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The Essence of Existence

An Expanded Reflection

By Oluwatosin AdesobaPublished 11 months ago 3 min read
The Essence of Existence
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The Essence of Existence — An Expanded Reflection

1. Existence as Conscious Awareness

At its simplest, to exist means to be aware — aware that you occupy a moment in time, that you stand between birth and death, that you perceive reality through your senses and mind. Existence is not passive. It is not simply the fact that atoms came together to form your body. The essence of existence lies in the experience of being — in the inner voice asking, “Who am I? Why am I here?”

This self-awareness is rare in the cosmos. Rocks exist, rivers flow, stars burn — but they do not question their own being. Human existence, however, is self-reflective. It wonders. It doubts. It hopes. This ability to know that we know, to observe our own thoughts and lives, adds profound depth to existence itself.

2. Existence as Interconnectedness

To exist is never to exist alone. We are threads in a vast, interconnected web — shaped by ancestors, nature, society, and even cosmic events that happened billions of years ago. Existence gains meaning not in isolation, but in relationship — to the earth that nourishes us, the people who walk beside us, and the universe that cradles us.

The essence of existence, therefore, is not only the isolated fact of being, but the dance of being with. We exist in conversation — with life, death, the cosmos, and each other.

3. Existence as Change and Becoming

Existence is never static. It is flux. From the moment of birth to the final breath, existence flows forward — sometimes like a gentle stream, sometimes like a raging river. Every moment changes who we are. The essence of existence, then, is this constant becoming — a lifelong unfolding of self, shaped by choice, circumstance, and time.

We exist not only as we are, but as who we are becoming. This makes existence both a gift and a responsibility.

4. Existence as Mystery and Wonder

No matter how much science explains or philosophy unravels, existence remains wrapped in mystery. Why is there something rather than nothing? What caused the first flicker of consciousness? Where do we go when life ends? Even after millennia of thinking, these questions hum softly beneath all human experience.

This mystery is not a flaw, but part of the essence itself. Existence is a riddle we live, not merely a puzzle to be solved. And this mystery invites wonder — the ability to stand in awe of the sheer fact that we are.

5. Existence as Meaning-Making

Meaning is not baked into existence automatically. The universe is not a storyteller handing us pre-written scripts. Instead, we create meaning through love, work, art, faith, struggle, and compassion. The essence of existence, then, includes our freedom to create meaning — to shape the raw material of life into something that speaks to the soul.

For some, meaning is found in connection with the divine. For others, in the pursuit of beauty, truth, or justice. For others still, meaning is the quiet act of loving and being loved. The beauty of existence is that no single meaning defines it — we weave our own from the threads we are given.

6. Existence as Mortality and Impermanence

The essence of existence is also bound to its fleeting nature. To exist means to stand in the shadow of death — knowing that all things pass. This awareness of mortality is not something to fear, but to cherish. It is precisely because life ends that it has urgency, beauty, and tenderness. Existence is valuable because it is fragile.

In this sense, the essence of existence is not simply about being alive — but about being fully alive while we can.

7. Existence as a Cosmic Phenomenon

Finally, existence is not just personal — it is cosmic. The atoms in our bodies were forged in ancient stars. Our consciousness emerged from evolutionary processes older than memory. In this view, the essence of existence is cosmic participation — a brief moment when matter wakes up, looks around, and marvels at its own existence.

In Summary

The essence of existence cannot be reduced to a single definition. It is awareness, connection, change, wonder, meaning-making, impermanence, and cosmic belonging, all woven together. It is the story of dust becoming flesh, of questions rising from silence, of fleeting lives burning brightly in an ancient, silent universe.

The real beauty? Each of us gets to decide what existence means for us — and that freedom, that responsibility, is part of the essence itself.

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