improve my mental health—maybe they’ll help you too.

1. I Stopped Checking My Phone for the First 30 Minutes

I know, I know—we’ve all heard this a hundred times. But I can’t stress enough how much this one change helped.

Before, my day would start with Instagram, news alerts, emails, texts… all before I’d even sat up in bed. My brain went from zero to one hundred, instantly. No wonder I was anxious.

So I tried a 30-minute no-phone rule. I left it across the room at night so I couldn’t reach for it automatically.

At first, I felt kind of twitchy. I’d sit there wondering what I was missing. But by day three, I started feeling calm in a way I hadn’t in years. Giving my brain silence in the morning gave me a sense of control. I wasn’t reacting—I was simply waking up.

Now, those 30 phone-free minutes feel sacred. They’re my buffer between rest and the world.

2. I Got Out of Bed When My Alarm Went Off

This one was surprisingly hard. I used to hit snooze at least twice, telling myself those extra minutes would help. But they never did. I’d just fall back into a weird half-sleep and feel groggier than before.

So I made a new rule: when the alarm goes off, I get up. Not in a military-style leap, but gently, without delay.

I learned that following through on this small promise helped build trust with myself. I stopped starting the day with procrastination. It made me feel capable, which is something I hadn’t associated with mornings in a while.

3. I Drank Water Before Coffee

I used to roll out of bed and go straight for caffeine. Coffee was non-negotiable. But I read somewhere that dehydration can mimic anxiety—and I realized I hadn’t had a sip of water in over eight hours.

So I started drinking a full glass of water before I touched coffee.

It’s not a magical cure, but it made a subtle difference. My body felt more awake, and my brain didn’t feel as foggy. Plus, it became a little ritual: water, then coffee, then the rest of the day.

A gentle nudge into wakefulness, instead of a jolt.

4. I Sat With Myself for Five Minutes

I’m not someone who meditates regularly (yet), but I wanted to try a form of quiet time in the morning.

So I started sitting in silence—just five minutes. No music. No journaling. Just me, breathing, being.

Sometimes I’d close my eyes. Sometimes I’d stare at the wall. Sometimes I’d think about what I was grateful for or what I needed to let go of. It wasn’t fancy, and it wasn’t always profound—but it grounded me.

Those five minutes became a little mental reset before the day officially began. It helped me feel more centered and more intentional.

5. I Created a “Low-Pressure” Routine

One of the best things I did for my mental health was letting go of the idea that mornings had to be productive. Instead, I built a routine based on how I wanted to feel.

That meant choosing calm over hustle. Presence over perfection.

Some days, my routine was just: drink water, stretch a little, sit in silence, make a slow cup of coffee, and read a few pages of something uplifting. Other days, I added a walk or a journal session. But I gave myself permission to be flexible.

This mindset—choosing gentleness over rigidity—was honestly the most healing habit of all.

The Results After 30 Days

By the end of the month, I wasn’t a completely new person. But I felt better. I felt steadier. My mornings had become something I looked forward to instead of something I dreaded.

Most importantly, I started the day with a sense of ownership. I wasn’t letting my phone, the news, or other people dictate my mood. I was creating space for my mind to breathe.

It didn’t cure all my anxiety. But it gave me tools to manage it. It gave me a foundation to build on. And it reminded me that mental health isn’t always about huge changes—it’s often the small, consistent ones that really make a difference.

Final Thoughts

I didn’t expect much when I made these changes. Honestly, I was just tired of feeling so tired. But the results surprised me.

If you’ve been struggling with anxiety, stress, or just feeling off in the mornings, I highly recommend trying a few of these habits. Not all at once—just one or two that feel doable.

You don’t have to become a morning person. You don’t have to journal for an hour or run a 5K. You just have to give yourself a bit of space. A bit of kindness. A bit of quiet.

It’s amazing what can shift when you start your day with intention instead of instinct.

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About the Creator

Engr Bilal

Writer, dreamer, and storyteller. Sharing stories that explore life, love, and the little moments that shape us. Words are my way of connecting hearts.

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