The secret of success in life: "thick skin"

"Cheeky" is not the same as shameless, also not cheeky has walls so thick.

In many cases, "thick skin" has become a positive word, it represents a person's psychological quality is very strong, not because of fear of losing face and backward, shrinking, and not because of the heart's nervous and incoherent speech.

His face is very "thick", so thick that the people on stage as air, can make the most of their strengths.

As the saying goes, "Sometimes in some occasions, it is often easier for people with thick skin to succeed, because they are not nervous, they are used to this."

"Cheeky" is often the ladder of success in life, by the "shameless" impetus, will be on top of the glory.

01. "Cheeky" people, can put down their face

People live, it is a matter of face.

Some people regard the face as more important than life, in the moment of death, are to take care of their face.

People's face is not their own but given by others, you say you have a face, think dressed in glamour, party, you have faced? Thought around a bunch of minions, you have faced?

The so-called face is the respect of others for you, respect for you is from the heart of that kind.

The face is earned, through a series of efforts, put down the body, sensitive and good, not ashamed to learn, to win success, to win face.

The face is often linked to success, you are useless, despite the glamorous clothes, what is the use of being "starry-eyed"? Once the tree falls, the macaques will be scattered, and some will even fall on the well, at that time, your face?

"Thick-skinned" people, often can put down their faces, see better than their people, and humbly ask others for advice.

The so-called master is the teacher, do not care about age or size, only cares about who first reached the other side of success.

Just like a writer friend who used to write online articles, he became a god through his efforts, but in this piece of pure literature, he is still a "little brother", do not hesitate to put down his face, shamelessly to consult those who have done in pure literature, to break through themselves and let themselves leap forward. The first thing you need to do is to make a breakthrough and become a real writer of pure literature.

You only see the face of others but ignore the side of others who have the cheek to learn, there are how much sorrow and helplessness.

How "thick skin", will be closer to success, is an indisputable fact.

02. "Thick-skinned" people, good mentality

Someone so described the "thick-skinned" people: "thick-skinned people persistent, generally look better psychological quality, more courageous to face setbacks. After being criticized, calmly reflect on it, if the criticism of others is correct, correct it. If the criticism is unjust, he will laugh it off. He will be happy as usual."

Good mind, then all the gloom dispersed, with a calm heart, positive sunshine live.

And thin-skinned people, others criticism, feel very aggrieved, instant tears "clamor" flow, some even regard this as a lifetime of hatred, the seeds of gloom planted in the heart. Not thinking about progress, unwilling to correct, more unwilling to face setbacks, and argue with people in the end.

Argue or not, the facts are there, you need to use the strength to prove that others are right, correct, wrong, laugh it off, why for the sake of face, and a big fire?

The body is its own, the fire is big, both hurt the body, but also hurt the harmony, why not a little thick-skinned, a little better mentality, to get closer and closer to success?

The fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a lot of money for their personal use.

Again and again ridicule and scolding, so she developed a "thick skin", she was indifferent, still actively writing, and finally boiled down to now, her monthly income of more than ten thousand, this time, her husband deflated, no longer dare to ridicule.

If the mentality is not good, say a sentence or two will give up, they feel that they will not succeed, then they will never succeed.

"Cheeky" people, good mentality, perseverance towards the locked target, success, only closer and closer to him.

03. "Thick-skinned" people, dare to introduce themselves, sell themselves

I think we all have such an experience: in the company, the leader said, if someone thinks he can do the job, please nominate yourself.

So, when everyone was silent, the "cheeky" person was brave enough to come forward and sell himself, making everyone envious at the same time, envious of his bravery, and jealous of why he could do the job.

On what basis? By his "thick skin", with the spirit of fearlessness, the courage to recommend themselves, to sell themselves.

If a person is cowering, timid as a mouse, how to let everyone see his true strength? Goods need to be marketed people are also the same, many times, especially in the workplace, to self-promotion forever, so that your talents will be found by the leadership.

In love, "thick-skinned" people will sell themselves out, boldly express themselves, and win the favor of the opposite sex, while those who are thin-skinned, are not good at expressing themselves, but even a sentence is too nervous to say, how can love favor you?

Zen Master Ishin, when giving a single young man a solution, said, "Have you seen the man and woman at the bottom of the hill?"

The single young man said disdainfully, "The man is shamelessly pestering the woman."

Zen Master Yixin shook his head and once again pointed to the pair: "Look again."

The young man took a look and instantly exploded with anger: "That woman is too spineless to pester the woman for so long and then agree?"

Many times, life is like this, cheeky to do, to sell themselves, better than afraid to practice, you bravely say a 'love' word, you have half the chance of success, if you can not even say love, then your chances are zero.

Learn to be "cheeky" to sell themselves, then your life will have a different opportunity.

The opportunity to succeed depends on their grasp, whether it's career or love, encountered the courage to recommend themselves.

"Cheeky" is an art of living, but also the secret of a person's success.

It covers a person's psychological qualities, his persistence, his unashamedness, his courage to face ridicule, and indifference, I do what I want, these are extremely valuable.

No one likes thin-skinned people, those who love to put on a face, very false, good at disguise, even if they do not have that ability, he has to pretend as much as possible to save face.

This is a kind of sadness.

The "thick-skinned" people can advance their careers, can learn from the strengths of others, can sell themselves, can laugh at ridicule and adversity, such people, closer and closer to success, sooner or later will be on top of the glory.