Let yourself go, to live yourself
The first thing you need to do is to get rid of the problem.

Some things are finely crafted, there will inevitably be flaws, not to mention life, there may be surprises at any time, to catch you off guard, and can not respond in a better state.
So, instead of forcing the perfect that you can't get, you should learn to find the beauty in the present life.
In life, the only one who can torture himself is himself.
There is time to complain about the bad life, it is better to change the mindset, a different way of life.
No longer obsessed with the trivial things of the moment, but to learn to find the beauty of life, to find a way of life for themselves, not to compare, not jealous, not entangled ...... feet on the ground step by step.
1, there is no life can not get over things
The so-called can't get over, only temporary, the present can do not mean that later.
A lot of times have not tried to work, to give up lightly, and finally get is only constant failure.
Failure is not scary, what is scary is to fail and never get up.
I think there is still a chance, but forget that the opportunity has long been given up by your own, this is the mouth to say give up, but finally, becomes a habit, repeatedly breaking the bottom line, and finally forcing themselves to no way back.
Not fate wasted you, not others hindered you, but you gave up on yourself.
I mistakenly thought that "can not pass", there is no way out of life, but did not think of turning, there may be a village of luck.
Most of the time, the so-called no way out, but a leaf blind, if you know how to look at another angle, you will probably find the difference, to find a chance of life in the desperate.
There are no things in life that cannot be overcome, only things that have not been figured out, learn to look at the problem from a different perspective, to find the impossible in the possible, so that the problem can be solved, not resistance, but rather become a thrust.
2、Wild thoughts, hard to bear their own
Once people get into the bull's eye, it is easy to trap themselves, trapped in the pain of self-hatred, so that the problem could have been solved to become even worse.
I thought life was torturing me, but in reality, I was torturing myself.
Knowing that thinking too much can not solve the problem, but still, let yourself think, and finally "think" too bad mood, not only will make you uncomfortable, but also let yourself have no courage to face.
Therefore, there is time to think and find yourself guilty, it is better to spend time on improving yourself.
Very often, only if you become better, you can have more options, otherwise, you will only wait to be dominated.
Although work is only a way to make money, the East can not hit the West, but if you do not have enough strength, change more work is difficult to find your satisfaction, or occasionally need to put up with some unfair treatment.
People live a life, and want to live better, just thinking is not useful, the important thing is to do.
Not to the things, not to their sadness, optimistic life, live from the self.
Even if you are in the doldrums, do not easily give up on yourself, when you win or lose because you think too much and scare yourself to death, that is undoubtedly foolish, there is this time to think, rather than trying to cheer up.
As long as you dare to take the first step, then the next road is not so difficult to walk.
Life is not in the complaints, comparisons, and jealousy, those should not have negative emotions, once indulged, the ultimate destruction is their own, instead of letting themselves be manipulated by them, why not learn to control them and become the master of their own lives?
Optimism in the face of life, everything will slowly become better.
3、Be a better version of yourself by keeping your feet on the ground
Although life is rarely complete, you can try to do your best.
Every time you insist, you try to do your best and breakthrough yourself again and again in the effort.
When you look back, you will find that you have changed a lot compared to the past, not because of the change in appearance over time, but because of the breakthrough that comes from constantly trying to improve yourself.
Although there are still shortcomings, it is getting better.
Believe in yourself, keep your feet on the ground, take one step at a time, and you will eventually meet with a better you.
Perhaps the process will encounter a lot of trials and tribulations, but as long as you get through, everything will slowly become better.
What you thought was out of your reach may become available in the future, when you should be thankful for the efforts you are making now.
Because hard enough, so you can be luckier and luckier.



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