People can't help themselves when they reach middle age

The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you're doing.

Many times, it's not that you don't want to live as you like when you're young, but you need to consider a lot of things in your middle age, not to think about doing, you need to worry about a lot of things.

As in the case of courageous things, encountering bad people doing bad things, if you can not help people may also be killed, rather than first choose to call the police, to ensure their safety under the premise of rescue, otherwise reckless action will only make things worse.

When you're young, you can still help people regardless, but in middle age you have to learn to "understand", and then sad to know the proportion, not to do things that should not be done, the end of tolerance must be tolerated.

At this time, they are not a person, but a family, no capricious capital, can only bear all in silence, and continue to carry the weight forward.

1, people in middle age, temper becomes "good"

Many times, older work is not easy to find, like when you're young, you want to resign naked on the naked resignation, you need to worry about too many things, even if you are angry again, you can only silently endure.

Onlookers look, said the temper of middle-aged people has become better.

In fact, not better, but compromised, forced by the reality of the step back, only to guard the things they want to guard.

The young people who were not afraid of tigers when they were born, became tired-looking middle-aged people, no longer a person fed, the whole family does not worry about comfort, but opened their eyes to work, for food, drink housing, and transportation of the living expenses of fatigue.

Money is not everything, but no money can not be.

That once not for the five buckets of rice bent backbone, in the reality of the "education" has changed, understand: even if the work is difficult, as long as you can earn money, and then the hard work is nothing.

So, the so-called temper change for the better, is in the day after day of the change in the wasted, no longer a little on the violence, and become learn to endure, to endure the suffering of life, swallow the work tired, and learn to take one step at a time on the ground.

When they can not change the status quo, they can only force themselves to change themselves, adapt to the cruelty of reality, tolerate social injustice, find the road that can be taken, even if their feet are full of blood, but also to grit their teeth and carry the weight forward, for the family to seek a stable life.

2、Middle-aged people, surrounded by the "lock"

Time passes quickly, and the teenagers have become middle-aged uncles.

The middle-aged life, less youthful vigor, more mature and stable.

No longer can be arbitrary and presumptuous age, no longer have the courage to say go, no longer can and friends hooked up to drink, open your eyes every day to see the tedious life, to feed, clothe and house the family and busy making money.

There is an old man, a young man, a little accident, life will no longer be calm.

Whether it is the health of parents, or children's schooling, which is the most important, need not only 100% attention, but also a certain material base.

If you do not work hard enough to earn money, it is difficult to load up the heavy shackles.

It is because the shackles are too heavy, so they do not dare to act rashly, only in the company with their tails between their legs, even if they are difficult, they can only grit their teeth and endure.

When the epidemic was severe, many places stopped working, and while white-collar workers could still work from home, people in other industries had to find another way to make a living.

Some people put down their faces to do masks in garment factories to help their families, working in the hot summer in the sweltering factory, getting hot and dizzy every day, but it was hard to earn a hundred dollars a day.

Not do not know what to earn money, just middle-aged people are afraid of "hand stop mouth stop", so see the opportunity to make money and would like to seize it.

Not for other reasons, but only for the money to be able to make their own in the event of an unexpected accident, the ability to take everything, and not to be too busy to do the wrong thing.

The people to the middle age, carrying the weight forward, and how can not do more planning, not afraid of ten thousand, afraid of the case.