Life down falls.

Right when you think you’re getting a grip of something, it crumbles right before your eyes. Is it what is supposed to be or did you bring this upon yourself? Is there someone who is willing to tell you?

If you’re like most of us. The answer might be No.

No, you did not bring this upon yourself.

And No, no one will be willing to tell you.

No one will be willing put you or anyone before they put themselves, mostly if you ask me... fear. Fear, will keep you from who you are. It will bring you all the way down to dirt and it is only up to you to bring yourself back up. Even when we have people who matter and you matter to them they still fear for themselves. No wrong or harm done, simply nothing more than selfish.

Selfish because we all at some point in life need a sturdy hand to hold, one that will not retract when things get dark. A hand that will stay sturdy for YOU. Only you when you need it. That’s why you need to be that person you always need. Become that hand and that moral,emotional and every single way of support that a human needs. Not only because it’s good as a person to spread goodness but because that was our job. Once you open your eyes to the world it’s hard to close them back and even try to give your back to it to relax and take your breather. No one will ever come to you and ask if your okay, not with the real intentions of helping 100% through any process, not because they are bad people simply fear stops them. Fear that you might not be worth their help, time or efforts. Which, for each its own. But, what good does that bring?

Brings the momentary relief,peace and calmness but that always goes away faster than you wish and sometimes it’s only a one time thing. People will help if they feel good doing it if not, they will give their back to you and don’t think twice. Again, for each his own. Never put yourself down for one, never let someone point their also dirty fingers at you. Never, no matter who, when and under what circumstances. Why? Simply because no one should feel better by other downfalls. Seeing someone fall usually makes us feel like we’re better when we’re all in the same boat. You are not perfect and never will be. Flesh will end, flesh will be here one second and gone the next. Are you really attached to yourself? Could you live with yourself if that’s all you had? Your own meat and bones? We don’t need much to keep flesh happy. Not much, but for people Love,Kindness and consideration is not worth much. Not much at all, we rather have the momentary pleasure. When you know that’s not lasting and still people take risk for a quick brain discharge that will make you think and convince you that’s all you need until it’s gone and then you will question if it was worth it, but what can be more worth it than a happy life while you existed.