In the world of adults, no one to rely on, only self-transition

When you are young, you can rely on your parents for injuries, but when you grow up, you can only rely on yourself, and as you grow older, you need to take on more and more responsibility.

On the road with the weight, you will inevitably fall, but fall crying is useless, you can only get up and continue to walk, life is like this, sweet and sour, bitter, spicy and salty mixed with it, or bitter or spicy are to bear their own.

The world of adults can only rely on themselves.

The road ahead is difficult to walk, but also to carry the weight forward.

1. try to get through, time will give the answer

"Time is willing to ferry, are those who are eager to ferry themselves."

If someone wants to take a shortcut to rely on others to get through the difficult times or choose to give up, in the end, will not be able to walk that hurdle, not to lose to others, but to themselves.

Preconceived low opinion of their own, did not think how to rely on their own to solve, but to take shortcuts or give up, seems to be the easiest way to choose, but the actual is the most difficult.

The hard part is not now, but later.

Now unwilling to eat the pain, the future will have to be doubled.

In the cycle of cause and effect, since the personal choice, you never know how lazy you choose the road, for the future to lay the root of the disaster.

You can't imagine how open life of hard work is.

The problems that exist today may seem hard to get through, but with a little more effort you may be able to get through, and everything will have a new turnaround.

The future is unknown, so why not take advantage of the present to work hard, a beautiful life, even if the loss does not leave regrets?

As long as the effort will leave traces, time will tell you the final result, no matter what the result, the effort is to win.

2. losing is not necessarily losing, winning may not last long

Life has a loss and a win.

A momentary win or loss, does not mean anything.

No one can always win, and no one can always lose.

Learn to be objective about winning and losing, to gain experience from it, better refine yourself and achieve a better you.

Losing is not necessarily losing, learn from the experience, to prepare for the next win; win may not last, but a momentary victory does not mean forever, once overwhelmed by the victory, what you get is bound to be the next loss.

Only by constantly working to improve ourselves, we can be ready to meet the challenges of the unknown, not afraid to win or lose, only to achieve better.

Life has good times, but there are also adversities, it is impossible to have smooth sailing, and even the most powerful people have been beaten down, this time can do is to get through.

Only if you do not admit defeat and try to get through, it is possible to see the rainbow after the rain, but "getting through" is not easy.

During the period may experience numerous defeats, was beaten to the ground, physical and mental damage, but this is not the point.

If you admit defeat at this time, you have lost.

Only try to survive to the end, to become the final winner.

Originally a very narrow road, the more you go, the wider it will be.

3. Live in the moment, step by step

No matter what stage of life, one can not avoid confusion.

Instead of stopping to think, it is better to walk and look.

Perhaps in the process of walking, you will find out what you want and need in your heart, and slowly get out of your life road.

Romain Rolland said, "The worst enemy in life is the lack of clear goals and sufficient knowledge."

The wrong "guard" is the road, but forget to guard the final result is to lose, only guard not attack will not be a breakthrough, and finally, more self-bound, can not walk their set limits.

So, don't wait for old age to regret, instead of sitting on the sidelines, it is better to take the initiative, to dig their life road.

Efforts do not necessarily win, but giving up will fail.

While there is still time, try to do what you want to do, even if it is difficult, what does it matter, persistence is victory, until the end who does not know the results?

The road is far away, only constantly walking to find.

When you keep walking, you can eventually find your road.