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The more feelings a person has, the more that person gets hurt and suffers.

Human emotions are an invaluable part of our lives.

By Abdul BarikPublished 8 months ago 3 min read

Just as human feelings are an invaluable part of our lives, their intensity can also bring pain to our lives. The deeper the feeling, the greater the possibility of being hurt by it. This is a reality that almost all of us realize at one time or another, but do not understand properly. Life teaches us through various experiences that if feelings are real and deep, their feeling can be difficult for us, because they sometimes destabilize our world.

The depth of emotions, especially if they are related to love, friendship or a special relationship, then those feelings become so intense that losing or damaging them means losing a part of your existence. When you love someone as if they were your own body, without knowing it, the lack or loss of that love can hurt you physically. Such feelings are never guided by the intellect alone; they arise entirely from the depths of the heart and sometimes put yourself and the world in very complicated situations.

The deeper a person's feelings, the more emotional his mind becomes. His heart is flooded with various emotions, which on the one hand makes him more loving and compassionate, but on the other hand, that same deep feeling also makes him more vulnerable or weak. Simply put, his heart becomes more sensitive, so he can easily be sad or hurt. And one day those hurt feelings spread like sparks, darkening the world.

A highly sensitive person always wants to truly be one with others. He wants to feel that the people around him do not suffer from unrest, that his inner peace spreads to others. But if such sensitivity goes beyond limits, the reaction can be much more intense. Those who open up their feelings to others usually suffer the most when they do not receive appreciation or reciprocation for those feelings. If a relationship is one-sided or if there is no answer to the love, the depth of that feeling can take the form of hurt. That is why, when a person is very sensitive, he often has to carry the burden of his feelings, which sometimes makes him helpless.

In this respect, it can be said that the depth of feelings, especially those related to the commitment or expectation of those feelings, sometimes leads to danger. "He who loves more, suffers more"—this is a kind of eternal truth. When someone is united with his past, present and future, that person is connected to his own existence at every moment. And when that relationship or feeling is damaged, he finds himself helpless, broken, like a pain that spreads to every corner of the body.

Even our hobbies, our likes, our attitudes—these can also be hurtful at times, if we take them as the greatest purpose of life. When a highly emotional person identifies with his emotions, when he is open with all his feelings, he can be hurt by those feelings. For example, maybe someone once wanted to do something very good, but society or personal life prevented him, misunderstood him. That situation creates a deep wound in his heart, which becomes a lifelong pain for him.

But on the other hand, if there is some positivity in these feelings—for example, learning from past experiences, or building up one's self-confidence through these feelings—then this suffering can eventually turn into strength. It is true that the depth of feelings can break some people, but the same depth can create a new strength, a new purpose or inspiration in the lives of others.

The only person who suffers the most is the one who accepts his feelings as the core of his existence. But the question is, is there really any happiness in this depth of feelings? Perhaps, as a person gains experience in life, he has to learn how to contain his feelings in moderation, how to live with the reality of life and the fullness of feelings. Otherwise, he will soon be lost in the intensity of feelings.

This is not a rule, but a kind of reality that the depth of feelings can make him stronger or weaker. He who can understand and manage his feelings correctly is able to use them as a strength in his life.

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