In the second half of life, accepting the ordinary and creating the extraordinary

The fact is that you can only pretend to be "perfect" and force yourself to compete with yourself, thinking that you can pretend for the rest of your life, but you don't think that the lie will eventually be punctured one day, cheating others, but not cheating yourself.

Some things can not do, instead of forcing yourself to compete with yourself, it is better to do what you can, to be true to yourself.

The gap between reality and the ideal is infinite, and efforts are not always rewarded.

Although the spirit of not admitting defeat is worth learning, but know that it is useless to continue to work hard, will only make you more tired of living, rather than accepting your own ordinary, do your own according to your ability.

1, accept their own ordinary

Between people, there is ultimately a gap, not just with hard work that can be reversed.

Some things, can not do is not done.

The efforts are sometimes in vain.

Just most people can not accept their mediocrity, so looking for excuses to excuse themselves.

The actual "disguise" can become real, but unfortunately, the fake is ultimately fake.

A strong disguise will only make you become unlike yourself, as if a puppet, with a fake smile, living in the shackles of bondage, losing the meaning of living.

In life, some people do not have real material, trying to spend money to study abroad to gild themselves, thinking that they have become a returnee can be superior, but the ability to keep up, the disguise is also useless.

As in the interview field, will say is the door knocker, but will do to stay.

It is better to disguise yourself and blame yourself than to put down your high expectations and accept your mediocrity.

Some things are good for your ability, win or lose is a common thing, accept the occasional loss, to have the opportunity to win.

As for being human, know how to accept their own ordinary, to achieve an extraordinary life.

2、Accept the faults of others

"No one is perfect, no gold is perfect", is a person who will have shortcomings, and there will be a time to make mistakes.

Unfortunately, most people "to themselves" and "external" are two attitudes, can accept their own bad, but will be harsh on others.

They will hold on to the faults of others, but will habitually let themselves off the hook.

I think this is good for myself, but I don't realize that blaming others is making enemies, and forgiving myself is indulging, and in the end, I will only get myself into a disaster.

Instead of this, it is better to be strict with yourself and lenient with others.

Many times tolerance to others' benefit is their own, as the saying goes, "the more you forgive people and forgive people," the more you are concerned, the easier it is to lose.

Too much calculation, rather than tolerance, that is not only the pattern of people to improve, or the beginning of a good relationship.

Sometimes, how you treat others, how others will be to you.

Perhaps kindness is not always rewarded, but calculating unkindness will offend many people.

People live a life, and only learn to accept others, to embrace goodwill.

3、The stupid bird flies first, live from the self

Although efforts are not necessarily rewarded, but it is difficult to see hope without effort.

Sometimes, insist on doing something, the effect is not visible in a short time, only persistent persistence to see results.

The dumb bird flies first, and under the dumb effort, takes the solid road.

At the beginning of how to work very slowly, but the accumulation of a long time may be a flight of fancy.

However, everyone understands the reasoning, but few can do it. The little thief who once laughed at Zeng Guofan lost not only his smartness but also to Zeng Guofan's persistent persistence.

If not for Zeng Guofan's composure and self-knowledge of the lack of hard learning, perhaps already declined under the blow of the little thief.

In life, some people are too much self-knowledge, and prematurely give up their own, obviously, efforts still have a chance, but do not want to spend time on this slim chance.

The road you think you're giving up is a difficult one, but what you're giving up is a shortcut.

As with the road of study, as long as you are willing to pay, you can reap the rewards, although natural talent will open the gap, but the effort can make up for the shortfall.

Sometimes you can't do it really should give up, stop in time, but not yet try to give up lightly.

Should you give up, only after the effort to know.

More ordinary people, as long as enough effort, it is possible to get out of the extraordinary road.

To be human, learn to accept yourself, not to give up on yourself, even if the chance is slim, but also to try hard.

Perhaps they are ordinary, but the effort may create a miracle.