People live life, and learn to look forward

If you do not take the initiative to break free, it will be difficult to come out of it.

Instead of letting yourself live in the past, you should learn to take the initiative to look ahead and see the other side of life, no longer cling to the past, learn to cherish the present, and live a better self.

People live a life, there is nothing to get over, look forward, it will be better!

1、Let go of gains and losses, brave forward

Some things, the authorities are always easy to see, think they can not get through, but actually into the wrong thinking.

The so-called can not get over it, many times are thought of themselves.

You should know that even if the sky is falling, there are tall people to hold on to, what is the point of not being able to get by now?

Overly concerned about those gains and losses, will only make their own physical and mental exhaustion, it is better to learn to look at the problem from a different perspective, from the gains and losses to see the cycle of cause and effect, there will be gains and losses.

Like win or lose this thing, to participate in the competition who want to win, just win must have lost, are in the full force of the game, only the better people can win, so win is proof of excellence, lose but do not be discouraged, early to know their shortcomings, to better improve themselves.

Gain and loss, loss and win, are the normal course of life, rather than calculating everything, it is better to treat with a normal heart, I am fortunate to gain, and lose my life.

Many things, the past is the past, the important thing is now, let go of gains and losses, brave forward, to live their own.

2、Forgive others, free yourself

Sometimes people are prone to foolishness, using the mistakes of others to punish themselves.

The wrong is others, but the trap is their own, entangled in the past grudges, want to get the desired "results", but did not think to spend time in this, just a waste of time, torture themselves.

It is important to know that you so-called can not let go of, in fact, others have already put down.

Even if your revenge can be successful one day, but what can you get, but non-stop revenge?

The injustice of the time, this revenge will only torture them, it is better to learn to let go at the time, forgive others, and free themselves.

Although it is difficult to "forgive", the damage that has been caused and continues to entangle only torment themselves, it is better to learn to let go, let yourself go, and let yourself have a chance to start over.

Life is only a few decades, why let unnecessary people occupy their lives?

Sometimes, for the "enemy", the best revenge than to make their own life better.

So, the forgiveness of others, letting yourself go, to live a better life, is the best revenge on others.

3、Let go of the past, take a big step forward

Can not let go of the obsession, and walk out of life.

People live a life, it is impossible to live forever in the past, or wait only to be eliminated.

No matter how big the injury, will always be time to heal the wound.

Maybe it will still hurt from time to time, but the past is the past, and continuing to dwell on it will only make living more painful, it is better to learn to put it down and start a new life.

As with the original family injury, that is indelible pain, but life goes on, why continue to torture yourself for people who have hurt you, or give up the happiness that was within reach?

Many times, the choice to put down, does not mean forgiveness, but only with their former selves, no longer bound by the past, choose to break free from the shackles to start anew, to embrace their happiness.

Only when you choose to let go can you start over and open a new chapter.

I hope we can all let go of the past and embrace the happiness that belongs to us, and stop torturing ourselves over unnecessary people.

Putting down the past is putting down the shackles and freeing yourself for a new start.