The Power of Affirmations

The Power of Speaking Affirmations

Really think about it. Why would we ever put limits on ourselves or insult the body we live in? It's because we internalized the voices of others as our won. Anyone we perceived as important, we easily accept their words as true. This is because as a child, our survival depended on this. Failure to live up to what those important people said could result in abandonment and failure to survive. Validation =survival. This thinking doesn't serve us as we get older. This is why when we don't get validation from those we deem "important" in our adult life it literally feels like death. Which leads me to to know that affirmations, when done consciously are reminders of who we truly are and who we authentically come here to be. Affirmations help you undo the lies you accepted as true when you affirm from this perspective, you will feel how quickly you shift your subconscious state of being at a rapid pace.

The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.-Proverbs 18:21 Your words could either speak life or death. Our tongue can build other up, or they can tear them down. It's really up to you.

I will share some affirmations that help me "re-train" my way of thinking. I began to realize the way I was raised, had a effect on who I had became as an adult. The moment I realized I wanted to be happy, is the moment I realized that I had to put in some work. Saying daily affirmations quickly changed how my started and how my day ended. I hope this help at least one person that is ready to begin their journey to becoming who their really meant to be.

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When we are young, and you come from a struggling background like I did, you would here adults say certain things that you have no idea that effect the choices and decision you make now as an adult.

What do they say: "Life is hard", "Money doesn't grown on trees", "Relationships are hard". Adult figures are who we think have it all together as children, so we just assume that they have it all figured out. So we accept what they say as truth. So when we hear these types of things, we just assume that is how life is. You here it over and over again and it begins to sink into our brains that hey this is how life is for everyone. That is why speaking affirmations is important. It lets your brain know that hey life is what i make it. Life is what I speak. If my tongue has the power of life and death on it why would you speak death? Wouldn't you rather speak life into your life?

"When your not living your truth, you end up dying alive"-Unkown

You have to live for you! You have to do what makes you happy. I have learned that the people that you really seek validation from are really not gonna give you the validation that your looking for. The important people that really love you for you, will not make you feel like that #1. You will always feel important and validated without even have to try. When you have people that really love you no matter what, they love all of you, flaws and all. They will always make you feel loved no matter what. It is the best feeling in the world to know that you are surrounded by people who really love and care about you. On this journey of re-discovering myself, I had to loose friends of 30 years because I realized that they never really had my best interest at hand from the beginning. It was one of the hardest times of my life. Learning how to recognize who loved me and who really had their own interest at hand. When you start to love yourself, you start to demand different things in your life. Things that were you once accepted now has no room in your life. You start to pray different. Everything just starts to look different. You desires start to become different. Your want and needs start to become different. It is a process that takes a lot of work. But it is all worth it in the end.

" I forgive myself for holding onto that pain for so long" Forgive yourself! Be kind to yourself. Understand that you were just living the way you thought was the right way. You have to forgive yourself for not having the right tools to make better choices and decisions. Forgive yourself for things that you had no control over. Things that had nothing to do with you at all. It wasn't anything wrong with you. It was something they had with them. You have to remember you can't control other people. You can't make people see and know what they don't too. When you are a good person and you have done all you have and were a good person to them. You did your part. Don't get caught up in what was wrong with me or what did I do, thinking it was something you did. Forgive yourself. And if there is something that you did do, apologize and ask for forgiveness and forgive yourself.

"I release myself of any energy that no longer serves me"

When your on this self healing and self loving journey, you learn to protect yourself and your energy. You have to watch who you are around, and what types of energy they bring around. When you are around negative things and people. Guess what? It puts that energy in the universe and negative things happen. You start to feel that heaviness on you and you don't even know what you feel like that. I learned that most of my time would be spent alone. Most of my time I enjoyed being alone. It was a very few that I enjoyed their company. And guess what I was fine with that.

I just had a couple of affirmations that I wanted to share with the world. I hope it inspired someone reading and hope you enjoyed as well.