Life keeps getting better and better, starting with the discovery of "problems

Read a story.

The crow was planning to move and its friend, the pigeon, asked it why it was moving away.

The crow's answer was, "The people here are too unkind to me, each one of them dislikes my caw."

In its opinion, it was not itself that was at fault, but others.

But the words of its friend, the dove, forced it to recognize the reality, "If you have an ugly voice, then you will be disliked everywhere you go."

In reality, most people encounter problems, the first thing that comes to mind is not to reflect on themselves, but first time to blame others, thinking that the fault is on others, it has nothing to do with themselves.

I don't know, a lack of remorse, waiting for the downhill slope of life, the more blame shifting, the more difficult it is to solve the problem.

Learn to reflect on their own "problems" to make the road of life more and more smooth, to achieve a better self.

1. No one is a saint, who can be without fault

No one is perfect, no one is born perfect, and there will inevitably be selfishness, and make some small mistakes.

Even the fictional paper people, there are imperfections, in all kinds of gorgeous adjectives, seemingly perfect people, behind the hidden secrets may not be known.

So, perfection is not necessarily a good thing, imperfection is not necessarily a bad thing, and the so-called good and bad, mainly depend on how you look at yourself.

A person's imperfection, although it is a "blow", looks at it another way, it is not a "progress space", you can let yourself in the correction of your shortcomings, and transform into a better version of yourself.

2. Knowing that you can correct your mistakes is the best thing to do

Doing something wrong is not scary, what is scary is not admitting it.

The preconceived notion that the mistake was made by others, and that they were only innocently implicated, but this reversal of black and white, fooled themselves, but not others.

Spoiled bear children think that whatever they do is forgivable, once someone is not generous forgiveness, then the wrong must be the other party.

The misconceptions that have been brainwashed under the love of the family will sooner or later suffer from the reality of the blow, there will always be people who are not willing to suffer, tearing apart the illusion that floats on the surface.

Wrong is wrong, can escape a moment, can not escape a lifetime, the responsibility to bear is ultimately to bear.

Instead of running away from the "problem" and getting yourself into trouble, why not take the initiative to admit your mistakes and correct yourself in the process of taking responsibility?

If you know your mistakes and can correct them, there is no greater good.

3. Keep correcting to achieve a better

People are happy with the good times, but the gentleman comes from the bad times.

The sooner a person finds his deficiencies, the better he can achieve in the process of correcting himself.

The existence of deficiencies, rather than reminding you "where you are not good", is to give you the direction to become better.

Perhaps now you have inadequacies, but the future of your infinite possibilities, only to see how you choose the moment.

Is to live and let live, is to see the problem to escape, or know how to reflect on their own ...... your choice at the moment, determine your future direction.

It's uphill, or downhill, not in how others see you, but in how you treat "problems", "life", and "yourself".

Efforts do not necessarily have a return but do not work hard to never get what you want, a look on the sidelines, do not know how to forge ahead, you can only see red.

So, don't say you have a bad life, your mistakes have been revealed as early as the "problem", know that mistakes are not corrected, are to make their own mistakes on top of mistakes.

Time to complain about life, so why not reflect on yourself?

Only when you know your mistakes, and constantly correct yourself, can you achieve a better you, so that your life continues to get better.