The life of self-help

Don't think of what you don't want, or you will get it. Think about what you want, and you'll get it, too. In fact, in life, we must always pay attention to what we want, not always pay attention to what we fear! Like the dream, remember not to be dominated by dreams; Good at planning, remember that fantasy can not achieve the goal; People who have the spirit of doing, remember that choosing the right direction is more important than working hard. Do not think that by building a city you will settle down; Do not think that if you sow, you will reap; Don't think you can conquer by reaching the top; Don't think that if you stop someone's mouth, what you hear is praise! Think of yourself as a tree, and always have been blown down by the wind sorrow; Take yourself as a seedling, will always enjoy the sun and rain. Qing qing, then grow up; When ripe, it rots! Life should pursue four degrees of space: width, depth, heat, speed; Work should form five dynamic personality: initiative, action, vivid, dynamic, moving; Life must be clear about a concept: only shorten the successful days and months, can prolong the time of enjoyment! Everyone has two doors: a home, a place to grow up; One is the heart door, the place of success. If you drive out the little man in the door, you wake up the giant in your heart! First grow out of the eyebrows, not as long as the beard long; The ears born first are not as long as the horns born last. Wisdom is not in the age, the generation is not high, the later is often in the top. Not the street is expensive, but you have no money in your pocket; It's not that you don't have money in your mouth, but that you haven't found an opportunity to make money. It's not that you don't have the opportunity to make money, but you don't have the idea of getting rich in your head! It means that you have no intention of making money on your own. When you hold on to something, it may be the only thing you will always have, and if you let go, other options open up. Old ideas do not give up, new ideas are difficult to produce! Eight times a day in the mirror, is not equal to beautiful appearance; Empty talk nine times a day does not make a man of action. Good at boasting, is wearing a veil! There is a dilemma in this world: one is to change others, the other is to change yourself. Ask others very painful, that change oneself should be very happy. To change others, change yourself first! There are many difficulties in the world, but the most difficult thing is two things: one is to put the money in other people's pockets into their own pockets. The second is to put your own thoughts into someone else's head! Doubt is the beginning of pain, doubt is the beginning of happiness. Doubt solid can, more important, and its long time of doubt, not such as a short time to prove! Hit the fate with the soul, with ideas beyond the dream. It doesn't matter what you do now, it matters what you do in the future. In order to change the future of life, first change the concept of now! People worry, there must be near worry, worry about not far, the worry is to. Because of more hidden in hidden micro, and hair in the sudden. Wise men avoid invisible, bright foresight in not sprout! The most difficult to open is the heart door, the most difficult road is the heart, the most sad bridge is the heart bridge, the most difficult to adjust the mentality. The hardest project in the world is to transform a man's inner world! True love is to accept, not to endure; Support, not support; Condolences, not questions; True love, to thank also want to apologize. Be considerate and considerate. To admit mistakes, or correction; True love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction. Love is not about finding a perfect person. Instead, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with perfect eyes. In life, some people come and go, some people go and come back, some people are close, some people are far away, some people pass by, some people walk all the way. Maybe we meet at the end of two roads, walk together for some distance, and say goodbye at the next fork in the road. In any case, will inevitably end the sad. Far in the tianya friend: perhaps is far too far to greet, but also thank you once companion. No matter what your income is, divide it into five parts: invest more in your body so it always works; Invest in networking and expand your network; Increase your investment in learning and strengthen your self-confidence; Increase investment in tourism and broaden your knowledge; Increase your investment in the future and increase your earnings. With good planning and implementation, you will find that your life will gradually have a large surplus. In the journey of life, there are always people coming and leaving. When the new name becomes the old name, when the old name gradually blurred, it is the end of one story and the beginning of another story. In the constant encounter and staggered, finally understand: the people around can only accompany their own through or near or far, but not with their own life; Accompany life is their own name and those or clear or vague name brought by the moving. There are always some people around, you see him all day happy, frank like a child, everyone envy him; In fact, where do you know: before a second person also sadly shed tears after him, after a second person immediately filled with a bright smile. In fact, they do not have the ability to be alone. When people are quiet at night, they always sit in front of the window to meditate on the suffering of frustration. They are like sunflowers, always bright to the front of the sun, in the back of the light is not sad deep. On the way of life, some are inescapable, such as fate; Some are impossible to change, such as love; Some are indelible, like memories; Some are hard to put aside, like love... And its passive bear, not as brave to face; With birds under the eaves, as wind and rain; It is better to erupt in strife than to be alone in silence... The more difficult the road, the greater the obstacles, the more risks, as long as the past, life will be more wonderful.