Get rid of high expectations to usher in a new life

Seemingly perfect, but maybe a trap, once you fall into perhaps all hell will break loose.

Very often, too high expectations of a thing, thinking too well, and finally, waiting for what may be disappointing.

The actual internet is a great place to meet, to get away from the network, to return to the reality of the interaction, thinking that this is a beautiful encounter, but finally found that everything "sees the light", the network opposite the person is not as good as they thought.

The more you expect, the easier it is to get hurt.

Instead of being on the losing side, you should put away your expectations and make a sensible judgment.

Not all expectations will be answered, sometimes the harvest is disappointed again and again.

Reducing the sense of expectation, to making life everywhere is a surprise.

1, high expectations, waiting for more is disappointed

When talking about dreams as a child, always habitually think in a good way, but as you grow older, you will find that the dream was too good, underestimated the reality of the cruelty, and failing is easy to stumble.

At that time how high expectations, and later disappointment is how big.

I thought I could "succeed in one fell swoop" of expectations, and ultimately failed in the overestimation of self and underestimation of reality, rather than let high expectations "abuse" themselves, rather than reduce the sense of expectation, feel the joy of success.

Many times, the effort to pay will be rewarded, just a matter of time early and late.

One failure does not mean forever, and the constraint of high expectations will only drive you to the end of the line and wait for more disappointment.

Many people in life expect too much from certain things and cannot accept the unsatisfactory time and time again, thinking that they can always wait for the time to come, but they do not think that once they are deep in the valley, it will be difficult to come out of it.

If there is no strong willpower, it is really difficult to start again.

There are times when expectations, whether too high or too low, are prone to extremes.

Instead of being manipulated by emotions due to expectations, it is better to lower your expectations and take one step toward your heart's desire.

When you get rid of high expectations, you will find that you are not so bad.

2, high expectations, so that the life of the road is more narrow

Do people have ignorance of the time, then do not know where the road is, and then walk more out of their road?

At the beginning of the journey with a companion, everything can be discussed, only later found: some things are too good to think, and it is easy to eat a little bit of suffering. Someone can always accompany who, the road ahead can only rely on themselves.

Some things expect too much, think too well, only to get themselves into the fantasy, thought to do certain things can get what they want, but not think that the plan can not catch up with the change, expect too much, easy to make people more disappointed.

Like, some things do not have, there will be no desire, but once you have but will get, will want to get more.

In the beginning when someone wants to commit a crime, only in the failure of a series of blows, the loss of the will to live, mistakenly thinking that revenge can be relieved, but when the injustice is done, it is better to leave a line in everything, and meet later.

Although the high expectations of people and things, not to lose the recognition of the self, the reality is cruel, think good, not is true after all.

Continue to set high expectations, only to make their life road more and more narrow.

Want to live a good life, we must learn to lower expectations, accept life's imperfections, and strive to be a better version of ourselves.

3、Get rid of high expectations to usher in a new life

Very often, the only thing that traps you is yourself.

When you encounter problems, the first thing you think of is to ask for help, but do not think about the possibility of self-help coming faster.

You should know that when the world abandons you, it never says hello to you, except for yourself, who has the possibility of leaving you behind.

Instead of putting your hope in others, you should learn to save yourself by yourself.

Only by letting go of high expectations of others can you discover a better version of yourself from it.

Perhaps the current self is more inadequate, but as long as you are willing to work hard to accumulate strength, sooner or later you can achieve a better self.

When you have enough strength, and no longer have to look forward to relying on others, you can usher in a new life, open a new chapter of life, and find your way of living, otherwise will live in the past, surrounded by disappointment, become that deep low.