Know how to focus on the self, to embrace happiness

In the chaos of the world, few people can handle things without being surprised, more or less by the constraints of the world.

Either in the struggle to win in the self-imposed, is lost in the field of fame and fortune, so that should be focused on life, by a variety of things to interfere with.

Once you have fallen, it is difficult to find yourself again.

Very often, only by focusing on oneself and blocking out outside voices can you embrace the happiness you want.

1. desire, devouring is life

Tsai Kang-Yong said, "Without desire, I'm afraid it can only become boring, rather than getting wisdom."

A person wants to live better, without the desire to add, but the existence of desire is like seasoning, the right amount to double the delicious, otherwise, it will be a disaster for a good dish.

Good desire is the driving force to move forward, bad desire is the resistance to life, can not distinguish between good and bad, a single indulgence, the final disaster is their own, let themselves become slaves of desire.

Under the desire to establish the right three views, understand that there are some things for people to do and something not to do, and adhere to their bottom line, so as not to make their desire in the "aggressive" step backward.

Some people are determined to get ahead, and at first, they can still stick to the bottom line to make money, but under the repeated temptation of others, they give in to their desires and choose to take a step back again and again.

Each time they say "do not do it after this time", but will still be uncontrolled to do it again, and finally made themselves into the abyss of crime.

Later, he thought back countless times, if he had held on to his bottom line, there would not have been so much regret.

The desire to indulge at that time, devouring his own life.

Only by keeping your bottom line can you be a better version of yourself.

2. Climbing, lost is the self

Be a person, the most fear is climbing.

Climbing to climb to go, win want to win again, lose and resent, and finally will fall into self-loathing.

Envy other people's lives better than their own, jealous of other people's careers more than their success, and resent the fate of their injustice ......

Climbing covers their eyes so that they can only see the shortcomings of life, only complain about fate, can not see the life in front of them, and finally lost their own.

Yu Qiuyu said, "The starting point of jealousy is people's hidden concern about their vulnerability."

Instead of allowing yourself to lose your heart because of jealousy, you should try to improve yourself, walk away from the comparison and prove yourself with strength.

You eye the surface glory of others but forget how much heartache is hidden behind the glory, and when you envy others, they are also envying you.

Live in the climbing, won once, can not win countless times, there is always a time to lose, rather than living in the moment, focus on doing what you want to do.

The harder you work now, the luckier you will be tomorrow.

Put down the climbing, to find the real self, the wider the road in the present.

3. Gossip, interference in the life

Wherever you are, many people gossip.

How to avoid can not avoid, rather than learn to "do not care".

But other people say it's hard to hear, as long as you do not care, it does not affect you.

Too much care about what others say, only to suffer themselves, affecting their normal life.

The world does not let all people are satisfied with the existence of people, no matter how well you do, there will be gossip about the existence of people, rather than changing their lives for others, it is better to block out the outside world's voice and focus on doing a better job themselves.

Some words, as a joke to listen to or even, ignore, sometimes are the best counter to gossip.

Don't let other people's gossip affect your normal life, anyway, life is their own, care so much about others will only be hard on themselves.

The more you care, the happier the gossipers will be.

Instead of continuing with them, their own lives into other people's "masterpieces", why not focus on yourself and try to live well in the moment?