Life is known if we choose to see

No matter how you look at it whether you are dealt a bad hand in life which is probably the best thing in life to throw at you because you can either choose to stay down or get back up and it is up to you what to do and I do not think we are meant to do nothing. Nothing comes easier than working at what you want however, nothing can be done if you just sit there and feel sorry for yourself. I used to think that nothing would come to me because I was a failure, and the thing is life showed me more than what my parents could let alone my past relationships or my friends. Life has showed me a lot throughout the years which up to now I realize I was not paying attention because of my pain of losing people more than I could count. What people forget to see is the good in what your life must bring but it just does not happen overnight and working at it has its benefits once you think about it where you are now will not be compared to where you are now. The unknown is always going to be scary do not we owe it ourselves to know what is in store. Doubts can be at our minds but how can we do something if we just doubt ourselves, we will never know till we try so, why not go try something and push yourselves no matter how long it takes life will always show us things we can see we just need to pay attention and we will see what it must show us. Whatever we go through will always test us and most people have a hard time of letting go for that reason we can’t find what we want because of what we can’t let go which makes life pass us by. We are so busy over the hurting we go through we don’t stop to look at what we should be doing after it’s all said and done so, thinking about something else is something we don’t do and get distracted by what life gives us as a lesson. Negatively seeing it is a given we all go through that but what does that negative effect on facing it teach us or it is forgotten as a lesson when a person doesn’t want to face it for whichever reason and in all facts there’s never an easy way to face things that hurt us in life. The growing pains of our lives aren’t constant and if you see life as a negative lesson there’s also a reason why it’s a negative lesson that you may not see at first but if you look closely enough, you’ll see what life has to show you after the grief you’ve gone through if you choose to see it. The good and bad of life can be twisting enough to drive you crazy moreover once we think about the events we go through as human beings lead us to a path which is either good or bad that can be taken back depending on the situation you’re in. When the dust settles it’s really up to you if you want to change the place you’re at now to the place where you need to be in life you are your own downfall to making yourself fail at what you want because if you don’t change your mindset you’re only going to set yourself up to fail and working for your future is more better than doing nothing when life has got you on the ropes but what should be a given is not giving up because what life throws your way.