Know how to make fun of the bitterness to live to the end

Seemingly all alive, the reality is that many people are left with only empty shells.

The youthful enthusiasm, in life, is wasted, into a false facade, and the slightest inattention will fall into the trap of others.

Some people are overly concerned about the views of others, thinking that as long as they are willing to change will become better, but unfortunately, the speed of change is not as fast as the speed of other people picking faults, and then how to change is very difficult to get satisfactory results.

To be a human being, instead of living in the eyes of others, why not jump out of the shackles and live a better version of yourself?

Although the current self just exists, but as long as the willingness to work hard to achieve a better self, one will eventually live a better self.

Live, and then bitter to persevere, only the heart of hope, to survive again and again difficult.

1、Have hope, life has a future

Wang Zengqi once said, "I'm a little tired, but I always have to have the courage to make a god-like life in a dog-like life."

Knowing how to make fun out of bitterness, you can find the meaning of living and have a chance to start over.

And complaining about the misfortunes of life will only make you fall into self-hatred and make life more unfortunate.

Some people, today complaining about tired work, tomorrow complaining about low wages, the day after complaining about being bullied ...... not a day without complaining, thinking that complaints can be identified, but never thought which there is so much empathy, complaining more will only make yourself live as a joke.

Those you think are unfortunate, not your life is not good, but your indulgence in negative emotions created by the tragedy.

The more you complain about God, the more you will live, unfortunately.

Instead of letting yourself be surrounded by misfortune, you should learn to face it optimistically and give yourself the courage to face the trials and tribulations of life.

The suffering in front of you is only temporary, as long as the heart has hope, the greater the suffering will eventually pass.

2、Within your means, you can go farther

Heard a story.

Haruki Murakami has a habit of writing only 4,000 words a day and then stops writing afterward.

This habit from 1982, has been maintained to this day.

He did not put too much pressure on himself, but just persevered within his ability, compared to people who set their plans too high but could not stick to them to go farther, so he became a best-selling author who lasted for more than twenty years.

Although human potential is unlimited, do not know how to do it within the limits of their ability, which will only make their lives constantly frustrated.

Only by being patient and taking one step at a time on the ground can you achieve the ultimate victory.

If you "grow" the seedlings by force alone, you will not get the result you want, but you will also hurt yourself.

If you want to go longer in life, you have to learn to do what you can, not to do what you can't do.

As the saying goes, "one bite does not make a fat man," the rush will only make the "win" mixed with water, there is always the possibility of failure, rather than taking every step on the ground, when the ability is not enough to sink deep into their own, with adequate preparation for the unknown Everything.

Be a human being, and know how to act according to your ability, to make yourself go farther.

3、To live a good life, life can be complete

I heard that "all the extraordinary things in this world, in the end, all have to return to ordinary, all have to use ordinary life to measure its value.

Great, wonderful, successful are nothing, only the ordinary life well, life is complete."

No matter how many trials and tribulations in life, as long as you live, do not think about escaping, can escape a moment, can not escape a lifetime, rather than passively accept, why not bravely face, grasp the dominant power in life.

Although the effort will not necessarily be rewarded, but not hard for life is difficult to see hope.

Ordinary life, is seemingly ordinary, but most people do their best to get happiness, there is time to complain about the dissatisfaction of life, rather than trying to live each day now.

Relying on their efforts, live better and better, to create the ordinary in the extraordinary, so that life tends to complete.