People in middle age, do what you should do, live the life you want to live

The fact is that some people "save" themselves and try to improve themselves when others are just enjoying themselves so that they can go farther on the increasingly difficult road of life.

If you want to live a better life, there is no shortcut, but at the right time, do what you should do.

A person, when young, can still live as they wish, but when they get older and have more ties, they are no longer "alone" and always have to plan for their future.

Rather than continue to live in a way that you can get by, it is better to take advantage of now: save more money, read more books, and exercise harder.

In mid-life, the body has savings to not be restricted everywhere, read more books to release the physical and mental suffering and tiredness, a good body to be brave to do what they want to do.

1、Save money

People do not have long-term concerns, there must be near worries.

If you do not have half a deposit on your body, then once you encounter trouble, it is difficult to move.

A person can make money, we must have the ability to save money, complaining about money spent more than saved, instead of thinking about saving money, how to think about making money, make more money, to have more money saved.

Otherwise, the buckle swish to save a little money fear is not much and even affects the quality of life of their own and their families.

Save the money to spend, "block" is the way forward.

People in middle age, suffering from a dead-end salary, it is better to find more ways to make money, only to earn more, to save more, not to need money when there is no money.

Money is not everything, no money is never.

Only save enough money to allow their families to enjoy a better life treatment at the same time, the ability to deal with all unexpected accidents, the protection of their own, and also their families.

Time is like a shuttle, passing, we grew up, parents became old, had in front of us to block the wind and rain of the person slowly bent waist, hunchback, and had a young ignorant we took over their stick, do what they should do, try to earn money to support the family, and do everything possible to provide them with the best life.

When people reach middle age, they lose the qualification to be capricious, even if the burden is heavy and life is hard, they still silently hold on, take up the responsibility they should take, try to earn money to support the family and save money to cope with the unknown.

2、Read books

The book has its own gold house, the book has its face like jade.

When I was young, I didn't understand the meaning of reading, I thought reading was just for a good future, and I didn't need to read anymore when I had a job, but then I read more books to understand.

The book that you have read but forgotten has long been hidden in your memory, was only a stepping stone to enhance the self, but later became a cure for the soul, all the pain and sorrow, are here to get relief.

That one book after another, there is to improve the self to see, there is to solve the problem to see, there is to relieve the worries to see ...... although with the purpose to see, but see more, read in more, no longer cope, but want to see.

The book has good and bad, not worth reading as a joke to laugh at, worth reading can slowly read, repeatedly read, learned are their own, read into the nourishment is their own.

When I was a child, I was mostly forced to read, and when I grew up, I could rarely find the time to read a book, which was a task to read a book, but later I found that reading a book quietly is sometimes a real pleasure for the body and mind, and the depression in my heart seems to be relieved.

From being forced to read, to learning to read actively, is a person's growth.

When people reach middle age, only when they learn to read actively can they turn passivity into the initiative and master the dominance of life.

3, exercise

With the growth of age, the body more or less will have some problems, when the young unrestrained, will eventually hurt their bodies, yesterday squandered, into today's hard.

It is self-inflicted, but not irremediable, as long as there is a determination to change, there is nothing that can not be done.

I have an uncle in my hometown, when I was young, loved to drink, often drink to stomach bleeding, was a fat man, and then became as thin as a bone, the whole person is not good.

Fortunately, he knew it would not continue, picked up his favorite basketball when he was young, and now every morning will go to the playground near the school to play basketball, and his body is getting better every day.

Although at first, the exercise is indeed very tiring, over time will feel very painful.

Exercise is not only for the body but also for the whole person's spirit.

The body is healthy, and the whole person looks younger, to have more energy to do what they want to do.

People in middle age, don't easily give in to old age, or exercise, but also can be at "war" for thirty years.